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I met him about 6-7 years ago when he lived in Miami (but he is from NYC). He was supposedly 23 at the time so he has to be close to 30 by now. He is the only escort I've met who set a timer on his phone. At 50 minutes, it went off and he told me to hurry up and get off or he will start charging me for an additional hour after 60 minutes. Totally killed the mood. He has a hot body and a nice cock but I wouldn't give him another penny.

More than fair in my opinion. If you already paid $240 for a massage with no extras, a $20 tip if more than enough and I would argue not required at all. Remember-this is all tax free. The providers are already setting the rate. It's not like they are restaurant workers who don't even make minimum wage and it's not the same as getting a massage in a spa where the masseur only gets a portion of the overall cost.

Here is his profile with the new name. https://rentmasseur.com/TomBigAndTall

He was in Detroit as of yesterday (using a new name which I've now forgotten) and was supposed to be here until the 26th but his ad is now gone so not sure where he went.

I met him for a massage and it was the only time I walked out of an appointment. The room was filthy, the sheets were very dirty with stains everywhere from servicing past clients, open bottles of poppers all over the room. I tried to overlook it but about ten minutes into the massage finally had enough. He is very effeminate and the pressure was non-existent. It's obvious he has zero skills and very limited English so communication was tough. He may be good as an escort (as it appeared he likes a good pounding) but definitely don't recommend for massage.

I can't keep up with all the names he has used in the past year or so. Regardless of the name, this guy is a scam so watch out.

Usually about $150-200. I'm down there quite a bit and you'll find some around $100 but most are more now.

Great massage. I see him every time he is in town. Mature, professional, friendly but quiet until you get to know him. He'll take care of you well.

I spoke too soon. I met Marklom in the past and he was great. I noticed a few weeks ago he added some additional pictures but they were all fake as well. Not really sure why he continues to post all the fake pics, but the actual guy is very good looking so didn't really care. We made an appt for last night at 8:00. We had several back/forth texts and messages over the past couple of weeks. All very polite, small talk, etc. Confirmed yesterday all was good and then he went AWOL. He read my RM messages and texts but he never responded. The time came and went and I was stood up. Yet another game player. Just wanted to share my (updated) experience in case anyone is thinking of hiring him. Never again.

I've seen him a couple of times but probably wouldn't repeat. He says he's been certified all over the world and has a special "nuru" massage that's his schtick. Most of that is likely BS. Other than a few things at the beginning, it's just the usual massage you get from anyone. He's a nice guy and I really enjoy talking to him. The first time was OK but with limited sensual/erotic elements, yet I decided to see him again. The second time was not as good so I probably wouldn't see him again. Great guy but the experience just wasn't up to the level that I expect.

Thanks for the warning! Will definitely be staying away from this one.

100% agree. I've never found price to be a good indicator of service level at all in this industry. I'm not talking about personal preferences either since chemistry plays a large role in that. I'm talking communication, punctuality, honesty, hygiene, meeting duration...... One would expect the $400/hour escorts to excel in those areas but that is often not the case so I'm left wondering why I should be paying a premium for the same (or lower) service as the $200/hour escort.

Agreed. I keep track of all the rates I've been quoted and currently the average rate in the Midwest if $278/hour, and that is for hot guys that are in shape with decent reviews. (I don't usually contact any that have poor reviews or a less than stellar reputations). That rate is based on 32 quotes since the beginning of the year. I got tired of some escorts insisting their rates were competitive so I started keeping my own market data. $400-$500 may be the norm on the coasts but that's not the case in the rest of the country.

I have not but can tell you the stats in his profile are not real. His height is actually about 5'5" and his cock definitely is not 8 inches. I met him as a masseur and is a definite no repeat from me. He also says he is originally from Miami which is also false. He's from Baghdad but was raised in metro Detroit before moving on/off to Texas a couple of years ago. Now it seems like he has moved to MIA.

Looks like he is now escorting. In the past he only advertised on the massage site if I recall correctly. He quoted me $350/hour to bottom. https://rent.men/Z_Man

My experience has always been the same. No BS, no upcharges, etc.

??? Escorts only see one client per day, or 5-6/week as you mentioned? Maybe those working in their home market but that is definitely not the case when traveling. I know of no escort that flies from NYC to Chicago for example only to see one client per day.

Does he top? If so, that is new. His specialty is being a power bottom.

There were a lot of posts about him and most were negative, including mine. No idea if/why the many posts about him disappeared. He is neither engaged nor interested and tries to finish the session as quickly as possible. Most said it lasted 30 minutes or less which was also the case when I met him. Nice enough guy but has little personality. A definite no repeat from me.

If only we had that in the US! Make it legal and that would solve a lot of the issues we have in the US.

Yes. I'm the client in this case. My own clients negotiate my rates all day long. When was the last time you purchased a car or home and just accepted whatever price the seller offered?

No. The escorts are glad that clients think they will get a lower level of service if they are paying $300 vs $400. I haven't found that to be the case. In regards to your next question; yes I have in fact. I have a MBA from Michigan and have run a very successful business for 35 years. $300+/hour (tax free!) is nothing to sneeze at regardless of your market. Driving for Uber won't get you anywhere close to that. At that rate, I expect some level of professionalism. Unfortunately that is often lacking.

100% agree. The market will set the rates but as you mentioned, the "logic" being used by so many of the providers would never fly in any other industry. I don't expect the providers to all have MBAs but some basic business knowledge may not be a bad idea.

I haven't found that to be true, but the escorts are glad some people feel that way. Some providers start out at ridiculously high rates and when I ask for a discount they drop the price significantly. I don't think the service I'm provided at $300 is any different than if I had paid the $400 they originally quoted. A lot/most of the escorts try to charge the same rate regardless of what city they're in. Too often the guy who charges $400 in NYC is shocked to find out he can't get that in the Midwest or smaller cities. Nothing about this industry is a bargain. An hourly rate of $300+ if definitely more than the vast majority of us clients make. I wish I could bill my clients $300/hour.

Yes, the lack of a single smile in any photo is definitely one of mine as well. Usually says something about the guy's personality/attitude.