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Not at all. There are plenty of guys who don't get into anal.

I met him a couple of years ago when he was using a different name (he's changed it many times) and it was not a good experience. A lot of promises before you meet but the actual session was a joke. One of the worse I've met.

I've heard the same about this guy, but never actually met him. The pics are not of him but he is actually better looking than the pics.

The issue is the word "choice". Think of the millions of people who have been harmed, discriminated against and even killed because others said sexual orientation is a choice. Choice means you had an alternative and that simply isn't the case for most gay men-at least none that I know. When I see a naked woman, I don't get hard. It's not a choice. There is simply no attraction. For some others such as bisexuals, maybe they are attracted to both. Who knows? Who cares? The bottom line is, this talk of "choice" has caused irreparable harm to so many. Think conversion therapy as an example. The discussion about nature vs. nurture is a different matter.

I'm not sure about common but definitely not rare either for an erotic massage. I had a masseur sit on my cock last week with no prior notice or discussion. He said that was just part of his erotic massage and included in the rate. Some of my best experiences were with providers from the massage site and not the escort site.

Nada. This must be his first time visiting Detroit.

We have another one in the Midwest that just popped up yesterday. https://rentmasseur.com/MikeStudio He is traveling back and forth across the country every two days.

No tip required unless they go above and beyond what is expected or agreed upon. They are self-employed and already set the rate so tipping is not required in my opinion. That being said, I think the tipping culture in the US has gotten out of hand so maybe I'm the scrooge.

He was in Detroit last week and I contacted him about availability and here is the reply I got back. "I only offer professional massage services, nothing more" . He then went on to say he actually is no longer here, although the dates on his profile showed he was. Don't know anything more than that but he did reply promptly.

Same here. I've been to Brazil probably a dozen times (most of those to Rio) and never had an incident....but all those visits were pre-pandemic so it sounds like it's gotten a lot worse.

I haven't seen that very much. In the Midwest the average is about $150. I've seen a few in the $200 range but that is usually more of an escort rate.

Looks like TurkishdelightY decided to get into porn. He is a new model on Sean Cody. https://www.queermenow.net/blog/jason-emre-seancody-gay-porn-axel-rockham/ https://rent.men/TurkishDelightY I did end up meeting him in December. Really nice guy. Would probably repeat.

I know Joe fairly well and have recommended him to a couple of guys in San Diego from this site who contacted me after seeing my post. They both hired him and said he was amazing. I think tomorrow is his last day in SD if you want to see him.

He's a young kid that has no idea what he's doing. He joined in October using that name but several months earlier he used another. He quoted me $250 for full service in late October. He lives with roommates so can rarely host. That's all I know because I decided we weren't a good match.

Agreed. Thanks everyone.

It looks like this guy is back again. https://rent.men/CassJu

Bump. New face-at least for the Detroit area. Don't remember ever seeing him in the past.

I just met Jorge for the first time. He's a great guy with a killer body and gives a very erotic massage. I think he has all five star reviews and now I understand why. I will definitely be a repeat customer.

Looks great. You can never go wrong with a John Kanell recipe. The only recipe of his that I found to be just mediocre was his double-chocolate chip cookies. Everything else has been excellent.

Here is an excellent key lime pie recipe that has never failed me-and no key limes needed. https://www.onceuponachef.com/recipes/key-lime-pie.html

Sure, but if you are only working a few hours/week, wouldn't that be considered more of a hobby and not a profession? It's hard to compare to those doing this as a side hustle. I don't follow your math. One client/day still equates to $109k/year which is still decent money compared to the average American salary and it's all tax free. These guys are not doing it to make the equivalent of $1.78/hour.

I could name several in this thread who appear to be.

No I didn't. As I said "on a forum made up largely of gay men"-not all. I doubt we have too many people on this forum with their heads buried in the sand and even fewer who think they are a "victim of predetermined destiny". There seems to be a lot of confusion between sexual orientation and lifestyle. There may be fluidity in both, but they are not the same.

I always start with RM messaging. If the provider won't even provide the basics (availability, rate, etc), then I won't switch to texting. To me a message via RM is an icebreaker. Get the basics out of the way first and if it appears we are a match, I will continue via text if they want. To those providers who insist it's just too much work to look at their RM app...give me a break. At $300/hour, I think people in most professions would be more than happy to look at their messages a few times per day. I have to respond to about a thousand emails and texts every day in my career and don't make anywhere close to $300+/hour. I'm sure I'm not alone.

Who would have thought that in 2023 we are still debating whether sexual orientation is "chosen" or not-especially on a forum which is made up largely of gay men. I keep having to remind myself I'm not on a website run by the Family Research Council or Westboro Baptist Church.