Medin

Unfortunately this is fairly common and as you suspected, RM most likely won't do anything about it.

Overall a decent guy. He is trained so can provide a true therapeutic massage if that is what you are looking for. Probably not the best massage I've ever had, but not bad by any means either.

This may all sound good on paper but in reality (especially with this provider), I'm not sure my role as a client is to develop an escort's business model. This is a luxury service industry. At $300+ per hour, I expect some of the basics such as being able to communicate, perform, being polite, punctual, hygienic, etc. The list goes on. If he hasn't yet "developed" his skill set, he should be charging a lot less than $350/hour until he gets there. I don't go to a restaurant, drop $350 on a terrible meal and then tell management I can't wait to come back to give them a second chance and teach them how to properly cook A5 wagyu. That is their job. If I'm paying for 60 minutes I expect the session to last close to 60 minutes. I have met this particular provider and had the same experience as several others in this thread. It was one of my worst experiences and I've had plenty.

He just quoted me $600/hour minimum. Wow. I guess if he can get it......

Met him twice. The first time was very good. The second time a completely opposite experience. He was really sick and kept coughing, hacking, etc. He should not have been seeing clients in that condition and of course I got sick as well. I wouldn't repeat again.

https://www.seancody.com/model/344261/jason-emre

He's a nice guy and recently started filming for Sean Cody as well where he is called Jason something.

Mark gives an excellent therapeutic massage. He is trained and licensed. He usually now travels with his partner and they seem to prefer tandem massages, but don't advertise as such. I saw him a few times until I got tired of the preaching during the massage. Last time I saw him he got into a rant on how I should try having sex with women (I have) and how he had sex with a trans woman a few years ago and it changed his life, etc. During the first two sessions he got into a deep discussion about the need to calm my amygdala and then quizzes you during the next session to be sure you are "following his advice". The actual massage is very therapeutic but I can do without the unnecessary commentary so I quit seeing him.

If the plan is for the massage therapist to be naked or other activities may take place, then I would say it is fine to ask.

I would definitely not recommend Cuban_boy. He changes his name continuously, is very rude and overpriced. He wants $300 for a JO session and if you ask about oral, he'll go off on you-no pun intended. He has always advertised on the massage site but is now advertising on the escort site as well. Just be sure you don't ask him about what services he offers (other than massage) because he will be very "offended". https://rent.men/CUBAN_BOY

Bump. I don't know any locals who have met him but do know he seems to change his profile location continuously, but all within the metro area.

The use of the term "illegal/undocumented" is now considered racist? Wow....I live in a "progressive" city full of immigrants and have yet to hear that one. I'm getting old I guess.

Same experience as mine. He is from Detroit but moves back/forth to NYC. Nice enough guy but my experience was extremely rushed. I think I was in/out of his apartment in about 30 minutes max and he was practically pushing me out the door as I was getting dressed.

I couldn't agree more. In any large metropolitan area, the drive time can be 1-2 hours so I always ask the provider for the general area (city, suburb, east side, west side, etc) where they are staying to get an idea about timing. More often than not they don't answer or state they will provide that once I've booked.

I met him in early 2022. He was just OK and I wouldn't repeat. A lot of attitude in a little guy but he did (eventually) provide the agreed upon service. Feel free to PM if you want further details.

Not at all. There are plenty of guys who don't get into anal.

I met him a couple of years ago when he was using a different name (he's changed it many times) and it was not a good experience. A lot of promises before you meet but the actual session was a joke. One of the worse I've met.

I've heard the same about this guy, but never actually met him. The pics are not of him but he is actually better looking than the pics.

The issue is the word "choice". Think of the millions of people who have been harmed, discriminated against and even killed because others said sexual orientation is a choice. Choice means you had an alternative and that simply isn't the case for most gay men-at least none that I know. When I see a naked woman, I don't get hard. It's not a choice. There is simply no attraction. For some others such as bisexuals, maybe they are attracted to both. Who knows? Who cares? The bottom line is, this talk of "choice" has caused irreparable harm to so many. Think conversion therapy as an example. The discussion about nature vs. nurture is a different matter.

I'm not sure about common but definitely not rare either for an erotic massage. I had a masseur sit on my cock last week with no prior notice or discussion. He said that was just part of his erotic massage and included in the rate. Some of my best experiences were with providers from the massage site and not the escort site.

Nada. This must be his first time visiting Detroit.

We have another one in the Midwest that just popped up yesterday. https://rentmasseur.com/MikeStudio He is traveling back and forth across the country every two days.

No tip required unless they go above and beyond what is expected or agreed upon. They are self-employed and already set the rate so tipping is not required in my opinion. That being said, I think the tipping culture in the US has gotten out of hand so maybe I'm the scrooge.

He was in Detroit last week and I contacted him about availability and here is the reply I got back. "I only offer professional massage services, nothing more" . He then went on to say he actually is no longer here, although the dates on his profile showed he was. Don't know anything more than that but he did reply promptly.

Same here. I've been to Brazil probably a dozen times (most of those to Rio) and never had an incident....but all those visits were pre-pandemic so it sounds like it's gotten a lot worse.