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The Carter Jay he references in the Youtube video is this guy: DesnudoMassa - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Midland, MI | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Midland, MI - DesnudoMassa: Carter Jay I've met him. Wow...quite a mess. One of my worst hires and I walked out.

He's never been in Michigan that I remember. If so, it must have been many years ago or he was here but not doing massage.

Exactly. I would definitely hire providers in their fifties and older but there are so few of them in this industry that I have little choice.

According to Rentmasseur, it shows him based out of Detroit again. Maybe the stint in Columbus didn't work out as well as planned.

LOL. Yes, that is very true. I forgot to mention that and just assumed he was losing his hearing to some extent. He does talk very loud.

I had the same experience. Despite discussing expectations in advance, he incorporated zero sensual/erotic elements into the massage. When I arrived at his hotel, he had bags of food all over the place, the room reeked of his dinner (which he was finishing when I arrived). As I was getting dressed, he must have sensed I was disappointed because he blocked me the minute I left his room. I guess he wanted to be sure he didn't get a negative review.

Sorry to hear about your experience. It sounds like something has definitely changed with him. I've known him for many years and used to see him quite often. He was always a power bottom in the past but seems like he is mainly/only a top now. As you experienced as well, the last couple of times I saw him his hygiene was was not good. The last time was horrible and so I quite seeing him. I understand certain things can happen but that wasn't the case here. This was literally not cleaning at all between clients.

It works for It works for me as well and I'm not a paying member.

Has anyone met with this provider? https://rent.men/GLprofessional He doesn't provide a phone number and his travel dates seem to change hourly which is usually a red flag, but hoping some of the guys in Dallas may know him.

That's definitely not me nor anyone else I know. Maybe that's common in NYC or other cities with large gay populations?

This is very unusual in Michigan and especially in Royal Oak which has a large gay community. This hotel is used by a lot of escorts so I'm sure the cops were already aware of what often goes on there. Sounds to me like this was a hire gone bad and the cops were called.

Thank you for bringing up Dean Hammer. My ex-partner was part of his original study back in the early 90's because he had a gay brother. I was asked to be part of the study because I too have an older gay brother but they had enough participants by the time I tried to sign up. We are both middle children. In the case of my ex, he was the youngest of four brothers and his gay brother was the eldest so they were the opposite. In regards to the potential maternal connection, my mom had three gay brothers so who knows, maybe there is something to that. At this point, nobody knows the reason but the topic comes up on this forum every few months with the usual characters insisting they "chose" their sexual orientation vs. "choosing" their actions/reaction to it. Can someone also explain the so-called "gay lifestyle" to me? I'm gay, my brother is gay..we both came out when we were in diapers. Never had any issues with sexual orientation or identity. Many or most of my friends and plenty of my family are gay. None of us (as far as we know) live a "gay lifestyle" and not really sure what that means. Does that mean we are in a gay relationship? If yes, then I guess we all live a gay lifestyle. Does that mean we use the word queer, watch Bravo, are only interested in going to the gym, walk around with our shirts off 90% of the time and call each other "Bitch"? I've known thousands of gay men during my life but I've never met anyone into that stuff. Every time I hear that term "gay lifestyle" I cringe-always wondering exactly what is meant by that.

....and to think that two years ago he was 18! LOL

He's been around for a long time. 'Don't know anyone who has met him though. Sorry.

Agreed....and I do consider that a luxury. Not too many other services we purchase that cost $300+/hour.

Sex with a condom doesn't count as sex? That's a new one for me but maybe I'm getting old.

Are you sure about that? They definitely did in the past but maybe they have stopped.

There is a lot of talk on here that a lower rate will mean a lesser experience, the provider will short you on time, he'll be located in a seedy hotel, etc. I have never found that to be the case at all. That's exactly what they want you to think. Some/most of my best hires were actually with guys that are fairly new to the industry and trying to build up their client base or just simply offer their services at a lower price point. The rate is definitely not a good indicator of quality in my opinion.

JFYI-He requires money up front (via Venmo) which he doesn't tell you until you are in his room.

I've been texting with him. He wants $250 for a massage only. Fairly steep for someone without a lot of reviews.

For what its worth....I haven't met him but know a guy who hired him for years and would drive hours to Cleveland to see him. It sounded like he's a good guy and a lot of fun. He's definitely not new and has been around for years.

For what it's worth, I've contacted him twice and got no reply. He's been on my list for a while so hopefully you have better luck.

Yes.

Very unusual. He only ever bottomed until recently as far as I know.

He is a power bottom. He is back to using one of his older names. He generally one of these: Manlystudd, Manlybuddy and Machostudd. No idea why he switches between the three though.