Frankcal

https://app.rent.men/CollegeVersJock
 
any info on this beautiful man would be appreciated. Thinking of meeting him in DC. 

I'm just a bystander in this dislogue but I like the way you have handled yourself on this forum and the respectful way you attempted to respond to the various comments made about you by forum participants. Bravo. 

Hmm just joined today?

Hmm just joined today?

Hmm just joined today?

Hmm just joined today?

for years, the conventional wisdom has been to find dudes who appeal to you on Rentmen, then look (search) for comments on him here (if any) in this forum, then make a post inquiring about him if nothing is found......
I believe that wisdom is still smart!

My favorite muscle.  
 
https://rentmen.eu/Uriel

My favorite muscle.  
 
https://rentmen.eu/Uriel

https://rent.men/JasonJamesX

Must quote all 3 of you at once:
I have to mention: sometimes an “unfriendly” or “not good vibe” is stuff that some clients make up in their minds, as an excuse.
I just had this the other day. And I’ll detail  how it went: For one: the client sent me a text a 6:58 a.m. on a Sunday MORNING and then when I didn’t respond, sends another again at 8 a.m. Fortunately my phone was on do not disturb because I was sleep in bed next to my “Fuck Buddy” that morning. That is far too invasive and early in the morning to be contacting someone for the 1st time, to begin with. 
Once I did get back to him later in the morning, around 11 (I make clear on my profile that I don’t start until noon for Outcalls and 3 p.m. when hosting) we exchange texts. But I kid you not: he took from 11 all the way until 5:30 pm to give me a time, which was for 3 hours later. All the while asking questions. When I told him I had already agreed to different plan and I would need a different time (because I asked him TWICE for time/address/deposit), I get no response.
That’s not asking questions about a product.  That’s just being a irritating pest. He already contacted me early in the morning, practically trying to wake me up, 1st offense. Wouldn’t give me specific time or location despite hours going by, 2nd offense. And then wouldn’t even respond when I said what time I COULD arrive, 3rd offense.
It’s things like this why I have a strict deposit policy in place. I have to constantly explain on my ads about this and that thing because people assume when I move my ad to a different city, that I magically “left” the area, not understanding that if I wasn’t in the area, I would say so.
But fortunately, I found out that person has 5 bad reports on blacklist app along with the 6th I posted. I made sure to include “tweaker” and “ timewaster” together, considering he asked if I can party so I can stay hard for him and his BF. Give me a break. And he probably sent me fake pictures of them too. 
 
That’s the type of time wasting stuff that gets on our nerves. Not just asking questions.
All the above is true if you’re referring to DL/closeted clients. However, there’s also plenty of openly gay clients who play these games just as much. If anything, it’s often the closeted married guys who are more serious than the openly gays. I find the “gay couples” to be a bit more hesitant to book, hence the situation above. I’m just going to limit taking gay couples if I have to keep dealing with BS like that. 
 
I find the single, not active in the “nightlife” gay clients tend to be the more reliable ones. However, the other week I picked up a super discrete married client in a hotel bar 😆 He was just so involved in the conversation me and my gay friend were having, despite being married. So I had to whip out my phone and show him my website 😉 
Makes me think: I need to do that more often, except I don’t live close enough to upscale boutique hotels downtown where that type of action is accessible.

I've been naked at the following nude beaches:
Haulover Beach, Miami, Florida
Lady Bay Beach, Sydney, Australia
Wreck Beach, Vancouver, Canada
Baker Beach, San Francisco, California
Little Bay Beach, Maui, Hawaii
Little Meagan's Bay Beach, St Thomas, USVI
Hanlan's Point Beach, Toronto, Canada
Orient Bay, St Martin
Cupecoy Beach, St Maarten
Plage de Saline, St Barthelemy
Half Moon Cay (Holland America's private beach, only clothing optional when chartered by a gay cruise)
And random private beaches south of Puerto Vallarta
Of those I visited so far, Little Bay Beach and Cupecoy Beach were my favorites

Wow!

Personally speaking (and as a lawyer myself) I would say do not go to the meeting and find a different law firm to represent you. Not sure where you live, but I live in the NYC area and there are LOTS of lawyers to choose from. You might also consider the effect you may have on your companion. He has only met you once and doesn't know what kind of a person you are. If you eventually establish a relationship with him and you are comfortable with each other, he might disclose his "day job" to you. Since he is not aware that you know about his "day" job, seeing you in the office would likely engender a bad reaction in him.  He might be concerned that his sex work would become known to his firm, which could result in his dismissal  and possibly sanctioning by the state bar. I think you will do both of you a big favor by foregoing the appointment with his law firm and not mentioning it to him at your next meet up.

Why is Adam for Adam a red flag?  Have not used it. 

Met up. Sweet guy. PM for details. 

"...fuckin-hot action!"

This provider just popped up any thoughts/experiences?
https://rentmen.eu/Little_Devil

Couldn’t agree more. The masseuse has the best view of his client. Better than a dermatologist. So if he sees a rash he can call it. I’ve been tempted to do a skin check on providers. But my current one is a nurse and his skin is flawless. 

I dont follow your meaning. There are plenty of resources, starting with the CDC, your state health department and your primary care physician.  I got the vaccine last week. Most of my friends and acquaintances in the gay community got their vaccines in the past week or have it lined up for the coming week.  
 
Where are you located? If in a smaller city the risk of transmission is probably lower but the vaccine should be available shortly if not already. To date nobody has died in the USA to my knowledge, as treatment options are available. Chin up, fella. 

Met him last week. Exactly like his pics. He loves to smile and is eager to please. We did mostly muscle worship but he did everything we discussed and seemed to enjoy the attention. Dense muscle that was great to grope. I’d repeat!

It sounds like you could write some great posts for the True Travel Stories thread, or whatever it is called.  The most exciting thing to happen to me on a cruise has been ziplining... lol.

I’m 52, and I’ve being going grey/silver since I was a teenager. That’s always given me at least the visual appearance of looking older. My first experiences were with guys my age, or a bit older. I was never hung up on age - it has always been about the attributes for me. If a gent tics my boxes, his age isn’t an issue.
I will say that in this hobby, the vast majority of gents I’ve engaged have been younger than me in the say 25 to 45 bracket. I’m sure part of that, (the younger ones), is down to them reminding me of someone from my past I lusted over from afar lol 
The youngest gent I engaged from this hobby was a 20 yo in London, the oldest was a 58 yo in NYC. Both were many years ago, both ticked my boxes, and both were thoroughly enjoyable. 
As far as the whole “daddy” thing goes - I remember the first time a guy called me that mid-congress. It was a Greek fellow I was dating, only about 8 years younger, getting his doctorate in physical therapy. Thickly muscled, hairy, olive complexion, and as I remember, the softest skin. He was a bit shorter than me at 5’7”, but we made it work. He was the first to call me “daddy” - and I was mortified! “Does he think I’m really old enough to be his dad? I’m only 34!” 😂 But in the intervening decades, I’ve more or less embraced being looked at, and referred to as a daddy. As @HotWhiteThirties noted, daddies are in vogue, so I’m finally on trend!
I really don’t think there’s anything as “too old” at least in this aspect of life (in others, yes). If the captain has a sea worthy vessel, sail it! 

I tip my hat to all you fellows 10, 20, 30 years older that are still active, and enjoying this aspect of life. I hope to follow in your footsteps, knock wood! 

At the end of the day, each of us like what we like - both in this hobby, and IRL. You like twink, you like muscle; you like smooth, you like bear; you like shorter, you like taller; you like preppy white guys, you like other ethnic guys; you like older, you like younger; ad infinitum. Like what you like, and just enjoy it! As my dear old Nan used to remark, life is too hard, and too short to not be happy. I try to live my life with this as my guide. No judgments, no second guessing, no regrets. 
 
BBD