DapperGent

he’s hot but seems troubled based on some of those tweets a few months ago.

Between the tweets and his private pics, massage is just an euphemism 🤣

And clearly untrained (unfortunately).

If he offers good extras he can do well early on.

Yep. And careful positioning during the massage to avoid being touched. Which I wasn't tempted to do as soon as I realized that it's not welcome despite promises in the original text.
 
I think there is a handler who texts for a bunch of Russian masseurs, and the dude seems to promise whatever without conveying to the masseurs what the client expects. And the masseurs are just a bunch of straight Russian dudes that probably get a relatively little share of what you pay.

That is the big issue. He promises erotic, but is so squeamish, he nibbles your ears, crawls & rubs all over you while you are on your stomach and gets you all worked up, and then flips you over, stands up, and is so afraid of touching a dick or having you touch his that he pushes your own hand down to your dick and tells you to do it yourself. I exchanged numerous messages with numerous guys who had this experience with him. it's a shame, because is is a nice guy with a great body. Claims to be bi, but says he only has sex with women. Yet another BUYsexual.

I've had a session with him. Very hot guy, and friendly. Poor English though, and the finish is DIY. That may be catching up with him.

When I travel I tend to stay at nice places ( when I can afford it and when it makes sense. I can not rich and can't always afford it  ) but mostly because I enjoy the treat / experience - and its also a security / safety thing for me, in places where English is not widely spoken / security can be an issue.  Makes me feel safe as well as pampered.  I like to be pampered….especially when I am traveling
Aman will not let anyone who is not a registered guest into their property. Period. Other hotels of that level are bit more flexible , depends on the city/country.   I have plenty of experience with hotels of that caliber. How I go about this is to have the following conversation.
At the front desk
Me : "Hi - I am having a friend who isn't staying here visit me at the property. What is the protocol?"
Desk person : "Is he / she going to stay with you?"
Me: "No he's just visiting me for a few hours"
Desk person : "Have him drop by the desk. Is he coming on in his vehicle?
Me "Yes, he's arrving via an uber ( provide details )
 
The friend arrives
Me: "Hi - this is my friend who is visiting me . I will step out to the bar / lounge / other part of the lobby etc - you can ask him to come by when you are done signing him in"
Desk person "Certainly, Mr. Jet low….."
Front desk person and local friend speak whatever native language they speak. What usually happens is the front desk person makes a copy of ID etc - its all very safe.
And for hotels of this caliber - usually someone will come and offer a drink to my friend while he is made to wait. It takes no more than 3-5 minutes max. 
A few minutes later, a member of the staff escorts my friend to me, while I wait comfortably in the respectable part of the hotel lobby. My friend and I walk to my room, where the appointment begins.
You see its all very civilized, and proper!
 
Alternatively sometimes, I might get the concierge to handle this for me - it depends on the hotel you are staying.  Some hotels have special entrance and exists for such friends - which the concierge can facilitate, if I am not mistaken the Imperial Hotel in Tokyo, where friends ( "urisen") can discreetly enter and exit, via a separate discreet entrance  ( I miss Japan, haven't been in many years) 
Generally i think my friend and the concierge also have a certain understanding, and often know each other from my experience.
 
I have thought about sneaking my friend in, but I think that will cause problems - I also want to be / and appear respectable in a place like an Aman property - where the other guests also paid for the same kind of tranquil serenity….

It is interesting this topic is suppose to be on escort’s choices for overnight stays and instead everyone here is hating on people that want to spend their money on luxury items? Really?! 😒😒😒😒

Not at all, I feel the same way in regards people who does not show gratitude or appreciation towards a good act or generous tip, particularly when you have an idea of much most people tip and things of that nature. At the other hand, I don’t want a fake thank you… you know the polite or socially required response but that you can tell doesn’t come from sincerity is as bad as a no thank you. 
 
Having said that, you need to question yourself if being a fan (as opposed to a simple admirer) of this service provider is making you hyper sensitive. If you are serious about fulfilling your fantasy and book his time just do it, otherwise you’ll find yourself orbiting around his Onlyfan only living vicariously through videos.

Bert got big hands and knows how to use it, he can switch to erotic massage while the others only stay in sensual. I wouldn’t know if he is good or bad at deep tissue (because I don’t like it) but what I know is that I float away out of there.
@Hathor, it is cool if others don’t have the same experience with him, everyone’s got a different opinion and you shouldn’t feel any type of way because someone doesn’t like your favorite masseur 😂🤣😂🤣

@CuriousSub
The person who delivers a first-time success is naturally going to linger in the mind, and often becomes the experience in the memory. A natural human bonding. You do seem clear that your relationship is business. 
You can either see more of him, and perhaps tighten the bond between this individual and the experience you want to recreate. Or… see if you can give other providers a chance, now that you know what to describe.
Every provider is different from one another, and the connection formed in one encounter is not an assembly line product, so even with the same provider the connection from the last meeting may not replicate itself. Since your hero is not local to you, explore those who are. If you’re meant to reunite for another sesh, it will happen. Many good teachers out there to help you expand or refine D/s activity you enjoy.

Relax @CuriousSub, enjoy and allow yourself to feel whatever you’re feeling but always being aware you are hiring someone to satisfy your desires and money is the glue to that relationship. Have fun and try no to get hurt 😊

Not at all, I feel the same way in regards people who does not show gratitude or appreciation towards a good act or generous tip, particularly when you have an idea of much most people tip and things of that nature. At the other hand, I don’t want a fake thank you… you know the polite or socially required response but that you can tell doesn’t come from sincerity is as bad as a no thank you. 
 
Having said that, you need to question yourself if being a fan (as opposed to a simple admirer) of this service provider is making you hyper sensitive. If you are serious about fulfilling your fantasy and book his time just do it, otherwise you’ll find yourself orbiting around his Onlyfan only living vicariously through videos.

Does the massuer hop in the jacuzzi with the VIP package? 

Wow he has balls.  He is among the top scammers I have ever met.  

"THE BIGGEST 9' COCK IN THE INDUSTRY TODAY❗️"
 
I wonder what the smallest 9' (sic) cock in the industry looks like
 
EDIT: this was a quote from his earlier ad.....his new RM profile (see downthread) doesn't include this humorous line

He is back and with a new scam.
https://rent.men/thehungstallion
He had an account prior with more ass photos under the name "Jay Alexander"
Buyer beware. He Is just making false appointments and asking for $200 in for content.

Kegel me baby!

Welcome to the “ask a provider” section 🙃🙃🙃

Don't you know that the calling card of the insecure is to find fault with everyone and everything else? 

Yes I think he missed that. I’m a provider, I describe myself as a sensual masseur, but if my client wants it then I’ll go much further than a sensual masseur usually would I guess. My rates aren’t cheap though. 
 

I regularly met a provider who has a profile on both Rentmen and Rentmasseur. I contacted him on Rentmasseur, but got a full service. I asked what he would offer for the guys from Rentmen. He told me it was the same. He is willing to offer a full service as long as the client doesn't refuse. 

@Luvfurrytops In my experience it’s best to decide what your priority is — a good erotic massage or sex. If it’s sex, I suggest you hire your guy from an escort site like rent.men, looking for guys that include massage in their ad and have good mentions on this forum. You’ll be quoted the escort rate and get both massage and sex. I suggest hiring from RentMasseur or MasseurFinder when your priority is the erotic massage, again though, look for guys with good mentions on this forum to help ensure great experience.

Please, they can’t even get a simple vote on "how to measure penis length correctly"
or "what exactly do the terms top, bottom, and verse mean?"  You think they’re
ever gonna get around to defining such vague things as "sensual" versus "erotic"?
You’re dreaming.