DapperGent

https://rentmen.eu/CASEYTABERXL/#platinum
I’m certain he used to go by another name. Has anybody hired him, I’ve seen his profile back when I had Grindr with the same pictures looking for fiesta time but something I recall is that came across as very arrogant so when I saw his profile in RM I got very curious what his deal is.

On 9/11/2021 at 7:25 AM, maninsoma said:

I think the only clear misrepresentations occur when a masseur advertises an erotic massage and then remains fully clothed and doesn't do anything outside of what a therapeutic masseur would do.  Beyond that, if you want to know what an erotic massage from a specific provider is going to entail then ask.  As others have written, however, consider it a bonus if a masseur wants to have sex with you beyond giving you a happy ending with his hand.  Hire an escort at escort rates if you want more.

In all the years of hiring masseurs and going to spas, sensual would refer to the touch, the perceived intention of the massage (arousal). When hiring, I specify before starting I wanted it erotic and they get naked either from the start or slowly take off their clothes as the massage progresses. In a spa, you’ll have no choice but to ask if they can do the massage in the nude, if they’ll do it for x amount of tip and once they’re naked well… you start subtly touching and see how they react, also if they are or not hard and from there well…😎

2 hours ago, Boink said:

There is a particular pornstar/escort who regularly runs an ad on Rentmen and I am very interested in hiring him.  I am a member of his OnlyFans page.  On more than one occasion he has posted videos so hot I found it 'necessary' to send him a nice tip.  Never once have I received a 'thank you' (or any other acknowledgement) for the tip.  Is this normal?

In a few interviews I've seen with this guy, he seems friendly and down-to-earth. But his lack of simple courtesy to this fan is acting like a red flag to me against hiring him.  Am I being too picky? 

Not at all, I feel the same way in regards people who does not show gratitude or appreciation towards a good act or generous tip, particularly when you have an idea of much most people tip and things of that nature. At the other hand, I don’t want a fake thank you… you know the polite or socially required response but that you can tell doesn’t come from sincerity is as bad as a no thank you. 
 

Having said that, you need to question yourself if being a fan (as opposed to a simple admirer) of this service provider is making you hyper sensitive. If you are serious about fulfilling your fantasy and book his time just do it, otherwise you’ll find yourself orbiting around his Onlyfan only living vicariously through videos.

Wow, in three years NO one has ever hired him?… Just a lot of wishful thinking comments? OKAY…

It is interesting this topic is suppose to be on escort’s choices for overnight stays and instead everyone here is hating on people that want to spend their money on luxury items? Really?! 😒😒😒😒

So…? How it went, did he say yes? Did you have him… over at your place yet!

On 10/24/2021 at 2:34 PM, jbro said:

Is there a timeline for this site?

I think this still an idea, at which point anyone with the time and money can develop. I’d love a website with all bells and whistles but in the meantime this fun forum will do!

12 hours ago, Jakegibbs1392 said:

Anyone been to why not lately? Usually go to 27 mens but curious to try somewhere else. Feel free to reply here or DM details 

Didn’t they had the venue closed months ago? Did they re opened? And yes, don’t go there, too much 🔥🔥🔥🔥 not the good kind..

On 10/13/2021 at 12:23 AM, lamk59229b said:

Just tried Burt. He looks as described- tall and lanky, slim but in shape. His crazy long arms some how can cover my entire back. I’d say he’s more sensual vs therapeutic, if you’d like to relax then he’s surely your guy. If you want something harder and closer to actual sports massage than I’d skip him.

Bert got big hands and knows how to use it, he can switch to erotic massage while the others only stay in sensual. I wouldn’t know if he is good or bad at deep tissue (because I don’t like it) but what I know is that I float away out of there.

@Hathor, it is cool if others don’t have the same experience with him, everyone’s got a different opinion and you shouldn’t feel any type of way because someone doesn’t like your favorite masseur 😂🤣😂🤣

Relax @CuriousSub, enjoy and allow yourself to feel whatever you’re feeling but always being aware you are hiring someone to satisfy your desires and money is the glue to that relationship. Have fun and try no to get hurt 😊

Because the dynamics between gay men vs straight men in regards relationships in general is different, I’m wondering about service providers who have allow their hearts involved and end up boyfriend or husband of the (former) client. Note going on dates with client/provider do not count, but a commited relationship moving-in together the whole 9 yards.

1 minute ago, n2guysnatl said:

I admit I shouldn't care either.  Call me names I don't care and it's a turn on.  "Ho, slut, fag, cumdump, etc."  Oddly it's just Bro that turns me off.

When I was younger I had a pete peve with DUDE, hate it with passion, today very few bothers me but I guess also depends who says it and within what context.

Who gives a shit, call me Bro call me Ho just stick that big schlong in my hole 😂🤣😂🤣

On 3/6/2022 at 1:39 PM, HoseMaster said:

NaturalLY SMOOTH for me all the way.  I like to rub my partner’s body, and definitely like it smooth, and not like a cactus or porcupine if they shave.  Someone naturally smooth is very hard to find I’ve found.

if it looks like this, I’d throw up, and wondered when the gorilla got in my bed and immediately think of beastiality.

😂😂😂😂 The prickly thing of shaved skin happens when there’s not continuous skin care and shaving mantainamce to keep the skin feeling smooth. It might not always look 100% smooth but the bits of hair should be as smooth as someone who does laser. Considering full body laser but at the other hand what would I do without those two hours in the shower??? #MeTime #Pampering #ArtOfShaving #Waxing #LaserMyAss

8 hours ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

Frankly, Mykonos is a shell of itself now anyway.  It's not what is was.  Not even close.  

The heyday of Pieros was a shit ton of fun

Agreed about CDMX.  It's an incredible city.  Manhattan on steroids.  

Agree @jetlow @Benjamin_Nicholas CDMX is an incredible city, I had fun and even fell in love when I was there for work. Looking forward to return… to meaty uncut slightly musky brown cockssss 🤤🤤🤤🤤

5 hours ago, poolboy48220 said:

I'd only seen this provider once, at the end of that first meeting he invited me to that party. I did not have to pay for the party, I don't know if anyone there did. Yeah, would've been fun to get back into the group action, but you take what you can get 🙂 

I much prefer a random hookup than something planned but when one has a craving… hahaha That sounds hot man, I’ve had too connected with just one during a sex party and his hot getting the attention of everyone when you’re getting plowed in the middle of the room  but without witness works for me too. 
 

@Alexphilly I looked up the topic but only old entries showed up so I decided to create this one. So you charge a flat fee and also ring leader? For how many hours or days this went on? We can continue this chat in pm if you prefer.

4 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I'm a big believer in consent and being upfront. So I will ask a new provider what an erotic massage includes, including "can I blow you?" If it's not been discussed up front, you can simply ask "may I suck you?" But doing it that way may make the provider feel pressured so I think it's best to be upfront. Also, if you really want that as part of your experience, you want a provider who includes that. 

Concurring and adding to @KensingtonHomo, particularly if you are at a spa of cheap rates ($60-75 an hr neighborhood), masseurs will be inclined to do extras such doing the session nude, mutual touch & bjs only with a generous tip and please don’t think restaurant rules apply to this type of industry (they essentially make their money on tips) if you can’t afford to tip at least 100% of the session rate, is best to book independent masseurs who are likely to offer erotic massages for their standard fee.

On 1/28/2022 at 10:57 AM, FunGuyUS said:

https://rent.men/FreddyPrince

https://rent.men/HalterTop

Are the two I can say are great 

Freddy Prince makes my cock rock hard, try him if you haven’t already.

On 11/4/2021 at 9:56 AM, Pensant said:

I’ve never been able to get those pumps to work. I can’t get the bottom of the ring sealed against my skin. I want a partner to pump me up and then go down on me.

You me both 😈😋!

On 8/31/2021 at 8:03 PM, CatDaddy said:

I'm a smooth guy for sure!  I especially don't care for a hairy hole... I'm not going near that!

Rimming a hairy hole is like flossing your teeth with pubic hair 😂😂😂😂

5 hours ago, MassageDrew said:

Traveling to New York later this month after a long hiatus because of this pandemic. Any recommendations for men's spa? With massage is a plus but I generally enjoy just seating it out in the steam room. Some fun would be a plus but not required. 

If it were only for massages I have some recommendations for centrally located spas but if you are looking something like the baths they have in Europe, they don’t have that in NYC (there’s Russian & Turkish Baths but I don’t know if they had re-opened since they’ve been closed because of the Corona…) there are some high end spas that have steamroom facilities such Aire Ancient Baths and The Well but they don’t have a gay scene if you were looking to cruise, at least not the times I’ve attended. For other recommendations feel free to PM. 

3 hours ago, Hathor said:

@DapperGent LOL! You are right is him, I'm just building courage to ask I get nervous... Just to imagine him right here doing a massage wow...

Nothing like the thrill of the first time of anything… enjoy! 😎👌🏼

7 hours ago, RLBENJI said:

The place (along with the masseurs) has changed A LOT. I’ll PM you.

I checked out the website and drawn to the luxury treatments but are all the masseurs still Asian or are there other ethnicities? Is the NY VIP treatment worth it?

On 2/20/2022 at 3:49 PM, Alexphilly said:

Hi I haven't been posting for a while, but anyway . I've noticed I get turned off from time to time when would ask me do I have a extra friend it makes me think one provider is not enough for the client especially when they ask this during the session. It really takes time to find a extra provider . I have worked other providers in the past but I feel like I can be myself working alone . I've had situations where the client didn't like the other provider  ("friend" )maybe because he wasn't his type or ?? Either way I had to tell the provider that the client isn't interested and you have to go home .. Another instance was when I hooked a client up with a provider which he was a cool guy we would often work together with the client a few times . So I showed up to the clients home and started the session he then asked me to call my friend over .  The provider told me that him and the client had some kinda fallout drama and he's not coming (not sure was it a payment issue.. because every providers rate is different) . Either way I just don't like to be caught between the mess . I just like to work alone  It's less hassle for me .

 

When one wants another escort to join a session it has nothing to do with him not being engaging but because the excitement it’s so great that you just want two cocks, cocks in both ends. Also, it is not unreasonable to ask a service provider beforehand or during, if they have escort buddies who can join because it is NOT uncommon to find escort or masseurs couples or colleagues that work together or play together without money involved.  Personally, besides reading the profile content I would ask pertinent questions.

On 1/24/2022 at 8:42 PM, KensingtonHomo said:

Our experiences have not been nearly as bad as the OP described. Maybe it’s bc we’re in NYC. But most of the guys we’ve hired do look like their pics - some even better. 
 

Our primary reason for hiring is that it’s easier then wasting time on Grindr and Scruff. We’ve had a couple of duds in our time hiring, but probably 80% positive. But I read reviews. I check their social media. I come on here. 
 

I do think you have to be discriminating. What we look for more than anything is someone who seems to genuinely enjoy this work. 

I Second that. I think because the motivations (other than lust) are different, we don’t see the industry with bitterness. In other words, when I decide to hire someone is because there are components that are as if not more important besides their looks. I came out of the close in my 30s but only started hiring in my 40s because one my professional life has become too demanding to spend hours on end browsing and secondly, I’m attracted to certain type of men and big on roleplaying (not everyone is big on verbal in bed) so it requires for me to be very discriminating before agreeing. I have no problem sending someone home (or leaving their place) if they don’t look like in their pictures or they suck at fantasy play. I understand where your pain comes from but you also have to take responsibility on all that 98% of escorts that were not good and took you awhile to come to a point of realization. Thank you for sharing, great topic.