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I’d like to know who’s been in hired for a gangbang, hiring vs inviting horny men to a sex party are two different things I bet. Are you expected to be paid per hour or session, for the client perspective, is there a way to protect one from theft (having many men over). Also curious…. When you do participate in a gangbang is it hot (are you enjoying it) for you or is just another paying job?

On 1/25/2020 at 1:25 PM, m4same said:

Do you fantasize about things that are possible? Things you've done? I tend to take memories and "fix them in post" and so my fantasies are generally things I experienced but make way better in my fantasy than the actual experience. For example, when I was in my early 20s, I was camping at a gay weekend at a rural ranch when I started to fool around with a 21 year old muscular lumberjack in his tent. Suddenly his 40 something year old lumberjack friend joined us. I panicked and left. But later, in my fantasy...

 

So what are your fantasies? And have you ever fulfilled them?

Yeah, I used my imagination heavily when I was married often fantasizing about coworkers, the hunks in my ex wife family, from all of them two were possible since I knew they were gay but I didn’t want to take the risk at the time. At this age I don’t imagine fantasies I can not fulfill and I love fulfilling them 😈

I think everyone should play out their sexual fantasies while our libido and bodies still can. I came out of the closet after my divorce in my 30s and I’ve been experimenting with abandon in a way making up for the lost time… Back to the topic! I particularly do not like the aspects of pain when it comes to a rape fantasy but I’d prefer a scenario where I visit a friend who happens to have a guest over, they get me drunk or high enough to take advantage of me. I would attempt to resist their touches but they’ll talk me into it since I’m at their mercy literally… that’s a hot fantasy I’m looking to play out with trustworthy service providers.

Wait, the title is a clickbait. I thought this post was about preference for blonde men or blonde service providers, which I do, not necessarily this bodybuilding influencer. Hot but agree with others, not quite the section for it, would fit better entertainment.

3 hours ago, Hathor said:

There's this tall and lean masseur at Alpha Spa I always get massages from

I know who you are talking about, Bert knows how to use those hands… Concurring with @KeepItReal I would approach the subject during the massage, what are your expectations and he ought to tell you or give you his number.

24 minutes ago, xyz48B said:

It is. It’s disappointing when we end up paying and aren’t satisfied…Especially disappointing if we pay a premium. At a certain point, there’s a diminishing return on investment for satisfaction. I don’t need to pay a premium just because some guy has done porn; in fact, my experience with guys who’ve done more than several porn shoots (not “big” names, but still) has been more the more entitled crowd. The guys who are “just” escorts have been much more down to earth and less caught up in their own glam. At this point, I’m not interested in paying for a porn star. He won’t be as gloriously manicured and stage lit when we’re together anyhow. 

For me being a porn star is not deciding factor when paying “premium”, for me it’s a package of physical attributes and what are they selling (personality is as important but there’s no way to know that until after meeting them): Is it just their body or body part/s, a perceived attitude or apparent behavior, does he specializes in a kink you are into, his profile seems he is down to roleplaying or something that makes him stands out, perhaps he has college education and can offer exceptional conversation on top of sex, ect. Perhaps, if you see them as people and not just as fast food items you could have a small but high quality rotation of men servicing you 😎

On 3/26/2021 at 12:54 AM, Rocca said:

There is a masseur that i am totally smitten with. I would like to take him with me to Maui for a week and I want to hire him to give me a massage everyday we’re there. I adore this guy and his massage is magnifique! He doesn’t advertise as an escort but there is a great HE with the massage, so I’m not sure if he’d be open to this, and I dont want to offendj. I will be compensating him for every day that he’s with me. Has anyone ever done this?

I think you got to define, in the heart of hearts, if you have fallen in love with him and you secretly hope he falls for you during this trip. If your motivation is purely hedonistic, I would not only define rates and expectations but also be reasonable and give him a day off from massage and from you, remember, you’re a just a client.

No, I’ve hired 100 bucks street prostitutes and have spent 1,000 dollars plus tips in a 2 hour and change session with an escort and in both occasions the determining factor wasn’t the money… they had what I wanted and they gave me that and way more, satisfaction is what we pay for no?

On 2/19/2022 at 3:21 PM, DrownedBoy said:

I guess I'd ask both providers and clients here if they've noticed this, but I've been getting some _really_ rude responses to my attempts to hire escorts I haven't met before (not to mention prices in excess of 400/500 an hours). Here's some incidents I had contacting several Chicagoland escorts yesterday (I texted them in the early evening, asked if they were available later that night, was completely open about my preferences (no anal), and offered to pay for Uber both ways on an outcall:

- I texted 4 people, 3 of which quoted me at least 400 an hour + Uber (I asked for a 2 hour session, but they didn't adjust their rates accordingly).

- One kid with only 2 RM reviews wanted 900 for 2 hours. He was located right next to me, and I would pay for the Uber. When I declined, he responded with a _completely unsolicited_ counteroffer that was still obscene. His text was worded like: "Oh man, I'll do it for X dollars; I DARE you!" Did he think I'd hire him when he spoke to me like that, even if it was a reasonable offer?

- Then there's the openly blatant con artists. One guy, I was purely willing to hire, but I thought it reasonable to ask him why 3 of his 15 RM reviews were bad. He told me he was insulted by the question. Luckily, he was honest enough to cancel the session before I would have.

 

Right now, I'm only hiring one of my 3 regulars, because when I reach out to "new blood," I get treated ilke this. I'd rather jack off than deal with such rude people.

Is this the new post-pandemic attitude? Obscene rates combined with rudeness? I've been hiring for 8 years, have always been nice to my hires, and have always contacted providers in good faith.

This is a business of pleasure, no one here is hiring a contractor to do your bathroom tiles and your choice is mainly motivated by frugality. In the service industry, a provider can charge whatever they want because that’s their value. If they are or not willing to negotiate their value, or if is justified or not, it is take it or leave it choice and act like a victim among mature men and young service providers is not getting you any sympathies.

On 8/22/2018 at 5:07 PM, dnemo said:

Anybody seen him? Know he's been mentioned in a couple previous threads, was only able to see one person with first-hand experience. Feel free to PM if preferred, and thanks in advce.

 

https://rentmasseur.com/TimSPA

Yes, very good looking and professional. The parts of the massage that were sensual were brief but overall great experience. I don’t know if he offers erotic massages, hope he does, definitely  need to bring more cash for it next time you know… for the extra requests 😉

Since you’re looking into a hairy masseur, that is very specific and unlikely to be found in massage parlors (at least the ones I’ve tried), I would peruse masseur finder and rentmasseur to find the type of men you’re looking for. The ad should read something in the likes of erotic massage, that’s fully naked mutual touch (oral may or not be included) so tip generously.

I have always loved a smooth body including the genitals, then there has been trends of hairy, non hairy and now hairy and “natural” is back in fashion again. Let me tell you something, there’s nothing natural about an unkept bush for an excuse to use for self-loathing or lack of personal hygiene… just like getting regular haircuts, teeth maintenance, nail trimming and other Civilized Men customs. 
 

I trim my bush tightly but I prefer touching and seeing another man fully shaved, waxed or naturally smooth particularly those who take care of their bodies, you can feel the skin… feel those muscles, enjoy that cock…

On 7/27/2020 at 12:00 AM, Coolwave35 said:

A guilty pleasure when I hire is watching a man’s hygiene routine. I love watching everything from the shower to the q tips, to shaving, teeth brushing, doing the hair, lotion cologne, finger nail trimming etc. it’s a wild turn on for me to watch a super hot, sexy man get himself together. Bonus dollars if he’s got an uncut cock to clean.

 

What do you enjoy that’s..... unconventional?

I don’t care for that specifically but I will admit watching a man in front of you shaving his cock, taint and ass to smooth perfection does make my cock hard. However, I don’t like to shave others for fear of cutting them so no handiwork for me LOL! 

What turns me on is to feel smooth skin against smooth skin rubbing against each other, there’s something about touching a smooth skin or feel being caressed while swallowing a cock or getting it up the ass.

On 2/13/2022 at 9:32 PM, DMICS said:

Does Brock NH escort?

If this works as a regular stripclub and you can book private dances, offering additional services wouldn’t be out of the question. Unless you’d like to know out of just curiosity, just get into the list, attend, request a private and ask him with tact or perhaps with a tip in hand 😉😈

Not necessarily my type but he is hot, how did found his RentMen profile? He is worth booking, I could spend hours just devouring that cock…