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Love this thread. 
I was in Kochi a couple of years ago for the Kochi-Muziris Biennale, where my driver was an absolutely stunning 20-something year old Indian wearing a lungi. Wanting to get friendlier, I asked him "What are you wearing under your lungi?" He was taken aback, and said, "Why my trousers of course", by which I suspect her meant something like boxers. I had an elaborate hotel suite, and he slept in his car, as hotels in India don't allow drivers and other servants to sleep in their "master's" room. Too bad. I would have loved to have had him for some overnighters!

The toilets traditionally are squat toilets. You just go down on your haunches, hike your skirt, and let ‘er rip. 

I would have to say my first experience.  I was 20 years old and went to the only gay bar in town
.  They had a lit up martini glass on the outside to let you know this is the place. No windows (this was the 80's).  Went there with my fake id and they had a couple of strippers for the night.  Locked eyes with one of them right away.  He came up to me after their show and we left the bar to make out in his car.  So hot.  He was a couple years older than me and a Pizza Hut assistant manager.  He was such a good kisser and so good with his hands. 

Taco Bell.
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No disrespect for AI intended, but if one walks in the busier areas of NYC one will likely see "real deals" that rival the good looks of the AI gents in the above video.

There is an increasing number of IG profiles that are AI derived from real people IG profiles.  They focus on changing the image of the person slightly but leave everything else in the video the same.  You sometimes only catch it if you look at the towels or other background elements are the same between the real and AI fakes.  I don't think IG is keeping up with screening the AI images and videos as the technology becomes more accessible to the masses.

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Inhaling all those fumes to stay forever blonde. LOL

It is a function of time, money and opportunity.  Things have to line up properly for lift off.

I’d suggest go with the flow and let things unfold, don’t push. I’ve had a couple of these seemingly improbable situations work out into a bit more.
I would not recommend asking about “private entertainment”

I don’t want to be Debbie Downer….and I’m not a bartender…but I did date one…a gay one…though….and in essence all these things make him good at his job and get you to tip him well for a pouring jack and coke in a glass.  People that are good in the service industry use their skills to earn more money…that’s after all the only way they too can make more money.  I would just say….enjoy the attention but don’t get over fixated on it unless he leads you to something outside of coming to the bar and putting more cash in his pocket.  The bartender I dated used to be really flirty with everyone and at first I thought it was just with me….then we started dating and I watched it continue and come to find out…he’s like “Well yeah..how do you think I keep the big tippers coming in” 
 

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Tried Cesar for the first time recently and agree a fantastic massage and overall experience!

I don’t agree it’s whataboutism. I’m saying it’s potentially hypocritical to have concerns about bareback sex whilst being unconcerned about clear health risks with other behaviours over which one has a personal choice. Especially when the behaviours have costs to others (second hand smoke, alcohol related misbehaviour and disorder). It seems that if one takes one’s health and wellbeing seriously one does so in a consistent and rational way. To be cavalier about alcohol and smoking and careful about sexual health using the public health argument makes me suspect that the real reason for the objection to bareback sex is moral. 


 
 

Anyone met meat in-person?
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Whataboutism and false equivalence much?
By that logic, anybody regularly taking one basically established health-related risk such as a side of chips versus rocket at lunch forfeits the right to discuss another, along with weighing in on prevention guidelines and preferences, and gonorrhea checks your BMI before infecting you. 
Of course there is a value judgement regarding condom use, and public health messaging is inherently normative. Avoiding infection is preferable to acquiring one. In fact, it’s a rather uncontroversial values position. Recognizing it isn’t the same thing as demonstrating hidden moralism. 
You yourself may be inclined, with good intentions (how else would your motives be?), to discourage a guy’s smoking habit. Reality is under no obligation to be less carcinogenic in deference to his personal autonomy. 

I would probably quit. I know that sounds flip, but, seriously, I probably would. Team-building? Please. Take the money and give me a bonus or a raise. Don’t force me to “bond” with my co-workers over 5 days in Orlando during hurricane season. Or wherever. 

Bad idea. Being stuck in the same condo together causes all sorts of problems: increased sexual harassment risk (the employer would be liable since the condo is now a worksite); medical conditions, religious practices, or simply psychological comfort that require privacy; the need for peace and quiet for adequate rest (being on the clock 24/7 is arguably a labor law violation). I would send the boss an email outlining these concerns to get him to reconsider.

I may just be speaking for myself! But who the fuck would want them?