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Thank you.  Sure do wish more attention in a provider's evaluation would be paid to ball size and how low they hang.  Both real turn-ons for me.  But I digress . . . . 

Ragarding losing your hotel money because of a cancellation, Dayuse allows you to cancel all the way up to when you are scheduled to check out without penalty.  So I always schedule to meet at the beginning of the Dayuse window and do not check in until I am at least 80% sure the guy is showing.

When I was in my 20s/30s during and after the Great Recession, I learned my best pickup line was, "I have my own place, and I can host".  I considered myself average looking at best, but the fact that I was one of the few in my age bracket that wasn't living at home with parents made me a unique prospect that helped seal the deal.  Most of the guys I hooked up with then were living at home with their parents and just needed a private place to bust, and I was happy to accommodate!

The reason I meet only at home or at my hotel when I am on a business trip, is that I like to sleep after sex. I can't bother getting the metro or a taxi to get home.

👍One can’t have too many IT visitors 

Between nosy doormen and neighbors and with the occasional appearance of relatives who come to my city unannounced and install themselves in my spare bedroom, it's just easier never to host at my home.   I'll use hotels (dayuse is inexpensive and almost always available) or go to the escort's location, if he has one.  
I did have an escort to my place once a number of years ago.  The next day, my downstairs neighbor asked me who was the young man who came to my apartment.  My neighbor bought my explanation that he was an IT guy from my employer helping me with my remote work set-up.  The escort's being Asian played into my neighbor's stereotypes.  

I schedule first meeting by video call to assess mutual interest.   

I don't use hotels. First intro/screening at a bar, then home. 

Yeah big low-hanging balls are yummy aren’t they? On the other hand I don’t really like big dick with tiny balls. 

Thank you.  Sure do wish more attention in a provider's evaluation would be paid to ball size and how low they hang.  Both real turn-ons for me.  But I digress . . . . 

He offered me to touch and rub his dick when we were sitting on the bench near the stairs. Lots of cocks there are monsters tbh.
it was such my big mistake to forget mentioning the balls. The providers I met all have nice good sized balls, not tiny balls.

the Russian is totally worth it. I think his name is either Igor or Ivan. Slim body type. Big long uncut gorgeous dick.
The Greeks are one big and muscular with fat cut dick, one tall slim and cute with beautiful long uncut dick. I vaguely remember the latter's name is Costas.
When I think about dicks I don't think of just girth and length. I also think of color or discoloration, curvature, any marks or scars, shape, softness of the head, cut or uncut, how hard when fully hard. Like bodybuilders. Some are big but ugly. I like big dicks that are not too dark in color, uncut, no marks, with some veins but not too vascular, not too curved, with a soft spongy head, hard but flexible, not rock-hard like a rubber dildo.
Even with my plethora of ridiculously strict and unbelievably detailed criteria, there are so many gorgeous dicks in Thermas.
If you can, come and enjoy. 

So my trip finished. I went to Thermas for three days Tue, Wed, and Thu in the hot week of July 2026. 3/4pm to 7/8pm.
In terms of being busy, Tuesday was the most quiet, but still had a decent selection of good-looking providers. At 5-6pm there were around 15-20 providers and the same number of clients. Wednesday was by far the most crowded day among these days, with multiple hot providers to choose from. Easily 30+ providers. Many clients too. Thursday was better than Tuesday, but cannot be as busy and bustling as Wednesday. 
In terms of the providers, I was pleasantly surprised! they are absolutely gorgeous! A lot of them are very fit or muscular, masculine horny young men parading around talking to clients and showing off their impressive "manhood". No feminine providers . Most of them have nice long thick fat gorgeous manhood that can get hard within split second! They're quite easy going . Some would go around flashing or swinging their manhood. Some would give you a little preview of it. Some would let you touch and rub it. Basically look, touch, and try before anything further is the best thing in here that the traditional platforms like RMen or Hqz can't offer. I've met so many guys on RM that were essentially catfishes or couldn't get hard (or maybe I wasn't attractive enough who knows) etc. I was able to avoid all these problems visiting here.
Some memorable booking experiences. I booked one super sexy fit Venezuelan / Dominican guy whose face somewhat bears a resemblance to Wentworth Miller - only more handsome IMO, and whose passion and force in our session was borderline aggressive. I appreciated his style, I had no problem with it, but he may run into trouble with other clients for it. Couldn't give him advice as I don't know any word he speaks. Then there was another super muscular Brazillian gentleman with thick shouders , pecs and a big thick fat tool. Still got horny thinking about how heavenly it felt sticking your mouth on his mountain of pecs and nipples. 
An overwhelming majority of providers are Latinos (Brazil, Venezuela, Dominican Republic). Some are black. Didn't see any local Barcelonian providers. If you were primarily looking for white Caucasian men / daddies / bears, you'd be disappointed. This is Tue Wed Thu, not sure about weekends. During my three days I only saw 1. one tall Russian gentleman that I booked a session once. He has very slim body with beautiful face, foxy mesmerising eyes and gorgeous hair (think David Gandy but slimmer) - totally can be a cover model for any magazines or shows. 2. One middle-aged Romanian who's probably drug addicted. and 3. two sexy Greek providers with big tools who are Hispanic not scandinavian white. Clients, however, are predominantly Caucasians aged 60+, probably not the Caucasians you'd be looking for. Occassionally there's a client or two worth landing your eyes on, but that's about it.
Pricing-wise, I never asked the providers how much they'd charge, but I followed the advice here and proposed either 50 or 60 EUR for a session. In total I had fun with approx 7 providers there and they accepted this pricing instantly - no one ever asked for more. Very good price for intimate service.
In terms of cleanliness, Thermas doesn't disappoint. Staff regularly cleaned the rooms and bathrooms.
Looking into future, sincerely hope Thermas will always be there for people to come and enjoy the excellent service of gorgeous men especially those from Latin or African backgrounds. But to me its existence is not without a threat. Most independent escorts in Barcelona knows about Thermas and while Thermas has kept their pricing down to more competive levels, I don't think they are very happy with it and some may have reported it already...
Can't wait to visit Thermas next year for a full week!

As I have written here previously in answer to this question, the difference between a client and provider at Thermas is on average about 30 odd years and 30 odd kilos.

I do a lot of historical research and this involves looking at old census records. One of note I came across was the record of a man taken in 1861. His age was given as 106 and the census taker wrote “wow” in the margin beside the man’s name. 
One of that man’s descendants was a second cousin of mine who lived to 98, dying after a fall in 2020. So the idea longevity is related to genes has some traction. 

I have had a few people reach out to me about this guy ever since I made my comments. And it appears many people are having difficulty trying to set up a time with him. I can tell you although I had a great experience it took a hell of a lot of effort. I am a very curious person and sometimes when I get curious I get frustrated if I can't discover what I want LOL part of why I kept trying with this guy is I really wanted to know if he was real or fake or using images from somebody other than himself. Looking back at the experience I still would say it was a great experience but not really worth the effort I put through to it. So in other words unless you are curious like me then I would suggest don't waste an exorbitant amount of time and find someone else. He is very hot but so are many other guys. I can also tell you we have stayed in contact because I've been trying to find the time to see him again. Our contact after I saw him was initiated by him thanking me for recommendations on parts of the United States to go to where I thought he would do very well. However I believe one of the reasons people have difficulty is he will say he is in Chicago and getting ready to go to Portland but on a whim may find himself in New York or Boston. What I have put together is that he will have an appointment set up with somebody but then if somebody comes along with a better offer such as an overnight then the person who is originally scheduled with him is now ghosted and history. Good luck

We often read about the quality of air, and the health effects in cities like Delhi and Beijing. And then we see the air quality in a western city that, due most commonly to something like these fires have done in Toronto, or the 2019/2020 fires around Canberra, is worse than those cities where smoke in the air is a more regular feature. 
We smile (at the unwanted fame, more likely than actual amusement) when we read about it, and don't think about the health effects on us, in our first world existences. But we know from Delhi that the effects are real. So mask up, avoid going out and breathing it if you can. And bask in the temporary notoriety, and look forward to when it clears away.

I was actually watching the massage video on his RM ad, and noticed he didn’t stop talking the whole time which I thought was odd. There was music, so you couldn't hear what he was saying, but it certainly syncs with what you experienced. 

https://x.com/Bodyandspirit45
 
He's a follower of Alex Jones.

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Advertises on Rent Men as HeavenHands.  Says he accepts only cash, no electronic payments, which is good with me.  He spells out his routine, a combination of timed massage, body contact, and erotic, with "free" finish.  Sounded like something I would like, but the experience turned out to be just plain weird. 
First was the scheduling.  I messaged him on RM and asked his rates.  A day later, I got a message back with an hourly rate for incall; no mention of out calls or tiered times or upcharges.  Sounded fine, so I asked about availability.  he asked what time I wanted.  I told him, he said okay, then immediately started negotiating for a later time.  I said I could do the time he suggested, but that didn't stop him from continuing to negotiate a different, midway, time.  After a few of these, just reiterated I'd be there at the time he first wanted.  Seemed a little flaky or unstable to me.  
Second, the lack of preparedness.  After agreeing to a later time, I arrived at his hotel to find messages from him 15 minutes earlier saying he thought he saw me (how? he had no idea what I looked like) and was in the lobby.  Messaged him back for the room number and he didn't give it to me, just told me the floor.  Got up there and no one.  Messaged him again and he popped out into the hall about halfway down and beckoned me.  Went to the room to find it wasn't made up, i.e. he hadn't prepped even given an extra hour.  Clothing, packages, and personal items everywhere.  Cleaned off a part of table for my things. Took time out of my paid time to put a fresh sheet on the bed and clean up in the bathroom.  When I asked to use the restroom, he didn't want to vacate, instead holding my penis (NEVER had anyone do that before, EVER) while I tried to urinate--didn't work for me, so ended up skipping it and went on to the bed for massage.   He had his dog (which smelled like wet dog) in the room and never once asked if that was okay or if I was allergic--these days, I would think anyone would know to ask.
Third, he never stopped talking the entire time I was there.  Very distracting subject matter and not calming to me (even though I usually like a bit of conversation).  The massage itself was limited to my legs and rougher than I would like.  Then some stretches that hurt a bit.  Spent too much time doing the same things over and over because, he finally said, I wasn't relaxed enough.  Didn't say that, though, until he had used up most of my time.  Then, he asked how much time I wanted, which I thought had been settled when I booked.  Told him I hadn't brought much extra money with me (I don't generally carry more cash than I need when I see a rent guy), but had enough for an extra 15 minutes (seemed ridiculous that he would even hustle me for so short a time).  At one point, he told me he wasn't a sexual person (which I can confirm) and doesn't react to physical stimulus the way most people do [paraphrasing].  He went through his final routine and arranged himself over me in reverse (to put it discreetly, but use your imagination--nice view, btw).  I don't generally respond to HE, but he tried without success.  Then the time was up.
When I went to pay him, he asked if I had an electronic payment form (I don't).  This was odd, since he had said upfront cash only.  I told him I had enough cash for the extra time we had agreed on.  Then, he told me there was an upcharge which he had not disclosed before or during the session.  He said he didn't want to mention it because he didn't want to spoil the mood.  I told him how much I could offer and asked if that would be okay.  No.  I was supposed to know that there would be charges for anything not specifically described in his ad.  This is where he turned insulting and unkind, totally negating any positive effect of the body work.  Finally counted out all the money I had and gave it to him, turned out to be only $5 less than he demanded.  This session ended up costing me as much as a full service rent man would be, without the full service!  Felt really awkward and uncomfortable, but it didn't seem to faze him at all.  Then, he walked me down to the lobby, which was unwelcome and a bit creepy.  By the time I got to my car, he had sent me a message that not saying goodby wasn't cool.  Again, weird, since we had done goodbyes in the room.  Never have I ever had another rent guy insist on taking me down to the lobby or send me a message like that afterward.
On the plus side, he has the most beautiful flawless skin I've ever seen and all the right muscles in the right places makes for a vision (if that's all you want at premium prices, but be sure not to touch).  He told me he's actually 37 but claims 25 in his ad.  He could pass, but it seems unnecessarily deceptive to deduct 12 years from his actual age, especially given the number of years of experience he claims in the ad don't calculate with the age given.
In short, I wouldn't repeat and suggest you avoid.  Putting together the odd talk and behavior, I'd say the guy has some mental issues and might possibly become scary if triggered.
ALSO NOTE:  This provider has dozens of reviews, most of which are more than 5 years old.  Although the average score is 5 stars, there are a number of low reviews--the way both RM sites calculate stars, after a certain number of high reviews are posted, low reviews have no effect.
 

This fella captivates me even with a single picture and the few comments here.  Too bad he's not vers.  I've thought of hiring him when he is next in town simply for BFE with no need to f**k

ZachL just posted 6 new pictures which accurately depict whom you will meet: a hot, sexy, handsome man. Frankly, he should just take the other, older ones down. 

I love the way the hairs on his ass light up

My experience has been consistent with @bcmkefswd, @calstrin, @Nakedchi and @Zimby - appreciated that I could see availability and book directly on his website. Communication easy and responsive. Welcomed graciously. He looks exactly like his pics. Excellent massage skills. Felt sensual and intimate. We both seemed to enjoy the experience and I was happy to have met. I endorse and will be back - recommend. 

I remember it so well because it was also my first time with a guy. Luciano was a RentMen escort about 25 with a lean, but well sculpted body and lovely brown eyes. As I recall, he was from Venezuela. He was the first guy I ever kissed and it was a long passionate one. I thought, “God, this feels REALLY good!” It didn’t take long to get naked and hugging him made me quiver. I was only a top back then and I vividly remember him looking up at me saying, “I want you in me.” It felt so natural. Later on he excused himself to go to the bathroom and when he walked out I felt like I was witnessing a modeling photo shoot. My only regret is that he retired before I became versatile. He’s one of many that I have topped who I would have loved to have top me.