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I had an experience with "Aphill" that I won't repeat. He required a deposit, which I complied with after confirming our start time. I arrived 9 min early to the appointment, and sent a message. Fifteen minutes later (appointment start +6min) he messaged me with a vague photo of the other side of the building along with an entrance code to open the gate. I walked around the building and the street had 4 entrances that all matched his photo, but none of the gates opened with the code he provided. I let him know that I was having issues using the code, asked him to confirm the code, and all he did was re-send the photo and say that it was the correct code. After retrying every entrance again, I asked nicely if he would come down as the code wasn't working. He reacted very annoyed, "omg fine" and I waited another 5-10 min... until I finally tailgated a random person in who told me that all codes were 6 digits, not 5 digits like the one I had... So I messaged Phill again to let him know I was inside the building-- he still didn't tell me which room to go to. It was now 25 min after the appointment start time, and if I hadn't paid a 30% deposit, I would have left by now. I tried calling, but he didn't answer. Finally, he replied with room details and I went to meet him, finally greeting him 35 min after our arranged start time. Then he had the nerve to rush me out after 25 minutes saying that he "only had an hour..."... 
I thought a deposit would ensure we were both on time and ready.
To be honest, even if we started on time, I wouldn't repeat. It wasn't a great experience. But, this pretty much made it so I don't plan to see most folks in the future if they require a deposit over 5-10%.

That sounds way too complicated and troublesome to be worth any length of massage.

Hello. Any info on HairyOliver?
 
Thanks!
 
https://rent.men/Hairyoliver

He was everything -- and more.
It was a rainy weekend in SF, but I made it out to see him and it was well worth it. He looks just like his photos, but actually even better in person. I was very excited to see him, for the entire time we were together. He was excited to see me too 😈, and I'm excited now thinking about it. He delivered on everything we discussed before, and I left relaxed and hoping to see him again.
https://rent.men/Hairyoliver

This site doesn't exist.

Hi. 
does anyone have any experience with Ray in Ft Lauderdale?
 
https://rentmasseur.com/RayJames  
 
Thx

in UK there's sleepyboy.com or uescort.com & in Europe hunqz.com

I dislike the new rm "app" so much. Once it's forced, I'm going to avoid the site. Where else do you advertise?

Where do you list?
Oh, I say somewhere in the top five or ten. 
Kevin Slater

Only premium members can submit reviews on rm?! I'm not premium.
Just wanted to add this then:
- he arrived late from outside the building, even tho he was claiming he was fixing things inside first. I waited 25 min.
- after settling expectations, there was a request in the middle for additional via Venmo only
- after, I wasn't even offered a clean towel- he guarded them at the other side of the room. So weird.
- he didn't live to to what he said, and I feel really bad after
 
 

Only premium members can submit reviews on rm?! I'm not premium.
Just wanted to add this then:
- he arrived late from outside the building, even tho he was claiming he was fixing things inside first. I waited 25 min.
- after settling expectations, there was a request in the middle for additional via Venmo only
- after, I wasn't even offered a clean towel- he guarded them at the other side of the room. So weird.
- he didn't live to to what he said, and I feel really bad after
 
 

"Hi I saw your ad. Are you available X? Or I'm coming to your town on X date"
 

So I read your profile. I'm interested in meeting. Maybe I want to see a recent photo first. Maybe I want to know your rates. Maybe I want to know if you're hosting now or tonight or tomorrow. Maybe I want to know if you're down with the details of what I want to do.
How do you like getting the initial contact? Do you want one long letter? Do you want several messages, starting with greetings? Do you want contact in rm chat? Do you prefer a text or a call? Do you want my photos or my stats or...? 
I'm interested in what you like, not what you think others might like. I wish you all shared links to your rm profile in your info here.

Btw, I ended up meeting him in sf. The biggest disappointment was his photos were obviously years old, in a bad way for me. Other than that, he performed as expected. I could taste nicotine all over, just to warn you in case that's a sensitive thing for you. I don't mind smoke.

It's certainly possible that he's biracial.
Kevin Slater

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He doesn't top bottom or both, according to his site.

I met him in sf. There was a lot of "tell me what you want, and I'll do it" included. I left happy. I had so much lotion to wash off, from my hair even.
 

Ask it all in a message, but read my profile or website first because that answers most of the normal questions.
Then ask whatever else you need, no question is silly. I’m not looking for pics of you, it doesn’t matter what you look like. Stats aren’t needed either unless they pertain to how I should treat you (are you 7ft tall? Do you have one leg?… that sort of thing). 
And if you want to endear yourself be polite. 

I usually try to put everything in my profile just to give an idea. I usually prefer everything to be asked in one message.  But again ask away for anything you need to know prior to meeting. 🥰

I admire your inquisitive nature, but this can be a lot for one provider to answer in an actual contact. You might get a response from someone, but it’s likely some are going to pick up clues that you might be sending the same messages to everyone. 
 
In my case, I prefer to start contact over Cash App, Apple Pay or Zelle….and then we can talk about everything else afterwards. I decided for me personally, I no longer have the desire to “work” every inquiry that comes thru to my phone. I don’t really get paid enough per session (it’s not like a lawyer who does multi thousand and million dollar cases) to continue offering free consultations. 
 
I know some people out there get instantly frustrated and end the convo. But, I decided maybe it’s better that way, because they probably 50/50 wouldn’t follow thru anyway. So that saves us both time. Sitting around texting at random to strangers on a whim with the ”possibility” they’ll come thru with some money…isn’t entertaining anymore. I’m more eager to chat when I’m able to get some initial incentive.
 
Interesting you say that. I hope that you’re saying it in a way as “it doesn’t matter to you”, not that it shouldn’t matter to “anyone”. 
 
I’d say I’m open to all types of clients, however I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a provider having sone degree of “vetting” or asking. I mean, I feel the idea of a provider not knowing NOTHING about a client, is so 1980s, 90s and early 2000s magazine ads. These days (atleast in America) many clients don’t mind to volunteer photos. Not that’s it’s needed, but even a faceless one takes 5 seconds. 
 
Not to mention: I had a client the other week who I felt very bad having to do…but I couldn’t get thru the session because he had several “questionable” looking skin ailments, despite him not being a bad shape guy.
 
I also have had clients with injuries or other things, and I decided: I’m not willing to take that on anymore. Escorts/Masseurs are (generally) not doctors, like I said elsewhere. I’m not fit to be exposed to grotesque physical ailments, sores, weird rashes and all. I had even had one who came in awhile back with HPV warts all over his rear, and wanted to “play” before his surgery. I was like, absolutely not even with a condom. 
 
There’s only so much I’m open to work with, but if someone has something going on…it’s better to inform or hold off. I’m not trying to be “punk’d” into an uncomfortable situation
 
That said, I’m usually pretty comfortable with 10/10 of the bookings I see. I usually just ask basic info like age/stats/ethnicity simply because I don’t like the shock factor of opening the door not knowing who/what. Clients don’t like to open the door to someone completely unexpected than the pictures showing up, so the fair thing to do is to give us some sort of introduction about them too. Especially since most bookings are arranged over text without ever a phone call.

He asked ‘I’m interested what you like not what you think others like’ so that’s how I answered. 

When I said I don’t need pics unless it pertains to how I should treat you then that means I need to know of any injuries or conditions because that affects how I’d treat my client. Example if he has varicose veins in legs then I’m not going to massage his legs. I’ve disabled clients, one is profoundly deaf…I need to know that, another has cerebral palsy so I need to understand that too. But what I mean is I don’t care about physical shape or looks, no need to send pictures for that. Just be healthy, clean and respectful. 

Idea: don't share your number. But include it in the auto reply of messages on rm. That way you can track who texts you.

Face is a must for me. I rather take a guy with a handsome smile and average body than a great body but an unattractive face

SCORTS ARE NOT E.N.T'S THERAPISTS DENTISTS OR LAWYERS ETC, THOUGH LOSS OF THEIR TIME "CAN" BUT RARELY DOES COST THEM ACTUAL $$$ MUCH AS THEY DECRY IT DOES, THE WHOLE LINE OF "I BEEN BURNT CLIENTS FLAKE I PASSED UP A GIG YADA YADA THAT'S WHY I NEED A DEPOSIT PRIOR TO MEETING OR EVEN FULL PAYMENT ETC ETC DOESN'T FLY WITH ME AND NEVER WILL. 99% OF THE TIME IT'S A CLIENT WHO AGREES TO THAT DEAL WHO GETS BURNT. IF YOU'RE SO JONES-ING FOR A OUT OF TOWN SCORT THAT INVOLVES PLOPPING DOWN AIRFARE YOU'VE GOTTA LOOK AT IT LIKE PLOPPING YOUR BUTT DOWN AT A SLOT MACHINE IN VEGAS.