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Sean Xavier has returned before, but this one really surprised me: https://rentmen.eu/DavidBenjaminX Had a great experience not long before he retired. Made me wish I’d met earlier.

Normally, I avoid getting into pet peeves about appearance, stats, etc., because it tends to be tedious and unproductive, but I think he is a definite butter face and there something odd about his skin--it seems to have a waxy quality, plus he seems like a candidate for worst escort or porn hairdos. It must be the shape of his face or something, but a lot of hairstyles don't seem to work on him. I like his physique but have never had much attraction and I think it's partly the face and the hair. He's gone JasonSparks person to a real star, and not everyone who makes that kind of transition will remain humble or cheap. He's also overcome having some mugshots from his early career period.

I can understand that some people don't have the option of doing an hour or two with someone before a trip, but it can help in terms of figuring out if you're compatible. You may have to make a non-glamorous destination interesting to them. Having time off while you do whatever may have some attraction, but you'll need to pay for the time and provide some reason why it's good for him esp. if you don't want him to see clients---interests help and how you match them. Will you be saying at a hotel with a good gym? Is there some attraction worth exploring nearby? Some guys just aren't a good fit and the range of interests someone has may vary depending on the destination and what you knew about it. I have done time with someone (long gone from the biz) in a non-glam place (Cleveland--I needed to be there for family and business reasons) but I knew numerous places of potential interest to this particular provider.

He used to be in DC. then somewhere else. A search will get you historical information.

My only question about him--what's up with his hair? It seems lacquered or moussed into something that never looks natural.

He looked familiar. He has twitter and Onlyfans. Looks like I can't delete his twitter feed and just post the link. https://twitter.com/DanielEvansXXX and Onlyfans (Edited by RadioRob to make the Twitter feed a link)

he's very clear about what he wants. The fin-dom thing makes me think he's absorbed something that's very common in Atlanta---being a grifter looking for suckers. The grifters often are suckers themselves, but that shouldn't distract us from the grift. he probably thinks he's being "honest" about wanting to screw with people and come out ahead, but it's just a grift and there's no reason to treat it as anything else.

It's always interesting when people persist even though red flags appear early because you can get a really good picture of why the persistence probably should stop. Just looking at his ad, I see red flags, his astrological sign (Is this the 70s?), results from a personality test that has limited predictive validity--you might like his "type" but still find out he's a jerk. It's all about stuff that's not really relevant to the hire. I could care less if someone is a nudist. And it's inconsistent---he talks about empathy, but asks for pics in boldfaced type. He's spending a lot of money to advertise widely but lacks the intuition (which is supposedly part of his personality type) to know how to present himself.

Do a search, Blaze Austin has been discussed several times.

It’s a shame he didn’t post travel dates—unlike IsaacX who seems to be his travel buddy. I might have been able to open up some time with more notice. He seems like he would hav even worth the gamble, esp. because we finally got one firsthand experience with him.

Saw him several years ago when he lived in the DC area. Had a good time. He's an Interesting guy--into the arts. At that time, he was planning to join a commune in Maine. He occasionally turns up in DC and has been based in a couple different Maine locations. Not your typical provider.

Hudson is a well-off suburb that looks more like a New England town than most New England towns. I'm guessing that even the local Republicans found him gauche and embarrassing.

Was curious about him last year, so looked at his Onlyfans. He seemed pretty unengaged in his videos, so I assumed he wouldn’t be much better in person. The good thing about OF, et al. Is that a modest investment can keep you from making a potentially expensive mistake.

Nate_sf---Thanks for letting us know. I am local so it is not an inconvenience for me. I've enjoyed past events, but it makes perfect sense.

And ATL has a long and deserved reputation for being "land of the grifters".

Pretty much a ditto for me in DC

When I'm interested in hiring someone, I look to see if they have social media, OF, etc. Nate is clearly into some very specific kinks that have no interest for me. If he's being explicit about who he wants, he's probably trying to screen out people who can't spend 15 minutes on line researching what he's about.

Nate Stetson https://rentmen.eu/natestetsonx

OP, You're noticing this now? The number of ads plummeted a year and half ago. They've gradually come back, but they went down a bit during the Delta outbreak and they've declined a bit recently. This is a slow time of year in most places and travel usually decreases by mid-December. This also is not a time of year when new guys appear.

Interesting that his partner, Nicolas Mixx, is not advertising an exit from the business: https://rent.men/NicolasMixx They're both traveling to LA, although Fevese's profile has expired.

Trend? At most, it probably depends where you are. There is a fairly limited number of guys who have made a long-term go of OF and usually they are in large metros where it’s easy to find “collaborators”. They also tend to be past/present porn guys. With unfamiliar guys, I routinely look to see if they OF. It’s just part of doing research. The majority of guys with OF seem to have stopped after a fairly short time, like a lot of online stuff.

Saw him earlier this year. It may have been a matter of chemistry, but it seemed a bit perfunctory.

Repeated changes in appt. time, esp. if it’s more than an hour.

Changed his name 3 times. Not a good sign.

His current ad: https://rentmen.eu/VrsHungIvyLeague The website:https://www.hilvp.com/ Needs some editing. This thread seems awfully repetitive, including the recaps. I guess with the price points, the endorsements are enough.