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When providers talk about VIP, luxury, high class, etc. experiences, it’s always a turnoff. They’re probably trying to justify high cost and/or arbitrary expectations without really saying what services they perform.

Oddly, one of his public pics appears only on my iPad, but not other platforms including IPhone.

he no longer seems to have an ad.

He seems to cycle on and off RM, so I don't know how much investment he has in his escorting work.

From his pics, he appears to be porn guy JD Manning. He has a resaonable number of reviews, but apparently has a regular day job, too.

CJ_Blake has been much discussed in the past. I seem to recall mixed to negative reports.

Works for me.

It's the scene that Constantine mentioned upthread.

He has a day job and isn’t the most frequent content creator, so he can treat escorting as a side hustle and erect barriers so he only gets the most motivated clients and doesn’t have to deal with a lot of hassles.

I suspect Mike knew well enough to avoid a pointless exchange where Toomuch4u would never be satisfied with the answer because all he has are his assumption. We've periodically had posters who mostly want to run down any provider they discuss without accepting its an occupation like any other, with plenty of different motives.

He had an older partner for many years (and may still) and has spoken repeatedly of being attracted to men older than him. He used to be a fairly regular poster here.

Do a search. He's been discussed numerous times.

He's done porn here multiple times over several years.

He's probably the most oversharing gay on social media. He just seems exhausting and also seems in need of a good mositurizer.

There was a guy in Pittsburgh who had one because of DUIs. He also did porn while wearing it.

Any intel on MascMarineMason and can the moderators give Ata his own thread?

Here's a link that should work: AxelRockham - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - AxelRockham: Here for Fun 😎 Groups/Parties/Long...

there seem to be guys who appeal to someone so much that they want that one post that says "this provider really delivered" despite lots of negative feedback otherwise. Chasing this little bit of hope seems to happen on a lot of threads.

There were multiple negative experiences expressed on another thread about him.

Can someone delete the references to Channing Flynn and any other off task guys?

I tend not to spend a lot of time thinking about compliments from anyone I don’t know well. Giving compliments is, to some extent, just being polite. Yes. It may keep you as a client but you shouldn’t assume every compliment is simply manipulative. The polite response is to thank the person giving the compliment. Beyond that, I think you move on to whatever happens next.

I’m surprised that he’s advertising. His OF has PPV for up to $50. I was guessing that he sees himself as a special commodity, although the short term arrangement comment makes me think that a short term sugar daddy might be of interest. He advertises as vers/top, so not bottoming for clients is no surprise. What people do as escorts, profits and in their personal life often varies, anyway.

His ad is here and still works.

I usually avoid posting low quality info, but this seems relevant....I saw Ian years ago when he was traveling with someone else. His traveling partner was a dud but Ian exudes sex even in passing. I followed him on social media for awhile and it was evident that he was into extreme receptive anal sex, which often overlaps with certain kinds of drug use, and his posts seemed a little "messy". He had little social media for awhile (?rehab) but lately has been back and its mostly getting fisted. BTW--probably too old for early schizophrenia.

Following-up my other post, PROCESS is often more important than specifics. 1.) Are they prompt in their communication? Prompt doesn't have to mean right away. If someone is in another time zone. take that into consideration. 2.) Is the communication smooth? Do they volunteer potential deal breakers like not being able to host relatively early in the discussion? Is there a flow to the conversation (no big breaks in time w/o explanation)? There was a guy who had some positive reviews who nonetheless broke off communication mid-sentence with multiple members of the board. Do they answer basic questions directly? Do they ask reasonable questions clearly? 3.) Do the drapes match the carpet?--Experienced guys hate answering questions that are addressed in the ad and don't appreciate an interrogation of what they've made public, but if you pick up inconsistencies, do they have a reasonable explanation? 4.) Be weary of upselling. Also, be weary if someone you've never met proposes bringing in a third. Unless you're asking that's clearly out of their usual wheelhouse (like video), the pricing should be all inclusive and they shouldn't be brining in things you might find questionable. You might like the idea of a 3-way, but those work best if the parameters are discussed and you've met at least one of them already. 5.) If someone isn't a "perfect" fit, what are the deal breakers for you? Be clear with yourself and be willing to say--"sorry, that doesn't work for me" and end the conversation. Some clients are too horny, needy, or whatever and then regret an encounter that probably was doomed. You can't blame the provider, if you knew it probably was doomed. 6.) Be concerned if you can't nail down a time. There is a subset of guys who simply show up in town and and ask "can do tonight". Politely let them know you have to have a time and, if they can't do that, then it's time to end the communication.