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Guest TheOtherGuy
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Hey boys! Love me some fitness/physique models. Any other channels you recommend to facilitate private meets with them aside from Rentmen etc? I know many of them don’t advertise online.

The Best Flex is a site for guys who do cam shows and many of them also do live meets. My experience has been that most of them are straight and have pretty narrow limits of what they’re into. I’ve also heard numerous tales of guys being propositioned via Instagram with success. I’ve never had any success finding guys via Instagram, maybe I come on too strong. Lol. Do what you will with my meager info. I’ll be watching this thread for sure!

Guest TheOtherGuy
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Thanks for your input, [uSER=12309]@TheOtherGuy[/uSER]!!

As a fellow fitness/muscle model enthusiast, I’m happy to share what I know. :D

Guest TheOtherGuy
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Why haven't I known about thebestflex.com? Made for me! Thank you TheOtherGuy!

You’re welcome!! Have fun, I know I sure did. ;)

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I have seen several. Some great, some ok, and some common thiefs.

 

My experience too is mixed. I’ve had various male models with beautiful physiques: most readily understand what’s required of them. The gay ones were very compliant and fully interactive. I had one straight beauty who lay there like a statue and got fucked, while another straight boy was hesitant to kiss but proved to be a voracious cocksucker and cum-swallower. One gay fitness model was a thief; he paid for our taxi home and refused my offer to reimburse him yet he stole $20 that I had on a table by the front door (not realising that I keep $300 in the table-drawer!)

 

As to meeting/finding models, I find personal introductions most fruitful but I’ve also used private messages on social media and had some success.

Guest Jockseeker
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You can also try SeekingArrangements.com there are some hot ones among the many listed

It is a process and has a not so cheap fee....

Like any such site, you have to screen very well and keep your rules about NOT sending money to someone you have not met.

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My experience too is mixed. I’ve had various male models with beautiful physiques: most readily understand what’s required of them. The gay ones were very compliant and fully interactive. I had one straight beauty who lay there like a statue and got fucked, while another straight boy was hesitant to kiss but proved to be a voracious cocksucker and cum-swallower. One gay fitness model was a thief; he paid for our taxi home and refused my offer to reimburse him yet he stole $20 that I had on a table by the front door (not realising that I keep $300 in the table-drawer!)

 

As to meeting/finding models, I find personal introductions most fruitful but I’ve also used private messages on social media and had some success.

 

I hate to dispute anyones truths but i have known many str8 guys from different cultures in different settings. I dont associate str8 men with voracious cum swallowing. I wasnt in the room with u but its safe to say alot of escorts are taking extreme liberties with the definition of sexual orientation. I make distinctions between masc then closeted then curious then str8. There is levels to the shit as they say. Many claim the last category but need to be in one of the preceding categories. Someone who has a str8 fetish cares about these silly little distinctions while to the masses its one in the same.

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I agree with some of what you write @tradehunter . I feel there are great variations between cultures as to the expression of sexual desires and the definition of sexuality.

 

As a European, I’ve often noted that in the US there seems to be a rigid distinction between gay and str8. Whereas in Europe there’s a more general acceptance of sexual fluidity, especially among the young.

 

In Latin America, where I’ve spent a lot of time, there is an emphasis on masculinity but being an open and confident top, I never encountered any negative sentiment. I am aware that effeminate behaviour was often criticised in conservative circles and an avowed bottom would face open insults.

 

As for the str8 model I mentioned earlier, I dated him maybe a dozen times. Some of the dates were a threesome; I arranged for a shy friend of mine (who’s a skilled rimmer and sexually versatile) to join us. The str8 model was very tentative about kissing at first but after a couple of dates he told me he “liked sucking cock” and “loved the taste of (my) cum”. He obviously enjoyed the threesomes and shared the cocksucking but he insisted I unload only in his mouth. Nonetheless, he always defined as str8 and lived with his girlfriend. It was only when he felt the urge and needed cock that he would call me and fix a date.

 

Personally I don’t care about how a man labels himself; what matters most to me is what the guy does in bed and how well he performs.

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Getting back to the thread topic of meeting Fitness and Physique models, any other venues or forums that haven’t already been listed to reach out/facilitate meet ups?

 

It seems that Instagram is the most common, then sites like Seeking Arrangements or bestflex. Any other ideas or tips? :)

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I’ve also used private messages on social media and had some success.

At the risk of sounding dense, could you share your wording or approach? Do you straight up ask they escort? Ask about irl?

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Same here. I’m in South Florida where I’d love to be connected with fitness model types who might be available and fly under rhe radar.

Have you ever checked out the outdoor gym at 9th street on South Beach? It's right near the gay block and always full of hotties showing off. Always wondered if they were displaying the goods for potential customers but never had the guts to actually talk to one of them.

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I have more luck with Facebook than Instagram. It seems more prevalent in central Europe. Once you get one or two Czech bodybuilders on your FB, you're directed to dozens more with the "You may know" feature. There are 2 or 3 of us guys from M4M who are friends on a hundred of them. They are pretty open with chatting once they accept your friend request (they always do). There are a few ex-porn actors who are now body-builders and a few who are now escorts on the side. Once you get them you can check their friends. It's not impossible to figure out who is a good candidate and some have actually surprised me. I post I'm visiting Prague, I ask if they escort, they say yes. Deed done.

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I agree with some of what you write @tradehunter . I feel there are great variations between cultures as to the expression of sexual desires and the definition of sexuality.

 

As a European, I’ve often noted that in the US there seems to be a rigid distinction between gay and str8. Whereas in Europe there’s a more general acceptance of sexual fluidity, especially among the young.

 

In Latin America, where I’ve spent a lot of time, there is an emphasis on masculinity but being an open and confident top, I never encountered any negative sentiment. I am aware that effeminate behaviour was often criticised in conservative circles and an avowed bottom would face open insults.

 

As for the str8 model I mentioned earlier, I dated him maybe a dozen times. Some of the dates were a threesome; I arranged for a shy friend of mine (who’s a skilled rimmer and sexually versatile) to join us. The str8 model was very tentative about kissing at first but after a couple of dates he told me he “liked sucking cock” and “loved the taste of (my) cum”. He obviously enjoyed the threesomes and shared the cocksucking but he insisted I unload only in his mouth. Nonetheless, he always defined as str8 and lived with his girlfriend. It was only when he felt the urge and needed cock that he would call me and fix a date.

 

Personally I don’t care about how a man labels himself; what matters most to me is what the guy does in bed and how well he performs.

You can suck cock, enjoy swallowing cum, find pleasure in being a bottom... BUT if you cannot fall inlove with another guy, you are not gay.

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As a fellow fitness/muscle model enthusiast, I’m happy to share what I know. :D

How much do the fitness models generally require in compensation?

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BUT if you cannot fall inlove with another guy, you are not gay.

I've never thought of it that way but it does make some sense.

I've seen discussion of this elsewhere, including IIRC from Dan Savage (not that he has the final word). Much of it has been along the lines that there are separate strands of sexual attraction of which physical and romantic attraction are two. Both are real but not everyone is attracted to the same gender for both, or to the same gender for both in equal measure. This society would prioritise the opposite sex attraction over the same sex one whichever way those preferences fell and say, 'not gay'. I don't think we should do that, but rather allow the person concerned to decide how to describe themselves.

 

(I noticed what I did there, I conflated sex and gender, and wrote as if both were binary. That was not part of the point I was making.)

Guest europeanman
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How much do the fitness models generally require in compensation?

My experience is with fashion models not fitness models. To start they are just kids, 18, 19, up to mid 20s. Most of them combine modelling with studying. They are definitely not escorts, they do not have the escort money mentality. The pattern I usually see is to start with a nice dinner, drinks at a nice bar, taxi money or no money at all. Then they ask for some money because their agency has not paid them, they lost their phone, they missed their flight etc. So up to this point the cost is 0 to a few hundred max 1K. Costs rise on phase two. You want to follow where they go to be with them. So they go to Milan for FW you go there. You book a nice hotel, you pay for dinners, drinks, you take them shopping. And you also give them some money because the iphone broke down, the agency delayed their payment etc... Then is vacation time, so you pay for flights and top hotels in Ibiza, Mykonos Sardinia. Of course you also pay for drinks, restaurants, for them and their friends who are also models and fucking good looking. So no complains... The bottom line is that the major expense is for the lifestyle. Cash compensation is significant but less than the expenses and definitely less than the cost of an escort. Also there is no comparison between a young fashion model and most of the escorts.

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