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Not a lot of straight porn actors in NYC. I'm sure vegas, LA and Hungary/Czech areas. I know the guys that work for the company "Legal Porno" do a lot of crossover work and most likely would take clients if the money is right but not 100 percent sure. Straight porn actors can have a long career so they don't necessarily do escort work as they don't really need to and especially gay escorting as if word got out it does carry a stigma on the set that could jeopardize getting as much straight work as there is out there for these guys.

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Of course I don't mind if you "wonder"-however your post read as though you were castigating the OP for enquiring about something that wouldn't interest you, and therefore I felt it to be completely unnecessary and unhelpful.

 

Thank you for not minding if I wonder, kind Sir.

 

Castigating? Damn you're too sensitive, the OP can defend himself if he wants, kind Samaritan.

 

Let it go...

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Other than John Holmes I've never heard of it working that direction. It's always gay porn actors, st8/gay/bi guys, who go over to do str8 porn. The big money and therefore better-looking guys are from gay porn. St8 porn pays guys peanuts.

Straigh porn pays less per scene, but there are still way more scenes(at least paying ones) produced. So the guys who do well in straight porn can make it up in volume.

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Thank you for not minding if I wonder, kind Sir.

 

Castigating? Damn you're too sensitive, the OP can defend himself if he wants, kind Samaritan.

 

Let it go...

 

You insulted the OP, and now you try to reframe the issue by saying that it's no big deal because he can defend himself, if he so chooses? Come on, you're better than that. The point is that the OP simply asked for recommendations on a specific type of escort. You did not respond to his request, but instead derided him for his fetish by asking why he liked it, and then rhetorically asked him whether there is enough of an entirely different type of escort in his locale for him to focus on instead.

 

This unfortunately happens alot on this board, where someone will ask for info about an escort (or, as here, for suggestions on a specific type), and rather than provide the help sought by the OP, some posters will instead offer only what they don't like about the OP's tastes, or a critique about the escort at issue without providing the personal knowledge about said escort that the OP sought. For example, how many times does someone respond to a 411 about a particular escort with a post that offers no real useful info about said escort, but instead talks how the responder doesn't like that escort's tattoos, or that the responder can't tolerate smoking, or the escort is sexually incompatible with the responder's own tastes, etc.?

 

To respond directly to the OP, while I don't know of any straight porn stars in NYC who also escort, I'd suggest going to the Spunk and/or Adonis male stripper events. Somewhat counterintuitively, most of the dancers there identify as straight. Yet, many dancers (both the gay- and straight-identified ones) are available for appointments outside of the bars (sometimes they have pro ads, too), and some of them have done some type of adult work (photos, modeling, and even porn, although that last one's much less common). Good luck!

 

P.S., @marylander1940, I actually think you make a good point about the seeming incongruity of seeking a straight porn star to provide a gay man with a boyfriend experience. That's the first thing that popped into my head about the OP's request. But the fact that we think it's a little bit strange has no value to the OP, who never asked for our opinion on, nor our validation of, his specific desires.

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You insulted the OP, and now you try to reframe the issue by saying that it's no big deal because he can defend himself, if he so chooses? Come on, you're better than that. The point is that the OP simply asked for recommendations on a specific type of escort. You did not respond to his request, but instead derided him for his fetish by asking why he liked it, and then rhetorically asked him whether there is enough of an entirely different type of escort in his locale for him to focus on instead..

 

I insulted him?

 

Why would you hire a straight guy for a BFE? Don’t you have enough gay, bi and gay-per-pay men already available in nyc?

 

Damn, you're just too sensitive if you think that was an insult.

 

Should we call you out to defend the insulted ones? I hope you won't stop on me, right? Other serial need to be reprimanded by you too.

 

This unfortunately happens alot on this board, where someone will ask for info about an escort (or, as here, for suggestions on a specific type), and rather than provide the help sought by the OP, some posters will instead offer only what they don't like about the OP's tastes, or a critique about the escort at issue without providing the personal knowledge about said escort that the OP sought. For example, how many times does someone respond to a 411 about a particular escort with a post that offers no real useful info about said escort, but instead talks how the responder doesn't like that escort's tattoos, or that the responder can't tolerate smoking, or the escort is sexually incompatible with the responder's own tastes, etc.?

 

You should police us more...

 

To respond directly to the OP, while I don't know of any straight porn stars in NYC who also escort, I'd suggest going to the Spunk and/or Adonis male stripper events. Somewhat counterintuitively, most of the dancers there identify as straight. Yet, many dancers (both the gay- and straight-identified ones) are available for appointments outside of the bars (sometimes they have pro ads, too), and some of them have done some type of adult work (photos, modeling, and even porn, although that last one's much less common). Good luck!

 

P.S., @marylander1940, I actually think you make a good point about the seeming incongruity of seeking a straight porn star to provide a gay man with a boyfriend experience. That's the first thing that popped into my head about the OP's request. But the fact that we think it's a little bit strange has no value to the OP, who never asked for our opinion on, nor our validation of, his specific desires.

 

We agree on something... there's only one thing wrong with your statement. The OP talks about a straight guy who does straight porno and is affectionate and fun. He didn't say BFE, I'm the only who brought that up as something I like and I consider is more likely to happen with another gay or bi man.

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Why would you hire a straight guy for a BFE? Don’t you have enough gay, bi and gay-per-pay men already available in nyc?

I at least understand the ones that want the straight guy to act disgusted while getting blown or something. Now we have the ones that want them to get turned on by the intimacy of it. Of coarse the reality is that they're not really "straight" by that definition but never mind. Gay men and their fantasies.

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I at least understand the ones that want the straight guy to act disgusted while getting blown or something. Now we have the ones that want them to get turned on by the intimacy of it. Of coarse the reality is that they're not really "straight" by that definition but never mind. Gay men and their fantasies.

 

Besides I had so many truly straight guys when I was in the Navy, no wonder I don't have that fetish.

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I insulted him?

 

 

Damn, you're just too sensitive if you think that was an insult.

 

Should we call you out to defend the insulted ones? I hope you won't stop on me, right? Other serial need to be reprimanded by you too.

 

 

 

You should police us more...

 

 

 

We agree on something... there's only one thing wrong with your statement. The OP talks about a straight guy who does straight porno and is affectionate and fun. He didn't say BFE, I'm the only who brought that up as something I like and I consider is more likely to happen with another gay or bi man.

 

As @hornytwells also noted, your post read as though you were castigating the OP for his fetish. Perhaps that wasn't your intention, but that's how it came across. At a minimum, your post was completely unhelpful to the specific request of the OP, and addressed only what you thought about hiring straight guys, rather than helping him find what he wants.

 

Thank you for pointing out that you're the one who first brought up the idea of hiring for a BFE. Since the OP never inquired about that (he instead asked about straight porn stars who are "affectionate and fun with a guy"), then his post makes even more sense, since plenty of straight escorts can do that. In contrast, your response looks even less like a serious attempt to provide him with some useful information that actually addresses his request. In fact you've now admitted that your response really served to just make the OP's thread all about you: "He didn't say BFE, I'm the only who brought that up as something I like and I consider is more likely to happen with another gay or bi man."

 

It's unfortunate that you view someone pointing out how some posters make others' threads all about themselves, as "policing." Up to this point in the thread, you still haven't even offered any help to the OP. Instead you've blamed others for being overly sensitive to a post that was inconsiderate and unhelpful at a minimum, and, at worst, came across as patronizing and insulting. Rather than deflect, couldn't you have just offered a "mea culpa," and then a helpful suggestion, if you knew of someone that the OP might like?

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marylander1940 Grand Master

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As @hornytwells also noted, your post read as though you were castigating the OP for his fetish. Perhaps that wasn't your intention, but that's how it came across. At a minimum, your post was completely unhelpful to the specific request of the OP, and addressed only what you thought about hiring straight guys, rather than helping him find what he wants.

 

Call him... ask for help.

 

Thank you for pointing out that you're the one who first brought up the idea of hiring for a BFE. Since the OP never inquired about that (he instead asked about straight porn stars who are "affectionate and fun with a guy"), then his post makes even more sense, since plenty of straight escorts can do that. In contrast, your response looks even less like a serious attempt to provide him with some useful information that actually addresses his request. In fact you've now admitted that your response really served to just make the OP's thread all about you: "He didn't say BFE, I'm the only who brought that up as something I like and I consider is more likely to happen with another gay or bi man."

 

It was sarcasm! BFE /affectionate... tomato/e

 

You're the center of attention and you're hijacking this thread because you need it while not helping the OP

 

It's unfortunate that you view someone pointing out how some posters make others' threads all about themselves, as "policing." Up to this point in the thread, you still haven't even offered any help to the OP. Instead you've blamed others for being overly sensitive to a post that was inconsiderate and unhelpful at a minimum, and, at worst, came across as patronizing and insulting. Rather than deflect, couldn't you have just offered a "mea culpa," and then a helpful suggestion, if you knew of someone that the OP might like?

 

I don't think anybody in NYC needs help finding what he wants.

 

I'll make sure you keep on policing others who castigate/insult others on here the way I did. You'll need time to type. LOL

 

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You're the center of attention and you're hijacking this thread because you need it while not helping the OP

 

 

 

I don't think anybody in NYC needs help finding what he wants.

 

 

You seriously said that while ignoring that in my first response to you I typed an entire paragraph offering helpful suggestions to the OP based on what he actually asked about? Particularly when you responded to that post of mine, and even block-quoted entire segments of it, but conveniently ignored that part which directly attempted to help the OP, in favor of arguing for your right to say anything you want, no matter how inconsiderate, without being called out because that would be *gasp* policing. The irony of all of this cannot be lost on the readers.

 

And clearly, the OP needs help because he asked for it. I also live in NYC and travel often to LA, probably the two largest escort markets. Yet, I often rely on the members of this forum for help in finding providers. Your assumption on that issue is just silly.

 

I note that you still haven't offered any suggestions to help the OP. Your silence speaks volumes.

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You seriously said that while ignoring that in my first response to you I typed an entire paragraph offering helpful suggestions to the OP based on what he actually asked about? Particularly when you responded to that post of mine, and even block-quoted entire segments of it, but conveniently ignored that part which directly attempted to help the OP, in favor of arguing for your right to say anything you want, no matter how inconsiderate, without being called out because that would be *gasp* policing. The irony of all of this cannot be lost on the readers.

 

And clearly, the OP needs help because he asked for it. I also live in NYC and travel often to LA, probably the two largest escort markets. Yet, I often rely on the members of this forum for help in finding providers. Your assumption on that issue is just silly.

 

Please let it go.... learn to move on or I'll @Strafe13 every time someone is in under attack so you can come rescue them.

 

I note that you still haven't offered any suggestions to help the OP. Your silence speaks volumes.

 

and you just speak volumes...

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Please let it go.... learn to move on or I'll @Strafe13 every time someone is in under attack so you can come rescue them.

 

 

 

and you just speak volumes...

 

First you bullied the OP, who's a newbie, then you minimized what you did because he can ostensibly fend for himself (like that excused what you did), and now you've attempted to bully those who stand up for the new poster by threatening to tag them in all posts where others might be attacked. Be careful, dear. The moderators are watching.

 

And, after all of this, you still haven't offered to help the OP.

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First you bullied the OP, who's a newbie, then you minimized what you did because he can ostensibly fend for himself (like that excused what you did), and now you've attempted to bully those who stand up for the new poster by threatening to tag them in all posts where others might be attacked. Be careful, dear. The moderators are watching.

 

And, after all of this, you still haven't offered to help the OP.

You must understand: only @marylanders opinions, views and incessant obnoxious nonsense should be allowed full reign in this thread. Anyone who dares to disagree or actually might want to offer help to the OP or even a differing opinion must “let it go” or be accused of policing. Also, now we are promised threats that if you don't let it go he will tag you every time he sees fit?

The irony is not lost.

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marylander1940 Grand Master

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You must understand: only @marylanders opinions, views and incessant obnoxious nonsense should be allowed full reign in this thread. Anyone who dares to disagree or actually might want to offer help to the OP or even a differing opinion must “let it go” or be accused of policing. Also, now we threats that if you don't let it go he will tag you every time he sees fit?

The irony is not lost.

 

Do you have a file on me? You can always ignore me if that pleases you. Give names to the OP, don't just pretend to be a good Samaritan "helping" him, actually do it.

 

Yinz don't get sarcasm, right?

 

I can't imagine how would you react if someone really messes with you on here? You're just too sensitive.

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First you bullied the OP, who's a newbie, then you minimized what you did because he can ostensibly fend for himself (like that excused what you did), and now you've attempted to bully those who stand up for the new poster by threatening to tag them in all posts where others might be attacked. Be careful, dear. The moderators are watching.

 

And, after all of this, you still haven't offered to help the OP.

 

I'm the bully on here? Gimme a break... you're too obsessed with this subject.

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