No one seems partial to above average guys

[+ goosh69]

I find that if you look hard enough and pay enough you can find stunning looks AND all the other stuff some of you people claim good looking guys lack.

[Bearofdistinction]

There are a lot of things that make a Man Beautiful/Desirable/Sexy/Masculine - Unusual/Exotic eyes/a beautiful smile/a great laugh/a sharp mind/ a sense of humor/ being engaged etc

 

There are many Clark Kents' - who when they take off their businesswear are Supermen

 

--- I would rather spend time with a Clark Kent with a good heart a sense of fun and a nice hard 7 . . .

 

- Than a Muscle God with 9+ who would rather look at himself in every mirror - and watch who is watching him in the bar/rest/club than share time with me . . .

[+ g56whiz]

I don't remember where I heard this but, it was something along the lines of it is easier for average looking men with social skills to get laid then it is for very good looking men. I think it was more along the lines of what women are attracted to but I think it still applies here...it is easier to be 'chill' and laid back and be yourself with an average looking guy and find their sense of humor more charming. Then with good looking guys you expect them to be players or be more snobbish.

 

True. Smiles are so sexy!!!

[+ g56whiz]

But hey!!

For some of us (like me sometimes) part of the is escort transaction is the fantasy of sexually pleasing a guy so handsome and sexy he wouldn’t allow you on the same planet.

[+ Gar1eth]

Most boards that are similar to this feature mainly adonises. Im trying to understand all the excitement over all these guys that would blend into any crowd. If you are paying money shouldnt your guy look like a firefighter or nfl player? I know different strokes but can ppl tell me what is most important when hiring?

The Helix models are too scrawny. The CF models are too beefy. The Belami models are just right.

 

I don't think there has been such a bevy of beautiful boys as Belami has!

 

In my case I love the jockish look of the CF Guys. It seems to me when I first started looking at the escort sites, you could find several of these types of guys on Premier and most of the guys at Maximum until their last year or so. I don’t watch a lot of porn. But if I’m remembering correctly, Bel Ami guys while handsome look too made up for me and a bit on the thin side for me. I’m not usually into beauty. I go more for cute, all-American features.

 

As our old friend @JT Brooklyn used to always say, “De gustibus non est disputandum ( Regarding taste there can be no argument).”*

 

Gman

 

*Although many of us have definitely tried disputing another person’s taste here on the Forum.

[Pepper Young]

I always wonder, are guys who are truly handsome, know it? Or do they look in the mirror and see someone who is too thin, or muscle bound, or not very bright?

I work with a young guy who is quite handsome. Sometimes I want to ask him, do you know how good looking you are? Because I don't think he sees it.

[MartyB]

I've hired escorts that appeal to me both physically and how they are as a person and a connection that is made because of their abilities and desire to please. For this client the choice will vary. I don't have a type but what I have learned through trial and error is to trust my instincts. Sheer beauty does not always make a great escort and a good review does not always mean it will work for you. Luckily the worst choices I've made was just a blah time in bed.

[realeasymoney]

Another reason to use my Bring Back Bar Hustlers motto. Sexual attraction is a weird thing. For me, it depends on the whole person and can't be determined via an ad on Rentmen. Got to be in person.

[+ JEC]

My hottest encounters have been with guys who are 8/10, there is no attitude and they are totally committed to pleasing you.

Chemistry is so much hotter than physicality (although both is great when you can find it).

I'll take a mischievous grin (or smile) over the brooding surly look anyday.

Nothing is more of a boner-killer (to me) than a "do me" queen, or an attitude.

When chemistry clicks....fireworks happen ....

[MikeBiDude]

Chemistry is so much hotter than physicality

+1

[Edward]

Pepper Young when I was young I was a tall skinny geek. When I matured, I turned into a handsome man. For the first part of my adult life I did not believe the complements I was getting. So no not all good looking men realize their handsomeness ( beauty ).

Edited March 9, 2018 by Edward

[+ oldNbusted]

I always wonder, are guys who are truly handsome, know it? Or do they look in the mirror and see someone who is too thin, or muscle bound, or not very bright?

I work with a young guy who is quite handsome. Sometimes I want to ask him, do you know how good looking you are? Because I don't think he sees it.

 

Pepper Young when I was young I was a tall skinny geek. Whan I matured, I turned into a handsome man. For the first part of my adult life I did not believe the complements I was getting. So no not all good looking men realize their handsomeness ( beauty ).

 

 

And on the flip side of that are guys who know that other guys find them attractive and make the most of it, even if they don't think they are themselves attractive.