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JEC Grand Master

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I think most all bend the truth, with varying intentions. For example, most will tell you you're the only client they're seeing that day (even one on a traveling road show where you know the are seeing 4-6 clients/day). Some will tell you they are making enough to retire and have an exit plan/strategy, tell you they make more money than they actually do, or they have a college degree from a good school, are from a super wealthy family the list goes on. I'm sure some of these statements are true, but I hear them too often for that to be likely. Others may tell lies with more nefarious intentions. I think it's part of the game when you come into this space....you are paying for a fantasy which is not reality; the escort in many cases is telling you what they think you want to hear while also protecting their own privacy. I don't expect 100% truth from my providers, and therefore don't ask a lot of deep questions....keep it light, and keep it moving.

 

That said, I do expect them to provide courteous professional service (which means keeping your word on things) ...like, being on time, providing the service(s) agreed, and not being sketched out on drugs when we meet.

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LaffingBear Veteran

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Anyone on here come across any escorts that lie but think you are stupid and will believe it? I have.

 

Uh huh

 

Escorts

And sales people

And repair men

And hairdressers

And employers

And coworkers

And recruiters

And relatives

And friends

And children

And elected officials

 

People lie. Not all of the time. Not most of the time. Not always with evil intent. Sometimes we label them "little white lies." But they're still lies.

 

Its the human condition.

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marylander1940 Grand Master

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Uh huh

 

Escorts

And sales people

And repair men

And hairdressers

And employers

And coworkers

And recruiters

And relatives

And friends

And children

And elected officials

 

People lie. Not all of the time. Not most of the time. Not always with evil intent. Sometimes we label them "little white lies." But they're still lies.

 

Its the human condition.

 

And folks trying to get laid on grindr misrepresenting their age, stats, HIV, etc.

 

We all occasionally say untrue things to get something we want, don't we?

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glutes Grand Master

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And folks trying to get laid on grindr misrepresenting their age, stats, HIV, etc.

 

We all occasionally say untrue things to get something we want, don't we?

 

 

cyn·i·cism

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noun

  1. 1.
    an inclination to believe that people are motivated purely by self-interest; skepticism.
    "public cynicism about politics"
    synonyms: skepticism, doubt, distrust, mistrust, suspicion, disbelief; More
     

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a school of ancient Greek philosophers, the Cynics.

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marylander1940 Grand Master

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cyn·i·cism

ˈsinəˌsizəm/

noun

  1. 1.
    an inclination to believe that people are motivated purely by self-interest; skepticism.
    "public cynicism about politics"
    synonyms: skepticism, doubt, distrust, mistrust, suspicion, disbelief; More
  2. 2.
    a school of ancient Greek philosophers, the Cynics.

 

I should have said: most/some...

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MikeyGMin Experienced

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This was a local bodybuilder here in Vegas I am sponsoring. One day I see he has an ad on Rent man. So I asked him about it. His response was” I don’t like that site. I am actually posting the ad for a gay friend of mine at work. He wants to keep his privacy so I am posting my pics for him to drum up business for him. Then we will split the proceeds.”

Funny when a friend of mine responded to his ad he didn’t say anything about this. He said it was for him. I don’t like being played for a fool when I am paying large amounts of money helping someone I thought I could trust. If I confront him about it I probably would lose his friendship and I have a lot invested in him.

The stakes go up considerably when you are "sponsoring" or "suppoting" or "keeping" (or whatever you want to call it) a young man. I think you should both give and receive a greater degree of honesty, but it's still best not to scratch too deeply. (Believe me, I've been there.) You can't start thinking that your greater degree of support allows you greater control over a guy or you are bound for misery.

 

I can handle lies of omission, but I hate being looked in the eye and lied to, so I try never to ask questions that I'm not prepared to have answered honestly.

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nycman Grand Master

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If I confront him about it I probably would lose his friendship and I have a lot invested in him.

 

Life’s full of tough choices....ain’t it?

- Ursula from The Little Mermaid

 

You can't start thinking that your greater degree of support allows you greater control over a guy or you are bound for misery.

Client handbook....Rule #45.

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rvwnsd Grand Master

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Hey, @Vegasguy, sorry to hear the guy you are sponsoring told you a story (or "his friend" told the prospective client a story) that isn't true and that said story has caused you to question your sponsor relationship with him. Here's a point to ponder (and you don't have to answer in the Forum): if he answered "yes, I am escorting because [insert reason such as 'I need additional funds and did not want to ask you to increase your very generous contribution'] would you be upset?

 

...I have a lot invested in him.

 

Just curious: By "invested" do you mean "have spent a lot of money" or "have been promised a portion of any money he wins as a competitive bodybuilder"? If the former, it isn't an investment.

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caliguy Veteran

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It's easier to tell the truth. Less to forget.

I don't see the difference between being with someone and acting your way through the sex vs. telling them that their handsome. Lets face it. There are some guys you really do need to act your way through it. We've all been there to varying degrees. Especially true when were talking about escorting.

 

I don't consider telling someone their handsome a big deal. Maybe he was trying to warm RD up. Esteem issues or some other BS. It's called a white lie and we all do it.

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oldNbusted Grand Master

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Anyone on here come across any escorts that lie but think you are stupid and will believe it? I have.

 

Yes, in fact three in 2017. Only one felt malicious, in that he never intended to deliver as he agreed, so his opinion of my intelligence didn't appear to be a factor. The other two I would put in the "I'm smarter than this guy, so he won't notice how my story changes as I retell it" category, but it didn't feel that malicious, just garden variety 'let me see how little I can get away with doing for this money today' shortsightedness. None of them were recommended by the forum, they were all me striking out on my own. So you are not alone, I suppose. I'm none the worse for wear and consider it the cost of doing business to have meet some really terrific guys.

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As a client I expect a certain degree of stretching the truth on escorts parts. Mostly those complements about my great physical attributes lol. Although I've learned most were not exaggerating on one of my body parts lol. What I can't abide by are an escort who has put me in a very uncomfortable position and feeling because of their indifference to me. If you lie about a cancellation because u state your not feeling well I'm ok with that unless it's one hour to meet them and I'm on my way. Once an escort has done something on this order I never repeat and will rate them accordingly.

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