What makes for a good blow job?

[KyleS]

The giver needs to keep his eyes open and look up at the receiver!

Damn agreed! And it's even better seeing veins pop out from the giver's forehead, and the receiver keep feeling the giver's arms. (Is it a fetish btw?)

Edited February 11, 2018 by KyleS

[mike carey]

No point of talking about it.... Let's meet and I will show you!

Peter, you're making me all weak at the knees!

[jjkrkwood]

I like doing that too. Really fun to work my tongue in between the head and the skin.

 

Also, whenever I'm meeting up with an uncut guy who wants to get sucked, I always ask if he'll also let me stroke it for a while - and if I can watch him stroke it as well. Always just so hot to watch the skin move back and forth over and off the head.

 

 

You Get Under My Skin

 

https://78.media.tumblr.com/7db8845fcc7533689cb951de42fa4ca1/tumblr_p3wn31pitZ1sgptq6o1_500.jpg

[+ peterhung85]

If I ever get to Las Vegas, I will hold you to that statememt and offer a bonus for no hands cumming.

Mister; you have no idea who you are dealing with.... YOU ARE ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[+ freecahill1965]

Mister; you have no idea who you are dealing with.... YOU ARE ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am all excited. I am hoping to be out there in July or August with some friends. I have a nice timeshare at the Grandview. To be continued...

[DMICS]

To turn the tables for a moment - those of us who GIVE blow jobs also have our needs at times, and things that make the experience special for us.

 

I'm sure there are plenty of guys who are happy simply to get their mouth on a nice cock, and to give the best service they can, but not expect anything much in the way of response from the guy getting sucked.

 

Personally, I really dislike that. With very few exceptions, I don't like when the guy just lays back and receives - when that happens, I actually find myself not wanting to do as good a job. (Or, in the politics of the moment, lol, I might try to do whatever I can to get the guy off quickly, so that it's over sooner.)

 

I find that for me, one of the most satisfying and erotic responses back is for them to reach out and start caressing my head. Stroking my hair, gently guiding my head up and down, having their hand rubbing my face or chin or neck, or shoulders, etc. Or my nipples, which drives me wild. A guy who naturally likes to give that sort of reciprocal touch is a guy that I would blow anytime, lol.

 

Vocal response is also key. I tend not to like too much "porn script" talk, but even that can be kinda fun when it feels truly honest and not just a guy saying what he thinks he's supposed to say. Or, wordless grunts/moans/breathing, etc - all so sexy. Plus, of course, any reactions like that give me a clue as to the particular things I'm doing that feel the best to him.

 

I'm sure other "givers" out here can add to this list.

 

Giving blowjobs is pretty much the main and only thing I do sexually. I love it so much with a passion. As a giver I like for my receiver to be somewhat vocal, also grunts/moans/breathing is so important.

 

I actually don't like to be caressed or touched. Holding my head when being face fucked is good but other than that, no touching.

[LaffingBear]

When I was under 30, most guys could make me cum via a nice blow job. Now it takes a lot more than that. Now sure why.

stamina and duration are some of the benefits of aging.

 

As are common sense, discretion, perspective, ...... but I digress.

 

Enjoy

[+ peterhung85]

I am all excited. I am hoping to be out there in July or August with some friends. I have a nice timeshare at the Grandview. To be continued...

Can't wait to see how this story ends....

[marylander1940]

"Do no harm"

[arnie]

Thanks guys for your input. I didn't want to steer the conversation from the start, but my turn on is that the guy is not just trying to get me off but is really almost more into enjoying my cock, making love to it and getting off on sucking me. I agree that in giving, interaction from the recieves, expecially physical like holding and rubbing my head along with verbal, is very important in stimulating me to even more into it.

 

And to Peter Hung, I live in Vegas, Right now I have a BF but if I do get back to hiring, you will be at the top of my list

[+ freecahill1965]

Can't wait to see how this story ends....

Hopefully with a happy ending!

[GLEE]

No point of talking about it.... Let's meet and I will show you!

 

Remind me when is my trip to LV again?

[roxxxoff]

I look for the mouth to reach the base. I'm rather tiny, so I'm surprised nobody has attempted to just swallow my whole damn genitals, quite frankly. An eager swallow of my monster loads is preferred, but then again it's also fun to see their look of shock when I blast Olympic distances out of my teeny peen.

I love small cocks that let me fit everything in my mouth--and the look on his face when I start to hum!! And I'd love to feel those Olympic distances blasted down my throat!!

[+ pitman]

Hopefully with a happy ending!

And a tasty ending!

[+ peterhung85]

Thanks guys for your input. I didn't want to steer the conversation from the start, but my turn on is that the guy is not just trying to get me off but is really almost more into enjoying my cock, making love to it and getting off on sucking me. I agree that in giving, interaction from the recieves, expecially physical like holding and rubbing my head along with verbal, is very important in stimulating me to even more into it.

 

And to Peter Hung, I live in Vegas, Right now I have a BF but if I do get back to hiring, you will be at the top of my list

I will take you up on that offer but I would rather have you stay in a satisfying and love-filled relationship! Stuff like that warms my heart....

[+ peterhung85]

Remind me when is my trip to LV again?

Hahahaha.... not soon enough

[thickornotatall]

Giving blowjobs is pretty much the main and only thing I do sexually. I love it so much with a passion. As a giver I like for my receiver to be somewhat vocal, also grunts/moans/breathing is so important.

 

I actually don't like to be caressed or touched. Holding my head when being face fucked is good but other than that, no touching.

I also am not that interested in being made love to....I love the excitement of sucking a huge cock ..balls....maybe rimming...sucking toes..fingers...inner thighs...I can make a grown man cry....(with joy) writhe with ecstasy....breathe heavily....and finally collapse after coming...

If I have a deep connection I will kiss..sniff pits....grind....I love oral sex....not too interested in a huge cock up my ass...I save that for my mouth...Also I'm only interested in XXL/XThick so I'm limited in my choice of men...but manage....

[BaronArtz]

very interesting - but this is all talk. Does anyone know of AMAZING instructional videos?

[Racketjock]

Not too much teeth, a warm, wet mouth, and a hungry cock sucker that slurps down my load with abandon, then following said slurping shares a deep sloppy kiss with me. Woof!

[+ Avalon]

Not too much teeth, a warm, wet mouth, and a hungry cock sucker that slurps down my load with abandon, then following said slurping shares a deep sloppy kiss with me. Woof!

 

Sounds like the plot of a Belami movie!

Edited February 19, 2018 by Avalon

[+ purplekow]

When receiving, I prefer a no hands technique.

When giving; I do like a hand or hands to the back of the head and a moan or twelve.

[thickornotatall]

very interesting - but this is all talk. Does anyone know of AMAZING instructional videos?

If you need an instructional video....maybe not for you...leave the driving to me...

[bostonman]

and a hungry cock sucker that slurps down my load with abandon

 

I know there is always a bit of controversy about swallowing and health consequences. I don't wish to start that conversation here - I just want to say how awesome that moment is, in so many ways. To me, eating a guy's semen is likeingesting liquid testosterone - the essence of his manhood. When a guy knows I like to swallow, and/or when I know he likes to be swallowed, the moment becomes a very intense male bonding as we both share the incredible intimacy of the moment.

 

Also, I've always been very drawn to the amazing contradictions of orgasm, in the way that it's both the most powerful, masculine moment in sex, but also the most vulnerable at the exact same time. A guy shooting his load into my mouth is a manifestation of his power, but my causing him to give up his sperm that way makes me the powerful one and him the one giving into the overwhelming pleasure. (See "succubus" lol.)

 

Though I strongly believe that sex is (and always should be) SO much more than just getting to orgasm, I do have to admit that when I'm blowing someone, part of my desire is to end up with a mouthful of jizz. And I'd say that most guys I've been with have been very happy to oblige.

[phraughy]

I know there is always a bit of controversy about swallowing and health consequences. I don't wish to start that conversation here - I just want to say how awesome that moment is, in so many ways. To me, eating a guy's semen is likeingesting liquid testosterone - the essence of his manhood. When a guy knows I like to swallow, and/or when I know he likes to be swallowed, the moment becomes a very intense male bonding as we both share the incredible intimacy of the moment.

 

Also, I've always been very drawn to the amazing contradictions of orgasm, in the way that it's both the most powerful, masculine moment in sex, but also the most vulnerable at the exact same time. A guy shooting his load into my mouth is a manifestation of his power, but my causing him to give up his sperm that way makes me the powerful one and him the one giving into the overwhelming pleasure. (See "succubus" lol.)

 

Though I strongly believe that sex is (and always should be) SO much more than just getting to orgasm, I do have to admit that when I'm blowing someone, part of my desire is to end up with a mouthful of jizz. And I'd say that most guys I've been with have been very happy to oblige.

.Well said. I concure.

[Inkdnaija00]

Tongue, lips and deep throat