What makes for a good blow job?

[arnie]

What are the things that you look for or experience that make you feel that this one was special?

[nsguy45]

When he removes his dentures.

[+ nycman]

Gagging....then swallowing to the base.

 

And spit...lots of spit.

[jjkrkwood]

ME !

[TruthBTold]

I had a partner (escort) say to me once, "Wow, it was like you were making love to my cock." That was really nice. I look for the guy to put some gusto into it and that he concentrate on every part of the cock (head, balls, etc.) If he gets down past the balls with his tongue he will usually get a nice moan or two from me. Also as already been mentioned swallowing to the balls just feels nice. I wonder why you can feel when the guy has deep throated even with your eyes closed? The tissue of your throat can't be that different.

[+ freecahill1965]

I think this answer will be a little different for everyone. I like when they start by gently licking the shaft, balls and all around. As their tongue runs up the shaft, they nibble on the head and suck then deep throating but focus on the head. As they are jerking the shaft, they suck and swirl their tongue. They make a swirling motion over the head and increase the jerking, sucking and tongue swirling. Then when I am ready to cum, they apply sucking pressure and a swirling tongue as I cum in their mouth. The prior description makes a perfect blowjob for me.

[jjkrkwood]

I think this answer will be a little different for everyone. I like when they start by gently licking the shaft, balls and all around. As their tongue runs up the shaft, they nibble on the head and suck then deep throating but focus on the head. As they are jerking the shaft, they suck and swirl their tongue. They make a swirling motion over the head and increase the jerking, sucking and tongue swirling. Then when I am ready to cum, they apply sucking pressure and a swirling tongue as I cum in their mouth. The prior description makes a perfect blowjob for me.

 

Back in the day, we called this "The Silky Swirl"

[+ José Soplanucas]

Freaky voracity.

[+ Avalon]

The giver needs to keep his eyes open and look up at the receiver!

[jjkrkwood]

Lots of sucktion and NO teeth (unless they ask for it)

[liubit]

I think this answer will be a little different for everyone. I like when they start by gently licking the shaft, balls and all around. As their tongue runs up the shaft, they nibble on the head and suck then deep throating but focus on the head. As they are jerking the shaft, they suck and swirl their tongue. They make a swirling motion over the head and increase the jerking, sucking and tongue swirling. Then when I am ready to cum, they apply sucking pressure and a swirling tongue as I cum in their mouth. The prior description makes a perfect blowjob for me.

Like he says.

[+ PapaTony]

When one of my favorite boys, the first time we were together, thrashed around moaning and said “damn daddy, you’ve got some talent”

[+ pitman]

In a good blow job all the work should be done with the mouth. No hands - thats cheating. One of the most satisfying things for me is when I can make a man cum this way.

[+ freecahill1965]

In a good blow job all the work should be done with the mouth. No hands - thats cheating. One of the most satisfying things for me is when I can make a man cum this way.

I agree. It would take a very special blowjob for me to cum hands free. I would love to meet that provider it would be worth every dollar.

[+ peterhung85]

What are the things that you look for or experience that make you feel that this one was special?

No point of talking about it.... Let's meet and I will show you!

[+ saminseattle]

Any thoughts on whether the technique should vary between recipients who are circumcised versus uncircumcised? Genuinely curious here.

[+ freecahill1965]

No point of talking about it.... Let's meet and I will show you!

If I ever get to Las Vegas, I will hold you to that statememt and offer a bonus for no hands cumming.

[+ PapaTony]

I agree. It would take a very special blowjob for me to cum hands free. I would love to meet that provider it would be worth every dollar.

 

I never use my hands and never fail at bringing an orgasm

[jjkrkwood]

Any thoughts on whether the technique should vary between recipients who are circumcised versus uncircumcised? Genuinely curious here.

 

Certainly, there's usually an extra step with uncut; exposing the Head, which is very sensitive. but covered.. And the excess skin is fun to play with and nibble on..

[bostonman]

To turn the tables for a moment - those of us who GIVE blow jobs also have our needs at times, and things that make the experience special for us.

 

I'm sure there are plenty of guys who are happy simply to get their mouth on a nice cock, and to give the best service they can, but not expect anything much in the way of response from the guy getting sucked.

 

Personally, I really dislike that. With very few exceptions, I don't like when the guy just lays back and receives - when that happens, I actually find myself not wanting to do as good a job. (Or, in the politics of the moment, lol, I might try to do whatever I can to get the guy off quickly, so that it's over sooner.)

 

I find that for me, one of the most satisfying and erotic responses back is for them to reach out and start caressing my head. Stroking my hair, gently guiding my head up and down, having their hand rubbing my face or chin or neck, or shoulders, etc. Or my nipples, which drives me wild. A guy who naturally likes to give that sort of reciprocal touch is a guy that I would blow anytime, lol.

 

Vocal response is also key. I tend not to like too much "porn script" talk, but even that can be kinda fun when it feels truly honest and not just a guy saying what he thinks he's supposed to say. Or, wordless grunts/moans/breathing, etc - all so sexy. Plus, of course, any reactions like that give me a clue as to the particular things I'm doing that feel the best to him.

 

I'm sure other "givers" out here can add to this list.

[TruthBTold]

I like to intermittently pick the giver's head up, having him look at me, and if possible, then pull his head toward me as I bend forward so as to kiss him. Then push his head back to my cock and have him begin again.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

I agree. It would take a very special blowjob for me to cum hands free. I would love to meet that provider it would be worth every dollar.

When I was under 30, most guys could make me cum via a nice blow job. Now it takes a lot more than that. Now sure why.

[liubit]

Certainly, there's usually an extra step with uncut; exposing the Head, which is very sensitive. but covered.. And the excess skin is fun to play with and nibble on..

Ditto: playing with foreskin is an added treat. I particularly enjoy sliding my tongue between the foreskin and the glans, stretching the skin with my hand, and gently, very gently, nibble on the skin and circle the penis head with my tongue. This normally drives my partner wild.

[bostonman]

Ditto: playing with foreskin is an added treat. I particularly enjoy sliding my tongue between the foreskin and the glans, stretching the skin with my hand, and gently, very gently, circle the head with my tongue. This normally drives my partner wild.

 

I like doing that too. Really fun to work my tongue in between the head and the skin.

 

Also, whenever I'm meeting up with an uncut guy who wants to get sucked, I always ask if he'll also let me stroke it for a while - and if I can watch him stroke it as well. Always just so hot to watch the skin move back and forth over and off the head.

[+ freecahill1965]

When I was under 30, most guys could make me cum via a nice blow job. Now it takes a lot more than that. Now sure why.

I agree. I think when I was under 30 cumming was a lot easier. I think with age things slow down a bit.