Newb: is there a such thing as a m4m trainer?

[Bblbutt3]

Wondering if there are guys who are in the spectrum of escorts and masseurs who do fitness training with similar benefits/motivations? Is this a thing? If so...I think it would definitely get me in shape. Lol. Or “trainers” of some other type?

 

I think compansu Major is just as important as the HE/ancillary benefits....but a massage isn’t as benefit as someone to get in shape with.

J/w

[escortrod]

I know of a couple in London, but I think it's more of a distraction than motivation to their clients.

[natmas02]

There's actually a lot of profiles that allude to it. I've seen plenty of escorts say that they do personal training on their ads, but it's all about boundaries. I think the main worry is that escorts who PT think clients will want to flirt/mess around in the gym rather than actually train.

[BaronArtz]

Are you in NY? This guy does both - although at different rates :}

 

https://www.thebestflex.com/profile/Justinherring

[RyanDean]

There've been a few forum conversations about this question/topic...

One of the more recent: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/personal-trainer-escort.128421/

[builder boy]

Are you in NY? This guy does both - although at different rates :}

 

https://www.thebestflex.com/profile/Justinherring

And he has a rentmen ad I believe.

[+ nycman]

It gets confusing fast....

 

Better to have a trainer....who trains you.

 

And an escort....who services your other needs.

 

Need motivation? No problem...just tell the escort.

He can “reward” you for reaching certain goals.

Do 20 workouts in a month?...you get to make out and get a hand job.

Bench your own weight?....you get a 30 minute blow job.

Loose 40 lbs.?....you get to fuck him for as long as you want.

 

Just be creative...and come up with a gradual list of 10 goals

and corresponding rewards with your escort. Want to make it

really fun? Let your trainer know about the side deal. Now it’s his

job to help you get what you want from the escort. A good trainer

will have no problem playing along and teasing you every step of

the way. Just understand that the frustration of not getting everything

you want from the escort on the first date is a huge part of your

motivation.

 

The problem arises if you get frustrated and pissed off at

the escort for not delivering the full services you really

want. In this scenario...withholding is part of his job...

and in the end it’s what will get your fats ass into shape.

 

Most importantly....have fun!

 

See you at the gym!

Edited January 7, 2018 by nycman

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

It gets confusing fast....

 

Better to have a trainer....who trains you.

 

And an escort....who services your other needs.

 

Need motivation? No problem...just tell the escort.

He can “reward” you for reaching certain goals.

Do 20 workouts in a month?...you get to make out and get a hand job.

Bench your own weight?....you get a 30 minute blow job.

Loose 40 lbs.?....you get to fuck him for as long as you want.

 

Just be creative...and come up with a gradual list of 10 goals

and corresponding rewards with your escort. Want to make it

really fun? Let your trainer know about the side deal. Now it’s his

job to help you get what you want from the escort. A good trainer

will have no problem playing along and teasing you every step of

the way. Just understand that the frustration of not getting everything

you want from the escort on the first date is a huge part of your

motivation.

 

The problem arises if you get frustrated and pissed off at

the escort for not delivering the full services you really

want. In this scenario...withholding is part of his job...

and in the end it’s what will get your fats ass into shape.

 

Most importantly....have fun!

 

Seee you at the gym!

 

 

Sage advice.

 

I'll repeat: Escorts for playtime. Trainers for work. Don't confuse the two.

[Man Crush Morris]

In my old hometown I used to see a semi pro escort-personal trainer that I lucked into knowing.

 

He was straight but would frote me very aggressively. Very handsome guy and exactly my type. He's still the only guy that never failed to make me ejaculate from froting.

 

He had rules but I was fine with them. The guy made me feel fantastic. The women in his life were very lucky.

[BaronArtz]

Sage advice.

 

I'll repeat: Escorts for playtime. Trainers for work. Don't confuse the two.

 

You are right, and I agree. However, in a place like NYC it is difficult to survive on a personal trainer compensation plan like Equinox's. Therefore ...

[river]

Sage advice.

 

I'll repeat: Escorts for playtime. Trainers for work. Don't confuse the two.

 

You are 100% correct. I am not attracted to my trainer at all and that's the way I want it. If you want an escort as a trainer, you are really just playing out a fantasy mentally.

[adventurous old guy]

You are right, and I agree. However, in a place like NYC it is difficult to survive on a personal trainer compensation plan like Equinox's. Therefore ...

I think this is true in a number of places. Bet there are a slough of escorts who used to be PTs, but moved into better paying positions.

[MaxMuscle9x6]

And he has a rent.men ad I believe.

He has recently taken down his rent.men and jocks2go.com profiles. As BaronArtz points out his thebestflex profile is active. Be sure to lock him down on what he is willing to do and not do. A few people said he refused to give head, kiss, get fucked on several occasions. He would, however, let them blow him. for $300/hr, he better be delivering more than that.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

You are right, and I agree. However, in a place like NYC it is difficult to survive on a personal trainer compensation plan like Equinox's. Therefore ...

 

A trainer who does well at Equinox can make six-figures a year. Albeit, for NYC that's not considered a huge salary: My main point in all of this is really the separation between work time and play time.

 

IMO, if you're serious about getting fit, you're not really looking to fuck your trainer.

[BaronArtz]

A trainer who does well at Equinox can make six-figures a year. Albeit, for NYC that's not considered a huge salary:

 

Your math is questionable.

 

Say a top notch Equinox trainer were to make $100,000 per year. In NYC, the average fee for Equinox trainers is $110/hour. Of which the trainer makes $55/hour, Equinox keeps the rest. To make $100,000/year, a trainer, assuming he works 260 days per year (52 weeks, 5 days a week), would have to train 7 clients per day, every day. No vacations. I don't see that happening. Most trainers are lucky to have 3-4 clients per day or even fewer. Which is why many moonlight by offering private training sessions at the client's home gyms, or venture into more 'profitable' client encounters.

 

The rotation of personal training staff, both male and female, at gyms in NYC is astonishing. Especially at Equinox. If you don't make your gross monthly sales figures, you are OUT.

 

I will say I haven't fucked any of MY personal Equinox trainers yet, although I have 'worked' with some of the guys there. The clients gossip about which trainers are 'available' and the trainers gossip about which clients are 'interested'. It works out really well, in the end.

 

I don't know about you, but I find it motivating to train with a well-built, sexy trainer. No matter how talented and knowledgeable, a slob trainer has no credibility with me.

Edited January 9, 2018 by BaronArtz

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Your math is questionable.

 

Say a top notch Equinox trainer were to make $100,000 per year. In NYC, the average fee for Equinox trainers is $110/hour. Of which the trainer makes $55/hour, Equinox keeps the rest. To make $100,000/year, a trainer, assuming he works 260 days per year (52 weeks, 5 days a week), would have to train 7 clients per day, every day. No vacations. I don't see that happening. Most trainers are lucky to have 3-4 clients per day or even fewer. Which is why many moonlight by offering private training sessions at the client's home gyms, or venture into more 'profitable' client encounters.

 

The rotation of personal training staff, both male and female, at gyms in NYC is astonishing. Especially at Equinox. If you don't make your gross monthly sales figures, you are OUT.

 

I will say I haven't fucked any of MY personal Equinox trainers yet, although I have 'worked' with some of the guys there. The clients gossip about which trainers are 'available' and the trainers gossip about which clients are 'interested'. It works out really well, in the end.

 

I don't know about you, but I find it motivating to train with a well-built, sexy trainer. No matter how talented and knowledgeable, a slob trainer has no credibility with me.

 

 

Ok.

[+ Funguy]

How about a trainer for the really fun stuff!

[Man Crush Morris]

 

I will say I haven't fucked any of MY personal Equinox trainers yet, although I have 'worked' with some of the guys there. The clients gossip about which trainers are 'available' and the trainers gossip about which clients are 'interested'. It works out really well, in the end.

 

Wish these trainers interested in some 'interested' clients would be more accessible. I don't even have an equinox membership but would love to hire some out for some private fun.

[+ poolboy48220]

in the mid-80's when hiring (in my experience) usually involved agencies advertising in the gay bar rags, I called one of the agencies and they were describing their guys. He said one was a trainer at a gym. He didn't identify which gym, and I was insanely curious - would have loved to be at the gym, seen that guy, and know what he was open to. :-)

[Lawkid3889]

There's a gym next door to my office which is on-Equinox's level where it's common knowledge there's certain trainers that will go beyond training with you.

 

Saying that, if you want to train and get fit then do that and leave the other stuff for other people. I will say that while I'm not attracted to MY trainer at a locally owned gym, some of his co-workers distract me enough sometimes.

[+ g56whiz]

IMO, if you're serious about getting fit, you're not really looking to fuck your trainer.

 

I agree completely HOWEVER I prefer a trainer who’s I unafraid to touch my body. Who when I’m trying a new tricep extension will reach over and twist my wrist into the correct position instead of trying to tell me how while I’m focusing on the power needed to complete the rep.

[LivingnLA]

I've known two trainers over the last decade who use sex to sell. They both identify as straight but focus their marketing on bi and gay men in the area and they use their bodies and friendly banter to tease/motivate their clients. As far as I know, they do all of this because it's very profitable and they avoid the temptation of the married housewives who like to sleep with their trainers. It makes sense to0 because they don't want the hassle of being attracted to a flirty female client plus the trainer's girlfriend/wife would kill them if they cheated on them.

Edited January 11, 2018 by LivingnLA

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I agree completely HOWEVER I prefer a trainer who’s I unafraid to touch my body. Who when I’m trying a new tricep extension will reach over and twist my wrist into the correct position instead of trying to tell me how while I’m focusing on the power needed to complete the rep.

 

Agreed

 

If he's too intimidated/uncomfortable/etc to even touch you, putting you into correct position as to avoid you doing self damage, find a new trainer.

 

My own trainer smacks parts of me when I'm not keeping my body in the right movement

[BaronArtz]

As far as I know, they do all of this because it's very profitable and they avoid the temptation of the married housewives who like to sleep with their trainers.

 

That is absolutely correct and in fact, more common than male trainers playing with male clients. Having gone to gyms at the tony upper eastside, NY and in the Hamptons, I am amazed at how many bored married housewives openly flirt/sleep with their trainer, their tennis coach ... the gardener - you name it. Even more so for divorced middle aged women - for them, it is the only male contact they are going to get. It is an epidemic. I wonder sometimes, if these women pay for sex. I can't prove the point, but I would think gay men are more generous.

[LivingnLA]

That is absolutely correct and in fact, more common than male trainers playing with male clients. Having gone to gyms at the tony upper eastside, NY and in the Hamptons, I am amazed at how many bored married housewives openly flirt/sleep with their trainer, their tennis coach ... the gardener - you name it. Even more so for divorced middle aged women - for them, it is the only male contact they are going to get. It is an epidemic. I wonder sometimes, if these women pay for sex. I can't prove the point, but I would think gay men are more generous.

 

I see it all the time in the gyms in and around Newport. It's pretty easy to tell by body language alone when a trainer is sleeping with a married female client. There are also the rumors that fly around different social circles. I know two couples in our neighborhood where they have an "understanding" because one of them travels nearly all the time for work. Hell, I actually know 3 couples, when I include my situation.

 

I don't know about the "paying for sex part." After all, if he's straight and she's hot, there's attraction that may overcome other concerns. Similar to when two gay guys meet. How many times have we seen hot young gay guys post something on CL about what they're looking for, but the "generous" don't have to meet those criteria? It probably varies though. I've been told about a massage therapist at a very high-end OC resort who sleeps with his married female clients if they book his $500/hr massage. His boyfriend told me about it. So it does happen, but you're probably right that men might be more generous if only because the trainer's "lack of interest" must be overcome.