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One of my regulars tells me that he enjoys my company both for the conversation and the deed. I believe him, and I sometimes wonder if he ever thinks of me. I know that I wouldn't be his first choice (if he was looking for a hook-up), but I can't help but wonder if he's ever hoped to get a message from me - asking for an appointment - not because of the $$, but because my company and my performance are great.

 

I know it's foolish to think this way, but this one regular is different. He was one of the 4 or so escorts who didn't make me feel like I'm ugly and undesirable. I just find it hard to believe that he (and the three others) fake their pleasure. An actor might have to take multiple takes to put on such a performance.

 

I just had to come here and ask because this has been on my mind for a while. I know I'm being dumb, but I haven't been unprofessional about it. I've never acted on these thoughts, and I always conducted myself professionally around the escort.

 

EDIT: just to clarify, I am NOT talking about a romantic relationship. I was thinking along the lines of what would normally happen in a session, even if you take out the physical part. If I ever develop romantic feelings for an escort (which hasn't happened yet), I would refrain from hiring them again.

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Not an escort...

 

I'm not sure what you're trying to get at. Are you asking if an escort contacts a regular just for the hell of it... for friendship? Are you asking if an escort will hook up with a client off the clock, as it were? Or are you asking is there a possibility of relationship beyond paid companionship that leads to something serious.

 

To be honest, anything is possible, but to be realistic... don't expect something serious in terms of a relationship.

- Do escorts enjoy the time and companionship they get with some clients? Absolutely. Does every escort enjoy every client. Probably not.

- Can seeing a client lead to a serious relationship? Absolutely. Does it happen frequently? Most likely not.

 

I have truly befriended some working guys. They contact me and I contact them often, just to say hello, see what we're up to, or generally catch up on things. I know for a fact they are genuinely happy to see me and I them whether its on the clock or not. We have often just met up to hang out, catch a movie, eat dinner... etc. I even went on a trip with one for 4 days and not one cent exchanged hands, no sex was had either. We did sleep in the same bed though. :)

 

On the sexual side...

One working guy tells me often I have his favorite dick ever. He has asked me many times to get a dildo made of it for him. (I haven't done it yet.) What may be closer to what you're asking... another guy, he and I click so well... that he no longer charges me for our time together. We meet for at least 12-15 hours each time, some times more. We've talked about the relationship being more of a boyfriend to boyfriend one. We haven't made it official, but it could lead that way. Ive told him if it happens, I'd be overjoyed about it, but if we just remain friends... I'd be happy about that too.

 

You're not dumb for wanting more and expressing your feeling. I don't know the full story here... However, don't feed into what he says until he proves otherwise. I have had many working guys tell me they love what we do together. I'm certain they are being honest. That's definitely an ego boost, but don't take it as a sign of romantic love.

 

Enjoy the times together... just don't let your emotions get the better of you and get hurt thinking something more is there when it's not.

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One of my regulars tells me that he enjoys my company both for the conversation and the deed. I believe him, and I sometimes wonder if he ever thinks of me. I know that I wouldn't be his first choice (if he was looking for a hook-up), but I can't help but wonder if he's ever hoped to get a message from me - asking for an appointment - not because of the $$, but because my company and my performance are great.

 

I know it's foolish to think this way, but this one regular is different. He was one of the 4 or so escorts who didn't make me feel like I'm ugly and undesirable. I just find it hard to believe that he (and the three others) fake their pleasure. An actor might have to take multiple takes to put on such a performance.

 

I just had to come here and ask because this has been on my mind for a while. I know I'm being dumb, but I haven't been unprofessional about it. I've never acted on these thoughts, and I always conducted myself professionally around the escort.

 

In other words, are you more than "just a client" to any of your hires? By and large, I have great experiences with my hires, and the thought creeps into my mind often. But I have a partner whom I've been with for many years. I'm not looking for a relationship. I look at those thoughts as being part of the furniture in that room that I always occupy for a couple of days after an encounter with an amazing man.

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I know for a fact that escorts and masseurs have favorite clients and ones they hope never call again. Sounds like you are on their favorite list. Just keep on doing what you're doing sexually speaking because obviously you do it good and keep on being the nice and fun person you are because obviously they enjoy your company. When your name appears on their caller ID they smile. :)

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I'm sure we all love you too!

 

@COLLEGEDOM seems to be out there herding former clients back into his lair. Not sure if that means he likes them though! To be fair, is also trying to entrap new clients. 'Come here, you seem like you really NEED this!'

 

Yes of course I really like my former clients and of course I will have new ones and YOU and other should be ever lucky to meet me !

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I made the mistake of befriending an escort that I saw with regularity over much of 2017. We confided a lot in each other and became quite close. My error was attempting to advise him regarding an on again-off again relationship he had been having with an abusive boyfriend. He foolishly, in my opinion, chose to remain with the abusive boyfriend and now I am the villain for advising him otherwise. Not that I had any delusions of replacing the boyfriend, no way, our age difference is too great. I was just offering counsel to a young man I cared about. I have chosen to not see him anymore, it had become too awkward.

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I made the mistake of befriending an escort that I saw with regularity over much of 2017. We confided a lot in each other and became quite close. My error was attempting to advise him regarding an on again-off again relationship he had been having with an abusive boyfriend. He foolishly, in my opinion, chose to remain with the abusive boyfriend and now I am the villain for advising him otherwise. Not that I had any delusions of replacing the boyfriend, no way, our age difference is too great. I was just offering counsel to a young man I cared about. I have chosen to not see him anymore, it had become too awkward.

Young and dumb unfortunately.

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I made the mistake of befriending an escort that I saw with regularity over much of 2017. We confided a lot in each other and became quite close. My error was attempting to advise him regarding an on again-off again relationship he had been having with an abusive boyfriend. He foolishly, in my opinion, chose to remain with the abusive boyfriend and now I am the villain for advising him otherwise. Not that I had any delusions of replacing the boyfriend, no way, our age difference is too great. I was just offering counsel to a young man I cared about. I have chosen to not see him anymore, it had become too awkward.

 

People rarely want advice, even when they appear to need it.

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There are a couple of clients I meet who I actively look forward to hearing from. They are regulars who I have established a bond with. In all cases the sex hasn’t gone stale either. There is only one regular that I don’t particularly relish hearing from, but he’s a nice guy so I keep meeting him.

Would hate to be that one guy! ;)

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We hire for fun, and we have more fun if our partners have fun too.

So I guess some escorts would pretend to enjoy it for marketing.

I know I'm not attractive, but almost all escorts seem to enjoy their time with me, which I know impossible.

One of them always acts like he is crazy about me, but when we cuddle together after having sex, he always asks me if I want to take a shower to remind me that the appointment is over. I realize that he wouldn't like to stay longer with me.

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The clients whom I don’t look forward to seeing are in the small minority. I am genuinely excited to see the majority of my clients, it’s neither a marketing strategy or an “act”. Perhaps I’m blessed to attract good energy, which is far more important than a great body.

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Depending upon the situation yes I do sometimes think of clients. Sometimes I would message them just to see if things are ok with them. If I know of thier birthdays, sending holiday season wishes. But nothing more other than that. I respect their privacy and except the same thing in return. But it is a nice gesture to offer the odd random out if the blue pleastry of kind words.

 

Some of my clients confide information that their partners or family don't know. Seeking a bit of "hypothetical" reactions to various situations. I see all of this as "bonding". Making the connection a bit deeper than just a "paid hook up". Afterall both parties want to enjoy the paid time together...why not get to know the person "within boundary limits" a bit more.

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