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When the top is passionate and exhibits skills that send great sensations all through me and have me panting and cringing with mucho pleasure--I'd bottom for him anytime! In looking back to when "I gave it up," I've had a few over-the-top experiences which I'd experienced and will continue to remember fondly.

 

Right now I have seen an escort four times in San Francisco who really knows how to "turn on" both of us. He's bi but kisses super-divinely and loves some hard, hot butt action himself short of receiving a man's cock!

Hope to see him again in 2018. My reviews of him here are tame and non-specific in terms of our overall play.

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The shape and size of the top's dick seems to have a lot to do with it. I've had a number of hands-free orgasms from getting fucked - In all cases the top had a long, straight, thick dick, with the head proportional to the shaft. But in all cases, he was also a skilled top who was really enjoying some deep slow fucking.

 

I can truly relate to what Rudynate posted! :) :p :)

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There's a lot to be said for emotional pleasure. Being breached too quickly is one of the worst pains imaginable. I'm always surprised how quickly it's forgotten though when a top gets past that point and starts enjoying himself. Isolate the pain of being pounded too hard or too deep and you might ask yourself why you'd bother. I still do, however, get a huge sustained thrill out of the overall experience of getting worked over by a rough, insistent top.

 

The first time I bottomed my top fucked me twice. The first experience was an overwhelming and satisfying head trip. The second time, however, I came hands-free even though I had just shot a half-hour earlier. Quite a few tops have managed to deliver surprising and unexpected physical pleasure while I was happy just to enjoy being receptive to their pounding.

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There's a lot to be said for emotional pleasure. Being breached too quickly is one of the worst pains imaginable. I'm always surprised how quickly it's forgotten though when a top gets past that point and starts enjoying himself. Isolate the pain of being pounded too hard or too deep and you might ask yourself why you'd bother. I still do, however, get a huge sustained thrill out of the overall experience of getting worked over by a rough, insistent top.

 

The first time I bottomed my top fucked me twice. The first experience was an overwhelming and satisfying head trip. The second time, however, I came hands-free even though I had just shot a half-hour earlier. Quite a few tops have managed to deliver surprising and unexpected physical pleasure while I was happy just to enjoy being receptive to their pounding.

 

 

My first hands-free orgasm from getting fucked was when I was about 20 years old. The few times I'd been fucked, I thought it was awful. I couldn't imagine why anyone would like it. I went home with this tall, skinny good-looking German. Inevitably he wanted to fuck me and I let him try. When he realized he was hurting me he backed way off and slowed way down and I had never felt anything quite like it. I sort of didn't know what to do, it was so pleasurable and only moments before, I had hated getting fucked so much. So after awhile, I could tell I was going to cum and then I REALLY didn't know what to do because it seemed so warped to cum from having a dick up my ass. I wanted to go back and see this guy, but I never did because I was so embarrassed at having liked it so much that I had an orgasm

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Just saw this post. I never thought I could bottom. But 2 of my favorite escorts showed me the way. Bottoming is both mental and physical. Plus the great Antton Harri once told me that the bottom is in control. If I'm not connected or feeling it and the top isn't working with me it ain't happening. I love when my toes curl. Grrr.

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Just saw this post. I never thought I could bottom. But 2 of my favorite escorts showed me the way. Bottoming is both mental and physical. Plus the great Antton Harri once told me that the bottom is in control. If I'm not connected or feeling it and the top isn't working with me it ain't happening. I love when my toes curl. Grrr.

 

I’m a top. And I like to top. I never plan on bottoming. But I will freely and truthfully admit that for me receiving oral usually feels better than topping. And a guy who knows how to give oral without gnawing me with his teeth (while not being porn star thick, I am on the thick side of things. So the gnawing I receive from some guys may be involuntary on their part) and can keep me on edge for a while, will definitely make my toes curl. The other thing that can make my toes curl is if I’m really horny, and a guy knows how to kiss on my neck and my ears. I’ve almost cum hands free with a skillful necker before.

 

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It's fascinating to think of how different we all are. I don't know if it's my own interior architecture or that I've been lucky with my partners, but bottoming is intensely physically pleasurable for me. Yes, I need foreplay and patience on penetration, yes the top's skill is important, and yes, there is also a strong emotional/psychological pleasure from the knowledge that another man is inside me. But even so, even my first time when I hired a very hung escort whose size gave me second thoughts on insertion, once the actually fucking begins the physical sensations are wonderful. I can remember my first orgasms from jerking off as a kid, and how amazing it was to discover my body could give me that pleasure. Bottoming was a similar kind of discovery, a pleasure I had not even suspected was possible. I can certainly function as a top, but my desire for a man quickly became a desire to be fucked, so I identify as a bottom, not even bottom/vers.

 

I guess bottoms should be glad there are total tops out there and vice versa.

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One of my hottest experiences from many years ago.... met a charming young African-American man in the steam room at East Side Club in Manhattan. (I am white.) We were feeling each other up and I was amazed at the huge club in my hands, invited him back to my cubicle. Definitely the biggest, hardest one I had ever seen, before or since, and I just had to have it. He entered gently at exactly the right angle from behind while cuddling me tightly and we just melted into each other... It was pure bliss. I wanted him to just stay in me, gently stirring the pot and going deep. And I remember thinking how much more peaceful the world might be if every man had this kind of experience....

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Just saw this post. I never thought I could bottom. But 2 of my favorite escorts showed me the way. Bottoming is both mental and physical. Plus the great Antton Harri once told me that the bottom is in control. If I'm not connected or feeling it and the top isn't working with me it ain't happening. I love when my toes curl. Grrr.

 

Yeah, I think bottoming is more "work" than topping.

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I generally am versatile however I am also very passionate. I particularly like paying attention to all parts of my partners body while we are together however I really love to rim. I could spend a long time on that particular enjoyment and introduce all sorts of things to stimulate the love cave. Consequently most times the guy ends up just wanting to bottom and I miss out on getting what I might have thought I might get at the beginning. In the past couple of years I have been trying more and more to make sure I bottom but it is hard because if I get a versatile guy it often ends up the same way as before. And if I go for just top I may not be able to convince them to let me fuck them in the beginning even if he is going to finish it off as long and hard as he wants. I'm also afraid that I won't enjoy bottoming because I have not done it enough. The dilemma.

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What has Prostate surgery done to your experience as a bottom? Is the Prostate essential to experience anal orgasmic stimulation?

 

I think it all depends on what you are looking for in a bottoming experience. Some people have orgasms from the cock interacting with the prostate. Others masturbate while they are getting fucked so when they cum I guess technically the prostate is involved but they just love the interaction with the top whatever it may be. I'm sure there are other things.

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I think it all depends on what you are looking for in a bottoming experience. Some people have orgasms from the cock interacting with the prostate. Others masturbate while they are getting fucked so when they cum I guess technically the prostate is involved but they just love the interaction with the top whatever it may be. I'm sure there are other things.

 

And then there's the "I just want to get you off, so hurry up and get it over with" ! :D:D

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