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Lance, it is true, hitting the prostrate at the right angle is fantastic. for me, it is also, the feeling of having my tops gong past my prostrate and going as deep inside of me as possible, feeling his balls up against my hole. His cock working every inch of my ass. Yes, the prostrate is the g spot, but having your top deep inside of you is for a btm, one of the most wonderful feelings that there is.

 

I always knew it was the size that counted. :( I’m lucky to be able to hit the prostate.

 

Gman

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The pleasure derived from bottoming is, for me, directly related to the tops approach. If the top is aggressive from the get-go then there is zero pleasure, however, if the top takes time entering and then starts with slow, gentle strokes there can be a significant amount of pleasure as the speed of the strokes gradually increases. I have never found any pleasure in being pounded.

 

It's exactly the same way for me. It's never good for me when the top starts pounding right away. Another way for me to get awesome pleasure from bottoming is to take control of the movement. There's a number of positions that allow the top to remain relatively stationary while I move in a way that feels good to me. It's all about having a top that is willing and able to focus on my pleasure (as opposed to just pounding me until he gets off). Once he gets me to that pleasure point, then he can move in a way that gets himself off.

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I guess I'm one of those "made to bottom" types. The physical enjoyment ranges from great to totally mind blowing. The emotional enjoyment is really determined by how my partner and I connect.

I discovered about three years ago that I also was a "made to Bottom" type. I agree with what you have said Then when I am with someone and the physical and emotional together shear heaven.

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Well I imagine that the tops DO, 99% of the time :p they didnt have to spend hours cleaning out, and then feeling like their assholes are being ripped apart...., and then probably bleeding for days afterwards.... WHY ????

I'm usually not into S/M, but it can be thrilling to give a masochistic bottom exactly what he asked for...

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Thanks for the mention. Heath, the other guy in the video, doesn't actually get fucked all that much, which is possibly why he's so sensitive and responsive to it. It's certainly about hitting the prostate at just the right angle, but there's more to it than that. Getting in a position that allows one to relax fully is a big part of it too, which is what I love about a sling.[/QUOTE]

 

Stop by anytime there are always fresh cookies by the sling -- Have to feed a powerful engine!

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Great post. I have to admit I have not previously thought about it. Reflecting on it, many times the pleasure has been emotional but little or no physical pleasure, but the couple of times there has been physical pleasure - WOW - nothing beats it.

 

I have found that times of greatest pleasure are finding the right position which varies with each partner. And some times the physical pleasure is stronger when I am distracted kissing my partner and thus not thinking about what's going on down there.

 

(Having a certain number of cocktails also distracts my mind.) ;)

 

 

Agree. If you're being topped by a skilled assman, it's a different thing.

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I’ve gotten VERY close to cumming hands free while getting fucked - depends on the Top. A big cock head stroking my prostate helps

 

The shape and size of the top's dick seems to have a lot to do with it. I've had a number of hands-free orgasms from getting fucked - In all cases the top had a long, straight, thick dick, with the head proportional to the shaft. But in all cases, he was also a skilled top who was really enjoying some deep slow fucking.

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The shape and size of the top's dick seems to have a lot to do with it. I've had a number of hands-free orgasms from getting fucked - In all cases the top had a long, straight, thick dick, with the head proportional to the shaft. But in all cases, he was also a skilled top who was really enjoying some deep slow fucking.

 

I’ve been with some guys (bottoms) though who really like the Energizer Bunny School of being fucked. I’ve been with several escorts and buddies who want it fast-and hard but that goes without saying. I’m not really the perfect top for them as I think I left my Energizer Buddy capability days long years before I ever actually had sex assuming I ever would have been capable of pile driving like that. I think my style of sex is best described by the “Best Little Whorehouse in Texas” philosophy -“Lots of goodwill and maybe one small thrill. But there’s nothing dirty going on.”

 

Gman

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