Traveling Cross Country for 1st Timer

[Cannon]

I' was asked by a guy to travel to Miami to meet with him. I live in LA. he wants me to spend a few days there. I've never met him but I have great instincts. I've chatted with him and my instincts say I'll be safe and will have a great time. He has already sent me the plane ticket. Have any of you traveled across country to meet a first time client. And if so, how did it all go?

[Michael Paul]

I' was asked by a guy to travel to Miami to meet with him. I live in LA. he wants me to spend a few days there. I've never met him but I have great instincts. I've chatted with him and my instincts say I'll be safe and will have a great time. He has already sent me the plane ticket. Have any of you traveled across country to meet a first time client. And if so, how did it all go?

I have had a few clients that wanted me to hire me from other states. For me the timing was not right..... good luck and have a good time.

[Cannon]

I'm no dummy. Its a roundtrip...I thought that went without saying..... did I really need to specify that?... I do have enough business sense & common sense to not pay for such a trip............In any event, Im looking forward to it.

You're making it sound like it's a one way. Hope you have fun, and are able to return on his dime, instead of having to pay what you were given to be able to leave!

Edited November 8, 2017 by Cannon

[jawjateck]

As a client, I have done this over 20 times, e.g. first time meeting a guy which involved him or me or both of us hopping a plane to meet somewhere. Every single one of these meetings was a complete, satisfying success. With good communications, clear expectations, and well-honed instincts, the chance of setting up a great encounter are high.

 

I hope you have a great trip!

[jawjateck]

I do have enough business sense & common sense

 

You have it ("sense"), but I have met plenty of providers who didn't have it. :rolleyes:

[jawjateck]

Oh yeah, and it's happening again......next week. I don't just talk the talk......:D

[Kevin Slater]

I'm no dummy. Its a roundtrip...I thought that went without saying..... did I really need to specify that?... I do have enough business sense & common sense to not pay for such a trip............In any event, Im looking forward to it.

 

Kevin Slater

[Cannon]

Kevin Slater

 

 

Amen!

[Rudynate]

I'm no dummy. Its a roundtrip...I thought that went without saying..... did I really need to specify that?... I do have enough business sense & common sense to not pay for such a trip............In any event, Im looking forward to it.

 

That was funny.

[Mocha]

I'm no dummy. Its a roundtrip...I thought that went without saying..... did I really need to specify that?... I do have enough business sense & common sense to not pay for such a trip............In any event, Im looking forward to it.

 

You may have business sense and common sense, but street smarts is what you need in Miami. And flying out to spend "a few days" with someone you never met in a city 3,000 miles away sounds crazy as hell to me. Did we not learn anything from the movie "get out?"

 

Jokes aside, To me it just seems strange that someone would fly an escort they never met from LA to Miami especially considering the abundance in both places. Unless you're more popular than it appears, it would seem that he would have to bypass all the escorts in Miami and the rest of Florida and even Atlanta...and then sift thru hundreds of escorts in L.A. to find you.

 

I've traveled/travel cross country to meet clients. Usually they came to my city first, and then later we planned to meet elsewhere. Some have even flew to me. But I wouldn't do it in a way that would put me in a situation to where I never met someone and only way to leave was to wait for "a few days" to catch a flight out in case shit goes not planned for whatever reason.

[Cannon]

You may have business sense and common sense, but street smarts is what you need in Miami. And flying out to spend "a few days" with someone you never met in a city 3,000 miles away sounds crazy as hell to me. Did we not learn anything from the movie "get out?"

 

Jokes aside, To me it just seems strange that someone would fly an escort they never met from LA to Miami especially considering the abundance in both places. Unless you're more popular than it appears, it would seem that he would have to bypass all the escorts in Miami and the rest of Florida and even Atlanta...and then sift thru hundreds of escorts in L.A. to find you.

 

I've traveled/travel cross country to meet clients. Usually they came to my city first, and then later we planned to meet elsewhere. Some have even flew to me. But I wouldn't do it in a way that would put me in a situation to where I never met someone and only way to leave was to wait for "a few days" to catch a flight out in case shit goes not planned for whatever reason.

 

Hi Mocha,

You didn't call me a "sell out" in this post and you were only slightly patronizing, you must be in a good mood this week.

In any event, I went and it was great. ......Mmmm I'm skeptical by nature but he ended up being the real deal which I knew when I got the ticket and he was a nice guy!!! Thanks for the concern but as I mentioned I have great instincts that always serve me well which is why I went and I'll go again if invited. To address your note, I don't know why guys hire companions from from clear across the country ...but if I had to make an educated guess I would say "it's because they can" or "because they want to" ...but I suppose you'd have to ask them for more details on that. This guy was the second person to contact me from out of state..but the other was in Arizona which is right next door to CA. I stayed with that guy for a few days and it was great and I knew it would be great because...instincts!! Florida was unique for me because it was literally across the country. Your comment makes it sound like it's unorthodox but a number of other companions here on this forum besides me have posted their similar experiences. @jawjatech mentioned on the thread that he as a client has flown guys in a number of times and all were great trips....Soooo it may not occur regularly but it's definitely not that unusual apparently. Evidence of that is that other companions have done this quite a bit and I've now done it twice and I've only been a companion for less than a year...and not even consistently because I do other things and have another job.

 

 

By the way, didn't you make a really long announcement that u weren't participating on this forum anymore? I'm just curious, what pray tell happened to that?

Edited November 13, 2017 by Cannon

[Mocha]

Hi Mocha,

You didn't call me a "sell out" in this post and you were only slightly patronizing, you must be in a good mood this week.

In any event, I went and it was great. ......Mmmm I'm skeptical by nature but He ended up being the real deal which I knew when I got the ticket and he was a really nice guy!!! Thanks for the concern but as I mentioned I have great instincts that always serve me well which is why I went and I'll go again if invited. To address your note, I don't know why guys hire companions from from clear across the country ...but if I had to make an educated guess I would say "it's because they can" or "because they want to" ...but I suppose you'd have to ask them for more details on that. This guy was the second person to contact me from out of state..but the other was in Arizona which is right next door to CA. I stayed with that guy for a few days and it was great and I knew it would be great because...instincts!! Florida was unique for me because it was literally across the country. Your comment makes it sound like it's unorthodox but a number of other companions here on this forum besides me have posted their similar experiences. @jawjatech mentioned on the thread that he as a client has flown guys in a number of times and all were great trips....Soooo it may not occur regularly but it's definitely not that unusual apparently. Evidence of that is that other companions have done this quite a bit and I've now done it twice and I've only been a companion for less than a year...and not even consistently because I do other things and have another job.

 

 

By the way, Didnt you make a really long announcement that u weren't participating on this forum anymore? I'm just curious, what pray tell happened to that?

 

I did make that announcement, but I didn't say when I would be doing it. And just because I'm not participating doesn't mean I won't pop up once in awhile and give my .02. See, it's all in the interpretation. Some things are allegories to a bigger picture.

 

As far as everything else, well personally I cant say I believe your story. You posted about someone asking to fly you to Miami on Wednesday, and by Monday you're already back? Either the timeline is off and this was planned awhile ago, or this is something unrelated to escorting that you decided to do. Or you're staying for a few days at a rate discounted to a degree to where it's attractive enough to do.

 

Now, as far as you name dropping and referring to people who do these things...Save it, you don't have to. I get sent out to meet people and have half my rate paid upfront all the time. But I don't have to ask people how did it go because I've either already met them or know the drill.

 

Now, you can tout how great and how nice he was (again, I don't believe it's something that actually took place but hey it's the internet)...but I've heard stories of guys getting fisted against their will, doped (like the one kid who traveled to West Hollywood and was killed on that overdose), put into odd situations or having most of their fee shorted. Some right here on the forum. Not saying it happens all the time or every time, but if you have to ask people how it went for them, clearly you had to have had some reservations of your own.

 

Sometimes guys like to go for the nieve, inexperienced types from far away. You probably fit the bill. How much did he pay you for those "few days?"

[+ oldNbusted]

Hi Mocha,

You didn't call me a "sell out" in this post and you were only slightly patronizing, you must be in a good mood this week.

In any event, I went and it was great. ......Mmmm I'm skeptical by nature but he ended up being the real deal which I knew when I got the ticket and he was a nice guy!!! Thanks for the concern but as I mentioned I have great instincts that always serve me well which is why I went and I'll go again if invited. To address your note, I don't know why guys hire companions from from clear across the country ...but if I had to make an educated guess I would say "it's because they can" or "because they want to" ...but I suppose you'd have to ask them for more details on that. This guy was the second person to contact me from out of state..but the other was in Arizona which is right next door to CA. I stayed with that guy for a few days and it was great and I knew it would be great because...instincts!! Florida was unique for me because it was literally across the country. Your comment makes it sound like it's unorthodox but a number of other companions here on this forum besides me have posted their similar experiences. @jawjatech mentioned on the thread that he as a client has flown guys in a number of times and all were great trips....Soooo it may not occur regularly but it's definitely not that unusual apparently. Evidence of that is that other companions have done this quite a bit and I've now done it twice and I've only been a companion for less than a year...and not even consistently because I do other things and have another job.

 

 

By the way, Didnt you make a really long announcement that u weren't participating on this forum anymore? I'm just curious, what pray tell happened to that?

 

 

I did make that announcement, but I didn't say when I would be doing it. And just because I'm not participating doesn't mean I won't pop up once in awhile and give my .02. See, it's all in the interpretation. Some things are allegories to a bigger picture.

 

As far as everything else, well personally I cant say I believe your story. You posted about someone asking to fly you to Miami on Wednesday, and by Monday you're already back? Either the timeline is off and this was planned awhile ago, or this is something unrelated to escorting that you decided to do. Or you're staying for a few days at a rate discounted to a degree to where it's attractive enough to do.

 

Now, as far as you name dropping and referring to people who do these things...Save it, you don't have to. I get sent out to meet people and have half my rate paid upfront all the time. But I don't have to ask people how did it go because I've either already met them or know the drill.

 

Now, you can tout how great and how nice he was (again, I don't believe it's something that actually took place but hey it's the internet)...but I've heard stories of guys getting fisted against their will, doped (like the one kid who traveled to West Hollywood and was killed on that overdose), put into odd situations or having most of their fee shorted. Some right here on the forum. Not saying it happens all the time or every time, but if you have to ask people how it went for them, clearly you had to have had some reservations of your own.

 

Sometimes guys like to go for the nieve, inexperienced types from far away. You probably fit the bill. How much did he pay you for those "few days?"

 

@oldNbusted clicks "Watch Thread"...

[Cannon]

I did make that announcement, but I didn't say when I would be doing it. And just because I'm not participating doesn't mean I won't pop up once in awhile and give my .02. See, it's all in the interpretation. Some things are allegories to a bigger picture.

 

As far as everything else, well personally I cant say I believe your story. You posted about someone asking to fly you to Miami on Wednesday, and by Monday you're already back? Either the timeline is off and this was planned awhile ago, or this is something unrelated to escorting that you decided to do. Or you're staying for a few days at a rate discounted to a degree to where it's attractive enough to do.

 

Now, as far as you name dropping and referring to people who do these things...Save it, you don't have to. I get sent out to meet people and have half my rate paid upfront all the time. But I don't have to ask people how did it go because I've either already met them or know the drill.

 

Now, you can tout how great and how nice he was (again, I don't believe it's something that actually took place but hey it's the internet)...but I've heard stories of guys getting fisted against their will, doped (like the one kid who traveled to West Hollywood and was killed on that overdose), put into odd situations or having most of their fee shorted. Some right here on the forum. Not saying it happens all the time or every time, but if you have to ask people how it went for them, clearly you had to have had some reservations of your own.

 

Sometimes guys like to go for the nieve, inexperienced types from far away. You probably fit the bill. How much did he pay you for those "few days?"

 

Mocha

As charming as I find your adorable attempts at putting articulate sentences together ...(and they are adorable) I had to stop reading your comment after the second paragraph. I'm not sure why you think it takes days to get to Miami ...it takes five hours...so...I'll stop there because ....suddenly I'm reminded of a George Carlin quote...he says "never argue with an idiot, they will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience".

That said, I sincerely hope u have a busy week so you can be happier. Happy Holidays from me...the "sell out" ;-) - Xo

Edited November 14, 2017 by Cannon

[+ José Soplanucas]

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[Mocha]

Mocha

As charming as I find your adorable attempts at putting articulate sentences together ...(and they are adorable) I had to stop reading your comment after the second paragraph. I'm not sure why you think it takes days to get to Miami ...it takes five hours...so...I'll stop there because ....suddenly I'm reminded of a George Carlin quote...he says "never argue with an idiot, they will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience".

That said, I sincerely hope u have a busy week so you can be happier. Happy Holidays from me...the "sell out" ;-) - Xo

 

You can't talk about someone's writing, when you can't even read enough to understand what I'm referring to. You posted something, asked for people's experience...and no other escort took the time to reply much, so you should be grateful I'm even giving you the time of day. But being you can't actually answer any of the concerns I addressed, it goes without saying. You've been on the defense this entire thread, even trying to "prove" you're not a dummy.

 

Even if you did plan this session weeks ahead, asking vaguely about flying someplace with someone you never met, reeks of insecurity.

 

Young blood, sit down. You don't want to go there with me. You don't even fit well in the suit you're wearing, so don't try to balls up against me.

Edited November 14, 2017 by Mocha

[+ oldNbusted]

I'll be honest, I'd rather see y'all rub sticks.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Mocha

As charming as I find your adorable attempts at putting articulate sentences together ...(and they are adorable) I had to stop reading your comment after the second paragraph. I'm not sure why you think it takes days to get to Miami ...it takes five hours...so...I'll stop there because ....suddenly I'm reminded of a George Carlin quote...he says "never argue with an idiot, they will only bring you down to their level and beat you with experience".

That said, I sincerely hope u have a busy week so you can be happier. Happy Holidays from me...the "sell out" ;-) - Xo

I can’t see Mocha’s comments because I am ignoring him, but just reading your side of the conversation, I am guessing you need to do just like like me and press the ignore button on his profile.

[Mocha]

I can’t see Mocha’s comments because I am ignoring him, but just reading your side of the conversation, I am guessing you need to do just like like me and press the ignore button on his profile.

 

I would have loved if he had did that before he came at me all wrong awhile back. I didn't even know who his scrony butt was at the time.

[+ nycman]

I can’t see Mocha’s comments because I am ignoring him, but just reading your side of the conversation, I am guessing you need to do just like like me and press the ignore button on his profile.

 

It’s fun watching people respond to Mocha’s “ignored” / hidden posts.

 

It used to tell me there was an ignored post and I could click it to reveal the post if I wanted.

That’s seems to have changed and now unless someone else references it....it’s like it never happened.

 

I prefer the newer way.

[Cannon]

I can’t see Mocha’s comments because I am ignoring him, but just reading your side of the conversation, I am guessing you need to do just like like me and press the ignore button on his profile.

 

Thank you for guiding me to the ignore button. I found it and have joined you guys in ignoring him

[BabyBoomer]

"I'm not going to be ignored"

 

Alex Forrest in Fatal Attraction.

 

~Boomer~

[+ José Soplanucas]

"I'm not going to be ignored"

 

Alex Forrest in Fatal Attraction.

 

~Boomer~

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[+ Funguy]

You can't talk about someone's writing, when you can't even read enough to understand what I'm referring to. You posted something, asked for people's experience...and no other escort took the time to reply much, so you should be grateful I'm even giving you the time of day. But being you can't actually answer any of the concerns I addressed, it goes without saying. You've been on the defense this entire thread, even trying to "prove" you're not a dummy.

 

Even if you did plan this session weeks ahead, asking vaguely about flying someplace with someone you never met, reeks of insecurity.

 

Young blood, sit down. You don't want to go there with me. You don't even fit well in the suit you're wearing, so don't try to balls up against me.

 

I think he looks spiffy in that suit!

Certainly good enough to eat.

[BriGuy]

Hoping someone can give me some advice. I'm interested in flying a guy out from LA to Denver for a weekend. Rate is 4k, and wants half down and hotel and flight booked which i understand. Little gunshy because previous encounter here went a little sideways but I'm really into him. Just want to be careful and am hesitant on sending him 2k on trust me. Doesn't really have any written reviews that I can find. Suggestions on how I can minimze my risk? Any feedback is appreciated.