Traveling Cross Country for 1st Timer

[Mocha]

*chuckle* I've noticed that you do like to deflect and attack people.

 

Here, you are equating "choosing not to hire you" with "withholding sex" from a relationship. But, not hiring is not the same as withholding. Withholding refers to something you were entitled, had a right, or some reasonable claim, to receive. As you weren't entitled to his "dick/ass/money" in the first place.

 

In analogy, by not hiring a barber, am I withholding my hair from every barber? No.

A businessman needs to entice the sale/customer. They aren't entitled to it.

 

If your real life persona is vastly different than this online persona, then you aren't doing yourself any favors in marketing to potential clients.

 

You are operating under the impression that everyone's reason here, is solely to market. Are you here to market yourself? Based on your anonymity, I doubt it. You're not here to market, so how can you question me? Same as with Biguy. Why are you here?

 

Can an escort not be here for the same reason that you're here? To discuss topics, give their 2 cents, and just have something to shoot the shit and kill time over? But...based on what you're saying, you're not here to just have conversation, or enlighten or uplift, you're only here to pick at and put down someone who has a lifestyle different from yours.

 

You are very clever. You twist the words I say, and use distort it against me. That's why its not efficient to argue with you and some of the others.

 

I'm not here to be hired by MikeBiGuy. His existence and choice to hire or not hire me is not what I wake up to live and breathe for. So, it's not a matter of being entitled. It's a matter of, I don't CARE if HE alone chooses not to hire me. That goes for you, him, anybody else. His voicing that, is being used BY HIM to gain leverage over me, and to ineffectively, get me to do what he wants to do. And I'm saying...if he feels that's the only way he can reason with me, then that's something he needs to work out in counseling because it's not healthy. If he wants to withhold something (sex with someone) from HIMSELF, then that's HIS issue. Not mine. I can get sex anytime, paid or free. So it doesn't mean anything to me. Even writing this thread, I barely had time to do it because I've got several clients I'm scheduling this week.

 

I don't know him, probably never met him unless he seen me at a forum function. And if he knows I was at a forum function and didn't address me personally in person, it proves he's a weak beta boy who is not worth me stressing over. Just like I told the OP, I'll listen to someone who addresses me politely (without the fake connotations).

[MikeBiDude]

You are operating under the impression that everyone's reason here, is solely to market. Are you here to market yourself? Based on your anonymity, I doubt it. You're not here to market, so how can you question me? Same as with Biguy. Why are you here?

 

Can an escort not be here for the same reason that you're here? To discuss topics, give their 2 cents, and just have something to shoot the shit and kill time over? But...based on what you're saying, you're not here to just have conversation, or enlighten or uplift, you're only here to pick at and put down someone who has a lifestyle different from yours.

 

You are very clever. You twist the words I say, and use distort it against me. That's why its not efficient to argue with you and some of the others.

 

I'm not here to be hired by MikeBiGuy. His existence and choice to hire or not hire me is not what I wake up to live and breathe for. So, it's not a matter of being entitled. It's a matter of, I don't CARE if HE alone chooses not to hire me. That goes for you, him, anybody else. His voicing that, is being used BY HIM to gain leverage over me, and to ineffectively, get me to do what he wants to do. And I'm saying...if he feels that's the only way he can reason with me, then that's something he needs to work out in counseling because it's not healthy. If he wants to withhold something (sex with someone) from HIMSELF, then that's HIS issue. Not mine. I can get sex anytime, paid or free. So it doesn't mean anything to me. Even writing this thread, I barely had time to do it because I've got several clients I'm scheduling this week.

 

I don't know him, probably never met him unless he seen me at a forum function. And if he knows I was at a forum function and didn't address me personally in person, it proves he's a weak beta boy who is not worth me stressing over. Just like I told the OP, I'll listen to someone who addresses me politely (without the fake connotations).

[KennF]

You are operating under the impression that everyone's reason here, is solely to market. Are you here to market yourself?

No, I am under the impression that good businessmen should always be aware of how they are being perceived, since clients/customers are potentially found anywhere.

 

Being nice here won't necessary get you a client, although some escorts make such a good image of themselves that posters are very willing to hire their services, if arrangements can be made, based solely on their online persona. But, being aggressive or combative here can lose you that opportunity. That's what I mean by.. you don't do yourself any favors.

 

Your business... your choice in how you manage it.

 

 

If he wants to withhold something (sex with someone) from HIMSELF, then that's HIS issue.

Interesting... It now sounds like you are equating "not hiring you" with "withholding sex from himself". If so, that suggests he only has two options in life: a) sex with you; b) no sex.

 

because I've got several clients I'm scheduling this week.

Glad to hear. I hope you do well by them and that they do well by you in return.