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Is Sex With A Straight Man A Big Turn On?

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Avalon Grand Master

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Alot of escorts regarding their sexual orientation say "Ask me". Do they do that because they think having sex with a straight man is a big turn on?

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Avalon Grand Master

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After posting I realized I am confused. @Avalon , you are asking two different questions, one in the thread title and a different one in your OP. Which one do you want to be the topic for this thread?

 

Sorry for the confusion. Do escorts who say "Ask me" think that it is a big turn on for a gays to have sex with straight men.

rvwnsd Grand Master

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I get turned on by men whom I find attractive and enjoy having sex with men, regardless of their stated orientation. In terms of why some escorts state "ask me," it could be a marketing ploy. At the same time, sexual orientation can be complicated. Are you gay if you only form romantic bonds with women but like to get your dicked sucked by men? Are you bisexual if you only form romantic bonds with men but occasionally have sex with women? The list goes on.

Nvr2Thick Grand Master

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Sex with a straight man can be fun. It's possible to have hours of discussion regarding the nuances, and regarding whether some of these guys are really straight.

 

We can speculate about the reasoning behind any escort's decision to specify "ask me" for his sexual preference. There are dozens of possibilities. To me regardless of his reasons, withholding critical information, be it dick size or dick/body pictures or position or preference, in an escort ad is a tactical error. An ad is supposed to grab my attention so that I'll contact the escort to learn more about his services. Some omissions just aren't worth pursuing.

Avalon Grand Master

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If a guy has sex with men-is he still considered straight?

 

Connor formerly of Corbin Fisher always said that he was straight although he has sex with other men. Would not even admit to bisexuality. He was completely versatile; sucked and fucked, kissed and rimmed. Even received a DP.

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I believe there's a difference between sexual orientation, and the willingness to do certain sex acts.

 

Men can have get an erection without being attracted to another person. Some like the attention, others will get hard and ready to go at the slightest touch, regardless of who they're with. Straight escorts and gay-for-pay actors use that fact to their advantage for business, but it doesn't mean they are attracted to anybody they meet. Plus, despite what society tries to dictate, anal sex is not reserved only for gay men. Straight men can enjoy it (it's about the nerve endings in that region), without having to be aroused by men.

 

So yes, I believe that a straight man can still enjoy sex with another man without even being bisexual.

 

As for the "Is sex with straight men a turn on?" No, not really. I prefer when the feeling of attraction is mutual, even if faked. Straight men rarely bother faking it.

sniper Grand Master

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I've been asked if I'm straight by people I hooked up with and they seemed to be looking for me to say yes. But it's the bi married guys who seem to be looking for that. I think it's less a turn-on issue than a perceived risk reduction issue for many of them.

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What guys perceive themselves to be and what they would like to market themselves as can be very different things. I think it is unimportant to get hung up on labels, as have had amazing sex with 'straight" guys and boring sex with 'gay' guys. Also labels are just another way for me of causing division-isn't it better to go with the flow and the chemistry and just enjoy the experience without the cookie cutter labels? Sometimes people don;t always have an entirely black and white definition of their sexuality, even if we think we have it for them.

Axiom2001 Grand Master

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Personally, I prefer to have sex with a man who is interactive: kisses, sucks, fucks, etc.; thus for me I would NOT personally like to be with a straight man who only wants to be sucked off or who prefers to fuck and do NOTHING else! Recently I've had two of three very hot sessions with a bi man who has allowed me to rim his super-gorgeous, very clean and tasty ass, put fingers up his tight chunnel. He kisses deeply and divinely. And can he fuck? ...an emphatic yes, yes, yes!

 

During our first time, which was satisfactory but not as hot, I even let him taste a very small remnant of his cum that I had on my finger. He commented that it was his first and stated that it was bitter, but in actuality it had a nice flavor. I smiled and assured him that it was sweet! He professes to be bi, but he's had me questioning if he's been testing his limits with me before allowing one to reach "that very special place."

 

But, in regard to the initial query, I think it depends on the two men who are involved. I do know that I can admire a "straight" man, but when it comes to having sex-- that part is out of the picture, for as mentioned in the aforementioned, I like interactivity.

 

[...have had lots of gorgeous, married Brasilians who kiss divinely and fuck one into oblivion but who do not suck or touch a cock or open that hole to be plundered!]

Rudynate Grand Master

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It's only a theory. I don't have any proof for this. We all know men who identify as gay, who were once married and have children. So it is obviously possible for a gay man to adopt a mindset that allows him to have sex with women. Why, then, it is so difficult to imagine that a sufficiently motivated straight guy can adopt a mindset that allows him to perform sexually with another man?

 

I have never, to my knowledge, had sex with a straight guy. I used to enjoy cruising bars in nice hotels to pick up traveling businessmen who were either closeted or bi. I thought it was very exciting. I really enjoyed bringing them back to my place and finding out what there lives were like. It is on my list of things to do to have sex with a guy who is at least nominally straight. I did meet an escort once who told me that he was a "heterocentric bisexual," meaning that he had sex with either men or women, but his emotional attachments were to women.

gallahadesquire Grand Master

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Connor formerly of Corbin Fisher always said that he was straight although he has sex with other men. Would not even admit to bisexuality. He was completely versatile; sucked and fucked, kissed and rimmed. Even received a DP.

 

Formerly?!??! I have the vapours!

gallahadesquire Grand Master

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I remember meeting a very well known escort on this site. My first talking to him was as though I were talking to a straight guy … who I very quickly learned isn't even bi, I don't think.

 

"Warner, what kind of shoes are these?"

"uh … Black?"

"See? Straight guys don't know their shoes!"

MikeBiDude Grand Master

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Personally, I prefer to have sex with a man who is interactive: kisses, sucks, fucks, etc.; thus for me I would NOT personally like to be with a straight man who only wants to be sucked off or who prefers to fuck and do NOTHING else!

I’ve had all of the above with guys who identify “straight” and have relationships with women. I don’t think applying labels like “bi” or even “gay” automatically means more/less enjoyment.

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