Do You Remember Everyone You've Had Sex With?

[+ Avalon]

In the recent episode of "How To Get Away With Murder" it centers on a rape trial. A woman is accusing a city councilman of rape. It happened 10 years ago when she was a teen. She said that she had been raped by her father (who is now in prison) and dozens of other men. She recently remembered the councilman when she saw him in the media.

 

The defense in questioning her asked how can she remember him specifically when she had been raped by so many.

 

I remember now retired escort Aaron Lawrence at one time saying that he had 1,000 clients but could not remember them all.

 

I remember another porn model - I think Kristian Brooks - in an interview saying that he had sex with over a 1,000 partners. He was in his early / mid 20s. In Atkol I asked how that was possible at such a young age. He was in a movie with Aaron Lawrence. He said that after a day's taping he would go to the baths and have sex with 10 men. Aaron responded asking which number he was. ;-)))

[MikeyGMin]

I remember everyone I've had feelings for, but I sure as hell don't remember everyone I've hooked up with. I can only estimate the number with a very low degree of accuracy. Definitely more than a couple hundred and definitely less than 1000, but I have no idea where it falls between.

[+ Robster]

Yeah, what Mikey said. ^ Ten years ago, I could count my sexual partners on one hand. The number has gone up considerably since then.

 

Rob

[Kevin Slater]

Ten years ago, I could count my sexual partners on one hand.

 

Ten years ago my sexual partner was my one hand.

 

Kevin Slater

[liubit]

I definitely cannot remember everyone I have had sex with, @Avalon, no way

[+ José Soplanucas]

Naw, I can't remember everyone.

http://24.media.tumblr.com/a8afde296a4bd3e7741bcfd7186c75b6/tumblr_mlthiolQAu1rj2acpo1_250.gif

[+ Avalon]

Ten years ago my sexual partner was my one hand.

 

Kevin Slater

 

;-))))

[jjkrkwood]

Of course NOT, but there are certain Sizable men that STAND OUT in my mind ...

 

and as I have mentioned before, my partner was a pumper, and quite big, so that was hard to compete with....

[+ Tarte Gogo]

No, but pretty close to all of them.

 

I keep a file with a list. It is at least 95 % complete. Probably more like 98 %.

Many of them have no name, just “hook up in gym X“ or “hired in London - his place on Carnaby st” or something similar.

 

I am no where near 1000 though!

[bigvalboy]

Yeah...I remember both of them.

[rvwnsd]

Yeah...I remember both of them.

http://memecrunch.com/meme/2EVXW/mmmmmmm-hmmmmm/image.png

[TruHart1]

Since I began to hire escorts nearly 6 years ago, I have faithfully kept an Excel spreadsheet with all the information regarding each and every experience with any escort I have hired: date, location, length of session, fee/tip paid, summary of acts/conversations, etc. As for hook-ups before my time as a client, my memory of the guys I met for hook-ups is very spotty. Of course I recall my very first "losing my virginity" experience decades ago but, unless the man was memorable in bed or became a regular "f*ck buddy" I have forgotten most of the specifics. I've even forgotten the names of some of my more regular and memorable f*ck buds!

 

My most active period sexually, before I began hiring escorts, was meating closeted married guys through local AOL chat rooms back in the 1990's. I did develop a number of ongoing sexual relationships but only a few stand out because we hooked up so many times. Two of these stand out because with one regular married buddy, we were making out naked and hard in his living room when he heard his wife pull into the driveway! I quickly gathered my shoes and clothes and he hid me in his garage! I dressed quietly out there and was ready to run out into his back yard if his wife decided to go into the garage for any reason. Thank goodness she did not, so as soon as she left once again, we finished our session with each other. I believe I saw him once more after that but I became somewhat paranoid about being afraid his wife might actually walk in and catch us en flagrante, so I decided not to see him again.

 

I thought hooking up with married men must be the least binding of all hook-ups since most of these men always told me they loved their wives and could never leave their families. There was one guy, however, with whom I hooked up a few times, realized he was just a little too emotional in our love-making, and decided to stop seeing. After a while, when I ignored his emails and attempts to chat on AOL, he came by my house (when I was not home) and left a long (6 page) hand-written letter in my mailbox. In the letter he poured out his feelings, stating he had fallen in love with me and he really wanted our relationship to move to the next level, hoping my feelings were the same for him. So much for happy-go-lucky no strings attached sex with married men!

 

That letter, where he openly and honestly poured out the deep feelings he had in his heart for me, scared me to death! Having none of these same feelings for him, I quickly and cowardly emailed him a lie about having met a man with whom I had decided to settle down with in a long term relationship, so I couldn't see him again, ever. I soon began to meet up with these closeted married guys less and less. I think I felt lucky to have not gotten caught by a wife and had not ended up ruining any marriage, so could no longer lie to myself about being a possible "home-wrecker!" Thank goodness I decided to hire the amazing @AresEscortNYC a bit over ten years later, after resigning myself into believing that I would only be having sex with my right hand for the rest of my life!

 

TruHart1

[GLEE]

Since I began to hire escorts nearly 6 years ago, I have faithfully kept an Excel spreadsheet with all the information regarding each and every experience with any escort I have hired: date, location, length of session, fee/tip paid, summary of acts/conversations, etc. As for hook-ups before my time as a client, my memory of the guys I met for hook-ups is very spotty. Of course I recall my very first "losing my virginity" experience decades ago but, unless the man was memorable in bed or became a regular "f*ck buddy" I have forgotten most of the specifics. I've even forgotten the names of some of my more regular and memorable f*ck buds!

 

My most active period sexually, before I began hiring escorts, was meating closeted married guys through local AOL chat rooms back in the 1990's. I did develop a number of ongoing sexual relationships but only a few stand out because we hooked up so many times. Two of these stand out because with one regular married buddy, we were making out naked and hard in his living room when he heard his wife pull into the driveway! I quickly gathered my shoes and clothes and he hid me in his garage! I dressed quietly out there and was ready to run out into his back yard if his wife decided to go into the garage for any reason. Thank goodness she did not, so as soon as she left once again, we finished our session with each other. I believe I saw him once more after that but I became somewhat paranoid about being afraid his wife might actually walk in and catch us en flagrante, so I decided not to see him again.

 

I thought hooking up with married men must be the least binding of all hook-ups since most of these men always told me they loved their wives and could never leave their families. There was one guy, however, with whom I hooked up a few times, realized he was just a little too emotional in our love-making, and decided to stop seeing. After a while, when I ignored his emails and attempts to chat on AOL, he came by my house (when I was not home) and left a long (6 page) hand-written letter in my mailbox. In the letter he poured out his feelings, stating he had fallen in love with me and he really wanted our relationship to move to the next level, hoping my feelings were the same for him. So much for happy-go-lucky no strings attached sex with married men!

 

That letter, where he openly and honestly poured out the deep feelings he had in his heart for me, scared me to death! Having none of these same feelings for him, I quickly and cowardly emailed him a lie about having met a man with whom I had decided to settle down with in a long term relationship, so I couldn't see him again, ever. I soon began to meet up with these closeted married guys less and less. I think I felt lucky to have not gotten caught by a wife and had not ended up ruining any marriage, so could no longer lie to myself about being a possible "home-wrecker!" Thank goodness I decided to hire the amazing @AresEscortNYC a bit over ten years later, after resigning myself into believing that I would only be having sex with my right hand for the rest of my life!

 

TruHart1

 

I remember chatting with a guy online last year. He's in California and married. He hit up with me first, saying I look cute. Then as we talked more and started flirting with each other, he finally revealed he's actually married. I was shocked to the core. Even though we continued with our conversations, I've definitely started to "friend-zone" him but he's been telling me more and more regarding how unhappy he is in his marriage and he's really attracted to me. He also hopes I can "save him from his misfortune as soon as possible." I've got no choice but blocked him in the end.

 

There was another guy whom I met on Grindr, after we hooked up and chatted for like months finally told me he was married with a man who recently found out he was cheating. It didn't take too long for me to cut the ties as I'm not interested in dealing with such a complicated situation....

 

Back to the original question, there were just some experiences I'd love to forget, those which made me feel painful, not enjoyable and somehow even felt like rape. I selectively treasure those sweet and loving memories

[MikeBiDude]

No

[TruthBTold]

No (but definitely all the ones I want to remember).

[LookingAround]

Wouldn’t have any idea. Way too many to remember.

[+ Gar1eth]

Of course NOT, but there are certain Sizable men that STAND OUT in my mind ...

 

and as I have mentioned before, my partner was a pumper, and quite big, so that was hard to compete with....

 

I’m sorry for your loss, @jjkrkwood . Do you mean a vacuum pump for his tallywacker?

 

I hired for about 14 years starting in 2002. In my first five years or so of hiring-and even after, I would from time to time try to list out all the “tour guides” I had hired whom I had had sex with. That would have been all the guys I had sex with as I don’t think I ever had non-tour guide sex until about my 10th year of hiring. Now while I haven’t hired for several years, I’ve probably still had more tour guide than non-tour guide sex in my life. But I can’t remember either all my tour guides or all my non-tour guides.

 

Gman

[jjkrkwood]

I’m sorry for your loss, @jjkrkwood . Do you mean a vacuum pump for his tallywacker?

 

Gman

 

YUP....

[+ Avalon]

I’m sorry for your loss, @jjkrkwood . Do you mean a vacuum pump for his tallywacker?

 

I hired for about 14 years starting in 2002. In my first five years or so of hiring-and even after, I would from time to time try to list out all the “tour guides” I had hired whom I had had sex with. That would have been all the guys I had sex with as I don’t think I ever had non-tour guide sex until about my 10th year of hiring. Now while I haven’t hired for several years, I’ve probably still had more tour guide than non-tour guide sex in my life. But I can’t remember either all my tour guides or all my non-tour guides.

 

Gman

 

 

What's the difference between a "tour guide" and a "non tour guide"?

[+ Gar1eth]

 

I hired for about 14 years starting in 2002. In my first five years or so of hiring-and even after, I would from time to time try to list out all the “tour guides” I had hired whom I had had sex with. That would have been all the guys I had sex with as I don’t think I ever had non-tour guide sex until about my 10th year of hiring. Now while I haven’t hired for several years, I’ve probably still had more tour guide than non-tour guide sex in my life. But I can’t remember either all my tour guides or all my non-tour guides.

 

Gman

 

What's the difference between a "tour guide" and a "non tour guide"?

 

Tour guides were people I hired to show me around and then after the ‘touring’ was completed, they decided they liked me so much that we had sex. I never hired the non-tour guides at all.

 

Gman

[+ Avalon]

Tour guides were people I hired to show me around and then after the ‘touring’ was completed, they decided they liked me so much that we had sex. I never hired the non-tour guides at all.

 

Gman

 

Thank-you!

[+ purplekow]

I can't even remember the last guy with whom I had sex. It seems to me he had the same name as the POTUS at the time, Abraham.

[Epigonos]

Prior to hiring my first escort: 1.) my two or three sexual encounter with another person were highly unsatisfactory experiences with women and 2.) my most successful sexual encounters were with my right hand.

In the fall of 2002 I hired my first escort (Steven Kesslar) for what turned out to be an incredibly successful sexual awakening. Since that momentous occasion I have long since lost count of all of my additional sexual encounters with escorts. Fortunately I have NEVER had a really bad experience with an escort and only a very few mediocre ones. A few, and I mean a very few, of the names of some of the guys I have hired stick in my mind. The guys who I specifically remember were and are incredible human beings several of whom continue to enrich my life.

Edited October 29, 2017 by Epigonos

[+ WmClarke]

Yeah, what Mikey said. ^ Ten years ago, I could count my sexual partners on one hand. The number has gone up considerably since then.

 

Rob

Ditto. (But 4 Years for me.) I remember most—but I am starting to forget some of them.

[+ Avalon]

Prior to hiring my first escort: 1.) my two or three sexual encounter with another person were highly unsatisfactory experiences with women and 2.) my most successful sexual encounters were with my right hand.

In the fall of 2002 I hired my first escort (Steven Kesslar) for what turned out to be an incredibly successful sexual awakening. Since that momentous occasion I have long since lost count of all of my additional sexual encounters with escorts. Fortunately I have NEVER had a really bad experience with an escort and only a very few have mediocre ones. A few, and I mean a very few, of the names of some of the guys I have hired stick in my mind. The guys who I specifically remember were and are incredible human beings several of whom continue enriched my life.

 

 

http://www.daddysreviews.com/review/steven_kesslar_sf