Would you hire an escort that bareback ?

[+ freecahill1965]

Wrong century. Kinglons are now allies of the Federation of Planets.

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[+ José Soplanucas]

You are talking about a prequel. My Gosh, so unattached to reality!

 

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[Arbimuscle]

I guess to each his own, and yes, I am a snob! The guy does nothing for me, let alone the fact, that if he is barebacking. Turns me off.

[TruthBTold]

I don't see anything on his profile that states which "Safe/BB" category he falls in.

[+ kov78]

In the title of his ad I'm assuming was the big "tip-off". Get it ?

[MassageDrew]

Only after he shows me his results and I'm the first one he's seeing after his last negative exam.

[+ José Soplanucas]

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SAFE SEX

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[Guest]

I had an interesting and illuminating conversation with an escort once:

 

Me: Do you play safe?

Escort: Yes. Only safe.

Me: But why does your profile say ask me then?

Escort: Because I've found that I get fewer hits that way. I take PrEP as a precaution anyway though.

Me: But aren't you lying? What if a client wants to BB?

Escort: I tell him no.

Me: But you're kind of lying.

Escort: What's the difference between me lying as an escort and someone on Grindr telling you what you want to hear? That they play safe or that they're on PreP.

Me: Aside from the money, you have more exposure to potentially contracting disease.

Escort: What? And you think those hoes on Grindr don't get around more than I do?

Me: haha. OK. That's pretty true.

 

I don't BB with people I hire, even if they're on PrEP. Good for them and for taking extra measures to protect themselves, but I'm gonna go ahead and take the extra measures to protect myself too and wear a rubber for anal. If you feel uncertain about it, don't do it. HIV is a very manageable condition these days, but no ass is worth the risk if you're not willing to deal with the potential consequences.

[ncc1701d]

Agree with DTCG! With the advent of PreP, more and more escorts I meet are now on it (if not all) and they are all comfortable with BB with clients, including me. It's up to me to decide which path I go, and I've always chosen the condom path. Just had this discussion the other night when after a while the escort complained that the condom was irritating him and if we are to keep going he's hoping we can go BB. As tempting as it was to me as up until that moment I was REALLY enjoying myself I stopped (reluctantly)! So yes, assume they BB or are (+) and determine level of risk you are willing to accept.

[Rudynate]

I had an interesting and illuminating conversation with an escort once:

 

Me: Do you play safe?

Escort: Yes. Only safe.

Me: But why does your profile say ask me then?

Escort: Because I've found that I get fewer hits that way. I take PrEP as a precaution anyway though.

Me: But aren't you lying? What if a client wants to BB?

Escort: I tell him no.

Me: But you're kind of lying.

Escort: What's the difference between me lying as an escort and someone on Grindr telling you what you want to hear? That they play safe or that they're on PreP.

Me: Aside from the money, you have more exposure to potentially contracting disease.

Escort: What? And you think those hoes on Grindr don't get around more than I do?

Me: haha. OK. That's pretty true.

 

I don't BB with people I hire, even if they're on PrEP. Good for them and for taking extra measures to protect themselves, but I'm gonna go ahead and take the extra measures to protect myself too and wear a rubber for anal. If you feel uncertain about it, don't do it. HIV is a very manageable condition these days, but no ass is worth the risk if you're not willing to deal with the potential consequences.

 

I don't agree that he's being dishonest in saying "ask me." He's simply withholding that particular bit of information until you contact him.

[Guest]

I don't agree that he's being dishonest in saying "ask me." He's simply withholding that particular bit of information until you contact him.

And that's fair. And I don't find it that dishonest anymore either after he provided that very concrete rationale.

[hornytwells]

Shouldn't the real question be: do you believe everything you're told?

[Populist Fury]

Wait, some of y'all got offended by the word slut??????? Maybe it's an age thing, but I personally use it all the time in life and no one ever gets offended by it because they know I don't mean harm. My friends & I have been greeting each other like "hey, bitch!" "hey, ho!" "hey slut, wanna go out for drinks tonight?" forever since back in school, and it's all in good fun. <3

 

So, lighten up a bit. Don't expect people to start censoring themselves, and especially don't expect everyone to be ok with guys that openly brag about taking raw cock during sex.

[rvwnsd]

I had an interesting and illuminating conversation with an escort once:

 

Me: Do you play safe?

Escort: Yes. Only safe.

Me: But why does your profile say ask me then?

Escort: Because I've found that I get fewer hits that way. I take PrEP as a precaution anyway though.

Me: But aren't you lying? What if a client wants to BB?

Escort: I tell him no.

Me: But you're kind of lying....

 

How is he lying when he says "ask me?" The prospective client asks and he tells them he does not bareback. To some, oral sex without a condom is unsafe while to others it is considered perfectly safe.

[+ azdr0710]

like the periodic threads regarding whether we've ever met unknowingly with a felon or a criminal who spent time in prison, this subject reminds me that many, many, many of us may not want to know the answer

[allyouknow]

Wow judge much corporate shill? We don't know you in this public forum, so act accordingly, and don't give that high and mighty " well it's ok in my world" answer either, the sun doesn't just shine on one person. People who have virus exposure are not clean or dirty, they are human, ( check out those warts on your hand, we all get a virus every year ( coronavirus ).

[jjkrkwood]

It really depends on YOUR comfort level. If he's SAFE with you, it shouldnt matter, but as others have said, if you will be preoccupied with worry, than it probably is not a wise decision, as you will not be able to enjoy your experience & Expenditure to its fullest. Keep in mind guys that escort are exposed to much more than the average civilian male might be. So its prudent to be cautious with whomever you hire, regardless of how he lists his practices.

[Nvr2Thick]

Hi his hot hot hot but advertise as RAW and bareback, what's the risk to hire him for a protected session ?

 

The risk is the same as for an escort who advertises as "Safe Only" since you have no idea if that one tag on his ad actually reflects his practices, status, or sexual history.

 

Which carries less risk, having safe sex with man who says he doesn't always have safe sex, having sex with a man who says he does have safe sex?

 

If a man says he's on PrEP is that man safer than one who says he's not? If a man says his HIV status is positive-undetectable is your risk of HIV greater with him than with a man who says he's negative, or with a man who has not stated his status?

[+ nycman]

The truth is if you've had sex with more than 5 or 6 men....and god knows I hope you have....

then you've had sex with someone who at some point in their life has had unprotected sex.

 

In fact, you've more than likely had sex with someone who is HIV+.

 

It's just a fact. Yes, there are strategies for reducing your risk. But at the end of the day

you, and you alone, are responsible for your own health and the risks you are willing to

take.

 

Welcome to adulthood....proceed carefully.....but have fun!

[Rudynate]

Wait, some of y'all got offended by the word slut??????? Maybe it's an age thing, but I personally use it all the time in life and no one ever gets offended by it because they know I don't mean harm. My friends & I have been greeting each other like "hey, bitch!" "hey, ho!" "hey slut, wanna go out for drinks tonight?" forever since back in school, and it's all in good fun. <3

 

So, lighten up a bit. Don't expect people to start censoring themselves, and especially don't expect everyone to be ok with guys that openly brag about taking raw cock during sex.

 

 

Your experience on this forum might be more congenial if you take time to get the lay of the land.

[+ Billsboy4]

Nvr2Thick makes a good point.