3some , should I ?

[barrybt]

Hi, one is the escorts offer me a session with his partner, a well hung muscular guy.

 

I'm so nervous as o never had a 3some before, are they can to be in to me, or busy with themselves ? Any thoughts ?

[Guest]

If you're genuinely interested, I say give it a shot. But maybe offer to have a drink with them first so you can meet the other guy, see if there's chemistry.

 

Also, be upfront about your expectations, your reservations, etc. That's important in any situation where you hire, or even just hook up!

 

If you do that, there's a good chance that you'll have an awesome time.

[+ José Soplanucas]

100% agree with @DTCG82 . Just to make it more explicit to you, @barrybt : 1. do not hire someone you have not met before and made sure the chemistry is good 2. In prep communications, explicitly share your fear of being left out, and 3. also during the prepping, if there is anything you would like to happen during the meeting, ask for it

[KennF]

Just go over with him what you are looking for... For Example: "The idea sounds appealing as long as you're both into me. I wasn't looking for a voyeur show and like to participate and even be the meat in a sandwich. And definitely into 3way kissing. How does that sound?"

[+ Keith30309]

What these guys said!

 

But, in my opinion, we regret the things we do not do more than those we do

(except for that unfortunate misunderstanding at the goat petting zoo.)

[KennF]

(except for that unfortunate misunderstanding at the goat petting zoo.)

LOL

 

Do you regret that it was a misunderstanding or that it was unfortunate?

[countryboyitalia]

I had my first 3some in March and it was better than I expected. I was so nervous about what to expect, but I let my wants be known and had a blast. Let them know what you are looking for during your time and relax and enjoy.

[MikeyGMin]

In my personal life (non escort related) I have had many threesomes turn awkward and end up being unsatisfying. In fact, more bad than good. I have only hired one duo and it was a very good time. They knew just exactly how to work together. I think your odds of success are better with an experienced duo rather than arranging a threesome with two escorts who don't normally work together.

[MartyB]

My prime escort sprung a 3 some on my as a surprise gift. I posted on this already and it was sensational. It can be an amazing experience as I had or I can see where it doesn't work well. For starters I would think u would need to be versatile and open to your own preferences as well as tbeirs. I like spontaneity and with a 3 some that's what makes it special. Go for it if u trust your escort and a partner he chooses.

[+ Keith30309]

Do you regret that it was a misunderstanding or that it was unfortunate?

I regret that PETA takes restraining orders so seriously.

[KennF]

I regret that PETA takes restraining orders so seriously.

 

Have you considered bypassing the restraining order and switching to sheep or horse, instead? Maybe even a threesome with both?

[+ Keith30309]

Have you considered bypassing the restraining order and switching to sheep or horse, instead? Maybe even a threesome with both?

That would be creepy! Do I look like some kind of weirdo !

 

http://www.snopes.com/movies/graphics/banjoboy.gif

[KennF]

That would be creepy! Do I look like some kind of weirdo !

 

http://www.snopes.com/movies/graphics/banjoboy.gif

 

ROFLMAO!

 

No, of course not, but would did the goat think?

[+ azdr0710]

Hi, one is the escorts offer me a session with his partner

 

do you already know the first escort and have an established, friendly way of communicating?....if so, just tell him your concerns and hopes for the meeting and see if he thinks it'll work

[tenderloin]

Best thing is to be EXPLICIT re your expectations -- think about yourself like a porno director: "I want to top him while you suck his nuts...I want lots of sloppy wet three-way kissing...I just want to watch...etc." As long as both guys are specifically comfortable with your vision, you should be in good shape.

[nynakedtop]

i am a huge fan of 3somes and more-somes (sorry if that is too much information, guys) - but have almost exclusively done them in "non-commercial" social situations

 

having said that, one of my regulars is, like I, am top... we "recruit" a third and have a great time - so i would predict that more success can occur when either the stakes are low, or when a relationship is already in place.

 

but having said all that.... i would absolutely 100% go with it (and hope that you will report back!)

[Guest]

I'm a top and just recruit vers or bottom guys

 

There was a Colombian couple who used to come up from Florida and work DC and they were absolutely the best threesomes I've ever had. I communicated clearly, as I mentioned above, but there was great chemistry also.

 

And if it seems like they won't be able to do the things you're explicitly asking for, I'd save your money and wait for a better fit.

[barrybt]

They are partners in life, very masculine, hung and big, I'm a small white chubby guy, 7 leagues below them, I can manage with one but a bit afraid to play with 2, not to mention the price double.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

A couple of years ago, I thought it would be fun to try a threesome. While I enjoyed myself with each escort individually, when the three of us were together, I completely got lost in too many choices - what should I do with whom, who's next, etc? I discussed this with Escort A and he suggested I was overthinking it. A year later I tried it again. The experience was better, but still not up to my expectations. I am so glad I tried it, and in all likelihood will try it again at some point.

 

The one thing I have learned when it comes to this hobby, I will try anything once (well, not quite anything as scat is more than I can accept) to see if I like it with mixed results. Take watersports, I thought I would not ever do that. But once I did, although it does nothing for me, I realized that if was absolutely something that my partner must do, I could do it. On the other hand, I thought I would never get in a sling, but once I did....

[barrybt]

A couple of years ago, I thought it would be fun to try a threesome. While I enjoyed myself with each escort individually, when the three of us were together, I completely got lost in too many choices - what should I do with whom, who's next, etc? I discussed this with Escort A and he suggested I was overthinking it. A year later I tried it again. The experience was better, but still not up to my expectations. I am so glad I tried it, and in all likelihood will try it again at some point.

 

The one thing I have learned when it comes to this hobby, I will try anything once (well, not quite anything as scat is more than I can accept) to see if I like it with mixed results. Take watersports, I thought I would not ever do that. But once I did, although it does nothing for me, I realized that if was absolutely something that my partner must do, I could do it. On the other hand, I thought I would never get in a sling, but once I did....

So you vote against, well not against but that as I thought, it's complicated.

[DMICS]

i am a huge fan of 3somes and more-somes

 

Same. If I could, I'd have a 3-4 some once a week.

 

To the original poster, I'd say go for it. Like others have said, when it comes to threesomes it would be best if one of the guys is someone you've been with regularly and are comfortable with (at least in my short experience).

 

I'm a sub oral guy, I love to service guys orally, thats my thing. Just this year alone I've had a handful of 3-somes (me servicing both guys at the same time). Sadly, most of those encounters were terrible for various reasons. From the handful of 3-somes I've had this year only 2 were actually fun and successful (success meaning both guys got off), and thats because in both meetups I had the same regular buddy participate. He loved the idea of getting off with another guy on me.

 

Just two days ago on Monday afternoon I had one with a married regular and this younger guy. In the middle of the session the younger guy pulled up his pants and left. When I messaged him later on asking what happened, he said the married guy didn't seem into him so he got spooked out and left. I specifically told him before the encounter that the married guy enjoys being serviced and watching me service. He's not looking to play with other guys when its group action....he clearly didn't listen.

 

I want to try having one with two guaranteed hung escorts. Just still trying to figure out with who, and a plan of attack when the moment comes (no pun).

 

It's always a headache to "organize" and put together, but when done right....HEAVEN.

[Muscle Lover 2]

If after following all this advice go for it! I've done them non-hire and hire and never regretted it. The 3+ scenario provides perks that a regular meet up cannot.

[FootWhisperer]

Go for it! And consider all the advice thus far. The first time is always going to be preceded by anxiety. But, will be rewarding if done right. You do want to be very clear with your expectations. But, don't let them become show stoppers. Doesn't matter how many are involved, how YOU experience it might depend on how you react to it. That put's you in control. And if you want them to control you, then be clear about that too. But, I would avoid being overly prescriptive or over prescribed . Just enjoy the new experience.

[vabballfan]

I agree with everyone that says "go for it". I would say that I would prefer a 3 way or group over a one on one in general. Of course it depends on the escorts involved but for the most part escorts will say they prefer to see clients one-on-one if they don't do well in 3 ways. As a matter of fact, a couple of the 3 ways I have done were with 2 escorts that I had seen separately before.

 

In one particular instance one of the escorts was a very hot guy with a football player build (not an ounce of fat on him) with a nice 7 inch thick cock. I had seen him twice and he was most comfortable being a submissive bottom. The other escort was totally versatile and had a true 9 x 7 inch cock that was rock hard from the get go every time I saw him. I had seen him before in a 3 way where I topped both escorts, they both topped me and they also flipped while I watched them pound the hell out of one another.

 

We started off the three way with the beefy guy bottoming for both us, first me then the escort with the 9 inches. I whispered into 9-incher's ear that I wanted to be in the middle. At that point I was so turned on that when he slipped that 9 inches into me there was no resistance at all - he went in with a single stroke, hit my prostate and we were off to the races - me pounding the beefy guy while I was getting battered with that 9 inch steel rod. Then 9-incher whispered in my ear "switch". I didn't realize that he had already lubed his ass up and after he went into the beefy guy I slid right into him with no resistance as well. Next thing I knew he was telling me to fuck as hard and has deep and as fast as I could. After about 10 minutes of that I needed a break.

 

I noticed the beefy bottom boy had a raging hard-on, was stroking himself to stay rock hard and then asked if he could top one of us. Since he had never topped in the other times I had seen him I told him that he got to choose who he wanted to top and the other person would top him - he'd be in the middle. I told the beefy guy that 9 incher was very talented when he bottomed (amazing muscle control) and then 9 incher told the beefy one that I was an excellent bottom as well and that he couldn't go wrong either way. He was having trouble deciding and I finally told him I knew he wanted to top 9 incher and to go for it. He got into 9 incher's ass and then I slid into beefy guy's ass and started railing him. The next thing out of 9 incher's mouth was "holy fuck - your cock is as hard as a steel pole". Then beefy guy moaned and said "I had no idea this would feel this amazing" - and he came while he was in the middle. Then he encouraged me to fuck the cum out of 9 incher which I gladly did - and we came at the same time (of course completely safe - this happened about 15 years ago). That was one of the best three ways ever because the other escort and I got a 99% bottom so turned on he wanted to be an aggressive top (and was) and because I knew that 9 incher was particularly adept at 3-ways.

 

About an hour after both of them left the phone rang and it was 9 incher asking if I had plans for the next day. I told him I hadn't setup any appointments with any other escorts yet and he told me he wanted to spend some one-on-one time with me the next evening and no money would be involved that it would be a "fuck buddy" evening rather than an escort/client session. I immediately agreed, he showed up at my hotel at about 8 pm the next evening and we went at one another for about 5 hours. We went through at least a dozen condoms and then I was awakened the next morning by a 9 inch "invader" and a very aggressive morning flip fuck. We went to breakfast, came back to my hotel room and fucked again. I had to rush to get the train back home from New York after then second fuck of the morning.

 

Next time in New York he actually arranged two other escorts he had worked with for a 4 way with me and him - and got them to lower their rate so it was the same cost to me as two escorts instead of three. The other two escorts were stunningly handsome as well (they evidently were a couple), both of them were totally versatile, one with 9 1/2 inches, the other with 10 inches. Everyone topped everyone and I ended up sore that evening - in part due to how aggressive the couple were - the evening ended up with me getting tag teamed by all three until I came - and I came buckets for the third time that evening.

 

When a 3 way is right it's fucking awesome so if this escort brought up a 3 way to you I would say to definitely go for it. My 4 way was incredible - and initiated and put together by an escort I had seen several times before.

Edited July 23, 2017 by vabballfan

[jawjateck]

vabballfan......that's some scorching hot action there. Thanks for the blow by blow......or....ummm......inch by inch report.

 

Good to see you chiming in again!