Liking them young, ageist?

[mike carey]

I'm curious how you would behave and what you would choose if you didn't know a persons age.

I think that is the nub of the issue. If you have a checklist and refuse to consider anyone once they turn 30, that is what can be seen as ageist. If you have a view of who you like to hire or meet that includes the characteristics that you associate with a certain age group, of appearance and level of maturity for example, then I would say that is not.

[Rockey]

I'm curious how you would behave and what you would choose if you didn't know a persons age.

 

I see where you're coming from. I didn't know the age of the guy until after having sex. I asked him his age when I saw him on the way out. I like the way the skin fits on the younger ones. Also, the way they feel inside. But, I really don't think I'm ageist. I schtupp all kinds of men, but if there's a choice to be made, I'll pick the young one.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

It's too hard to change their diapers

I'm very curious to understand what they make you do, that would be like "changing their diapers".

Is this reply about escorting or about a long term relationship, guy?

 

I 'm asking because, whenever I get a young escort, we meet, we have sex, I pay them, tip them, and then I free them to go live their life without me. None of them ever tried to tell me about their 20 yo man problems or anything like that.

It isn't any harder than hiring an older one.

 

So I'd love to figure what it is you feel you have to teach them about...

[MartyB]

I'm curious how you would behave and what you would choose if you didn't know a persons age.

In general when choosing an escort i prefer to be with " a man" not a boy. That's not say I haven't hired a guy in their 20's. I feel more connected aroused and stimulated with a man who I can relate to and has a better understanding of what makes me tick. There are guys in their 20's who have that quality I just found some are mostly make the session about them..

[+ José Soplanucas]

[DR FREUD]

I think there is a difference between preference and prejudice. If you prefer a certain age, size, build, race or hair color, you're not harming those who don't fit your ideal. If you let any of those factors affect hiring, housing, education, or civil rights, you are. Not the same thing.

Finally someone says it politically correct, sexual preference is NOT discrimination, just what turns us on.

[+ quoththeraven]

Finally someone says it politically correct, sexual preference is NOT discrimination, just what turns us on.

If it's formed based on stereotyped assumptions and societal norms that are racist, what do you call that?

 

As for age, it's just a number. Men of all different ages are capable of being fulfilling lovers. A ripped body and model handsome looks have never been the most important consideration for me, and I think I've only benefited from it.

 

Then again, my criteria for escorts is not significantly different from my criteria IRL.

[Rudynate]

I always hire late 30s to late 40s. And I've always told myself that im not interested in younger men. But then, Ive noticed, I love talking to young men, and I had the thought, "How do I know I'm not into them, without trying it." A few weeks ago, a 26 yo approached me online and said he was available for hire.

 

I booked an appointment with him and was very excited about it. Sadly, it fell through. I'm going to keep trying with him, and I've been looking at other possibilities. I've been looking at mid-20s, 25-26 or so, but I might even go down to 22-23 or so.

 

I know a crowd of junior-college age guys who all think I'm a badass because I have muscles at my age and because I drive a beat up truck with a manual transmission. They're all really cute. I would fuck any one of them.

[+ othermanc]

I have hired good escorts across the age spectrum and have enjoyed all ! As for my preference, I'm finding I really am a Twink lover. That puts my age range preference from legal age to early 30's . For me, is more about the physical attraction first, then, upon getting to know how the escort responds to me as an older client, I either might hire again, or not. I've been lucky enough to find most young twinks I encounter seem to kind of "respect" me and are polite, and as we get more " involved" begin to act like there' s no age difference! I treat escorts like lovers, and not like " hey, I hired you now make me happy..." MY mutual satisfaction desire seems to work well and we both have a great time

( either that's what's happening or I have found the world's best actors! Either way it works for me).

[MassageDrew]

If I have a choice between a sex partner >30 or <30, I choose <30. Physically, they're hotter to me. Am I being ageist? I've been told that's being ageist, but I disagree. If anyone else has an opinion, I'd like to hear it.

 

I don't think so. It's just your preference. Though are you at all attracted to anyone 30 and over? Do you feel intimidated by someone who knows what he wants? From my own experience most under 30 just enjoy pure sex while those older prefer to have some sort of chemistry involved. I can understand that. I genuinely prefer those above 30 but I do offer internships once in a while

[+ GregM]

You my friend are finally starting to understand what being an escort is all about.

 

I prefer not to date teens or 20-somethings; It's too hard to change their diapers and I'm too old to want to teach them how to do it. Hurry up and turn 30, you'll be surprised at how your audience will appreciate it.

 

 

TRUTH! But if you still have youthful looks in your 30s and older it makes it that much better.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ GregM]

If I have a choice between a sex partner >30 or <30, I choose <30. Physically, they're hotter to me. Am I being ageist? I've been told that's being ageist, but I disagree. If anyone else has an opinion, I'd like to hear it.

 

Yes! Just like if one doesn't find one of an ethnic background sexy and want to fuck them a racist. Or if one doesn't wish to have sexy time with a tranny would be transphobic.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[LADoug1]

I just came back from seeing one of my regulars whos 3 times my age he's truly a wonderful person that I have grown to care about. I really love listening to his stories and the era he grew up because it was so different living then and now especially being gay. He said something that touched my heart tonight, he said he would still see me and pay me even if we don't have sex. He just loves to talk, kiss, cuddle and to make sure I'm doing ok.

 

I know a lot of people hire me because Im young, they like to be that nurturing older figure in my life

I always wanted to ask them will they still hire me when I'm in my 30's lol, or will they find someone younger to take my place once I've matured

 

Glad you appreciate his stories. You're a gem!

[Rudynate]

I think if one feels guilty about one's choices in sexual partners, it's a good thing to look at. Examining it may reveal that the guilt is unwarranted and can be discarded. It could also reveal that one may not be honoring his/her own values, which is a more serious issue.

[+ HornyRetiree]

I'm curious how you would behave and what you would choose if you didn't know a persons age.

 

I have always gone for slender men!

 

Hairy:) or not:) as long as it is natural - I do not like shaved body hair!

 

I prefer average penises -- defined as 5-7" and average thickness (no soda cans!)

 

Most important of all! smiles,, eyes and sincere, caring personality.

 

While I tend towards 20s & early 30s when looking for a professional, I know several here in 40s and pushing 50 that I would be delighted to experience!!!

[+ José Soplanucas]

I think if one feels guilty about one's choices in sexual partners, it's a good thing to look at. Examining it may reveal that the guilt is unwarranted and can be discarded. It could also reveal that one may not be honoring his/her own values, which is a more serious issue.

 

Agree. Interestingly, the same could be applied to those who jump to judge others' choices in sexual partners. Isn't the Universe harmonically designed?

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[P Gren]

I think if one feels guilty about one's choices in sexual partners, it's a good thing to look at. Examining it may reveal that the guilt is unwarranted and can be discarded. It could also reveal that one may not be honoring his/her own values, which is a more serious issue.

And if you don't feel guilty ... probably good to look at that even more.

[Rudynate]

And if you don't feel guilty ... probably good to look at that even more.

 

 

Agree with qualifications. If you haven't done anything to feel guilty about, why would you? OTOH, most would feel at least a twinge of guilt if they tried to be even a fraction as evil as Jeffrey Daumer or Ted Bundy.