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I've recently discovered a new (to me) escort in my area from time to time. He lists himself as a bottom.

I'm certainly not an inserter, although I'm tempted with this lad.

 

My question: Should I get some viagra / cialis? (can't take levitra, althought it worked great. Drug interaction).

What ever do two bottoms do together?>

 

Socially, I once met a man whose sole source of stimulation was his anus. His dick did nothing for him at all.

I have no idea if this guy new acquaintance is like that.

 

I know: Ask. I'm just curious how many bottoms respond to penile stimulation TOO. Is it preferable? TO be avoided?

 

On other fronts, he does it for me in every way imaginable. 48 years of fantasy rolled into one dude. Intense.

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Roll around together. Make out madly. Passionate frottage front-to-front. Stick your fingers up each others' butt. Suck each other off. Mutual mast. Etc.!

 

Free your mind...!

 

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The best suggestion I've seen so far is the double dildo, but much less expensive is rimming. I'm curious as to the percentage of guys who hire who refuse to toss salad, but I myself have rarely hired without licking the backside.

... and percentage of escorts who likewise refuse to reciprocate.

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I get that there's all sorts of micro-beasties roaming around down there but, as with all other intimate practices, everybody has to choose their battles. I think I'm just too hesitant (i.e., shy) to have that conversation before meeting someone.

As the bewildered recipient of a latex glove covered massage & HE I've found my boundaries on both ends of the spectrum and know where my happy middle ground is. I'm generally comfortable diving into the deep end after a thorough shower, preferably one in which I've participated.

 

(Bonus question: how many escorts won't kiss after being rimmed.)

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Luckily for me I love to rim a guy long, hard, and for a long time. I find that most guys want to fuck after a long rimming session. I guess they know that I would like to open them up to other things but really for me I do not have to fuck. As suggested above, fingering is great and combine that with a nice, long BJ. Things seem to get accomplished. You know I have always assumed that gentlemen will come clean and luckily I have not been disappointed. HOWEVER, as some noted above that may be because I let him know that a rimming by me is going to be a must. I think you will have a great time without insertion.

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Luckily for me I love to rim a guy long, hard, and for a long time. I find that most guys want to fuck after a long rimming session. I guess they know that I would like to open them up to other things but really for me I do not have to fuck. As suggested above, fingering is great and combine that with a nice, long BJ. Things seem to get accomplished. You know I have always assumed that gentlemen will come clean and luckily I have not been disappointed. HOWEVER, as some noted above that may be because I let him know that a rimming by me is going to be a must. I think you will have a great time without insertion.

I agree: fucking is absolutely NOT necessary for me. Rimming is.

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I've recently discovered a new (to me) escort in my area from time to time. He lists himself as a bottom.

I'm certainly not an inserter, although I'm tempted with this lad.

 

My question: Should I get some viagra / cialis? (can't take levitra, althought it worked great. Drug interaction).

What ever do two bottoms do together?>

 

Socially, I once met a man whose sole source of stimulation was his anus. His dick did nothing for him at all.

I have no idea if this guy new acquaintance is like that.

 

I know: Ask. I'm just curious how many bottoms respond to penile stimulation TOO. Is it preferable? TO be avoided?

 

On other fronts, he does it for me in every way imaginable. 48 years of fantasy rolled into one dude. Intense.

Well I'd certainly be flattered if you're referring to me in your post ;)

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I've recently discovered a new (to me) escort in my area from time to time. He lists himself as a bottom.

I'm certainly not an inserter, although I'm tempted with this lad.

 

My question: Should I get some viagra / cialis? (can't take levitra, althought it worked great. Drug interaction).

What ever do two bottoms do together?>

 

Socially, I once met a man whose sole source of stimulation was his anus. His dick did nothing for him at all.

I have no idea if this guy new acquaintance is like that.

 

I know: Ask. I'm just curious how many bottoms respond to penile stimulation TOO. Is it preferable? TO be avoided?

 

On other fronts, he does it for me in every way imaginable. 48 years of fantasy rolled into one dude. Intense.

I wear a jockstrap and rarely masturbate during sex. I dont like my dick to be touched when I am getting fucked. I would not hire a bottom escort. I prefer strict tops.

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As a strict top, I'm inclined to agree with others....try (lots of ) other things. If you were inclined to top.....you'd be topping :rolleyes:

You could have a lot of fun with toys

You could also hire him + a top for a 3-way....better yet ask him if he know a top he has worked/likes to work with; of course that means sharing him

 

@phraughy LMK if you ever come to Boston LOL :cool:

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As a strict top, I'm inclined to agree with others....try (lots of ) other things. If you were inclined to top.....you'd be topping :rolleyes:

You could have a lot of fun with toys

You could also hire him + a top for a 3-way....better yet ask him if he know a top he has worked/likes to work with; of course that means sharing him

 

@phraughy LMK if you ever come to Boston LOL :cool:

I am a selfish bottom. I don't like to share my tops. LOL And when I have played with other bottoms, they turned into tops. Toys are ok but I really prefer the real thing.

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I've recently discovered a new (to me) escort in my area from time to time. He lists himself as a bottom.

I'm certainly not an inserter, although I'm tempted with this lad.

 

My question: Should I get some viagra / cialis? (can't take levitra, althought it worked great. Drug interaction).

What ever do two bottoms do together?>

 

Socially, I once met a man whose sole source of stimulation was his anus. His dick did nothing for him at all.

I have no idea if this guy new acquaintance is like that.

 

I know: Ask. I'm just curious how many bottoms respond to penile stimulation TOO. Is it preferable? TO be avoided?

 

On other fronts, he does it for me in every way imaginable. 48 years of fantasy rolled into one dude. Intense.

 

Then buy a couple of 2 Ended Dildos and go for it with your fantasy man

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This "label" thing is becoming tiresome. Why does a person have to be either a TOP or a Bottom ? I dont fuck ...PERIOD... I dont give and I dont receive. So what does that make ME ?

 

Yet, I have a VERY satisfactory sex life, and there are always lots of stuff a partner and myself find we can do that doesnt involve anal penetration (with cock) ..... Not sure why Gay men feel they have to FUCK to be

sexually fulfilled ?

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This "label" thing is becoming tiresome. Why does a person have to be either a TOP or a Bottom ? I dont fuck ...PERIOD... I dont give and I dont receive. So what does that make ME ?

 

Yet, I have a VERY satisfactory sex life, and there are always lots of stuff a partner and myself find we can do that doesnt involve anal penetration (with cock) ..... Not sure why Gay men feel they have to FUCK to be

sexually fulfilled ?

 

There are those who consider the way a person takes charge sexually makes him a top or bottom. I’m simply referring to dominance or submission. I’m an anal bottom but an oral top. I agree though that the concept of the terms top and bottom is a big bore.

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There are those who consider the way a person takes charge sexually makes him a top or bottom. I’m simply referring to dominance or submission. I’m an anal bottom but an oral top. I agree though that the concept of the terms top and bottom is a big bore.

 

I just call myself a "cocksucker"....It's so much more Civil...

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My question what kind of bottom are you? Do you not like to fuck with anything, or are you just not confident at getting an erection? Because as someone without a (conventional) dick - I've topped the hell out of more people than most. I just let my fingers do the walking...

 

But in reality, I do think if you think you will have amazing chemistry with someone - wouldn't it be worth seeing what the two of you can do together and letting go of strict identity categories? Or maybe thats just me ;)

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