flipping out over a simple ?

[Smurof]

I recently had an escort become extremely angry when I asked during initial communication if they were cut or uncut. Since they were Puerto Rican, I kind of had a logical guess, but since it upset them so much, I didn't book. Is this ? too personal or is it within reason to have the advance info?

[+ poolboy48220]

I think if you've been discussing things to the point where it's clear their penis will be part of the action :-), it's not out of line. It wouldn't be the first question I asked.

[+ glutes]

If he gets upset about you asking about his penis, imagine what would happen when you touch it.

[AdamSmith]

[rvwnsd]

I don't think this question was out of line at all. My guess is you were not booking a Bible study session or a crocheting lesson, so cut/uncut would appear to be a relevant question.

 

You were wise not to book.

[Tonyko]

You prolly hit a sore spot (no pun intended ) since the clients who pref or are specifically into uncut scorts are far fewer in number and I've spoken to scorts who've said being uncut has sometimes been a drawback. And here in NYC it does tend to be more common among certain ethnicities so there is also what can be seen as a non-PC assumption thang when that question is asked.

[+ azdr0710]

though most of us know all the medical/moralistic/religious background behind the circumcision dilemma, here's a quick read on it:

 

http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/12/foreskin-keep-or-cut/383362/

[kewtex]

...(ince the clients who pref or are specifically into uncut scorts are far fewer in number…

 

I knew I was a limited edition.

 

Is this ? too personal or is it within reason to have the advance info?

 

All things being equal between two candidates, I would choose an uncircumcised man over a circumcised man. When I don't know if a potential escort has been clipped, I ask, or I say that I like uncut men, opening the door for him to reveal whether or not he was left in his natural state.

[TruthBTold]

I think it was totally reasonable to ask what his penis looked like. What an escort LOOKS like is for most clients on the bottom level for hiring. So he definitely needs to ask himself a few questions before he goes any further.

[Meo]

He could have simply disclosed this in a more thorough ad or, if he really wanted to play coy, post a nice thin speedo or jock pic that answered the question photographically!

[+ nycman]

He's selling sex......questions about his cock are not out of bounds.

 

It would be like Ralph Lauren trying to sell clothes....without letting you see them first....ridiculous!

 

For the record, I could care less if you're cut or uncut....some days I prefer one...the next day the other....life's funny like that.