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It's what first got me into wrestling when I was full of hormones in the 1980s and guys were wearing pantyhose-thin spandex in public like it was nothing! MatMan was the brand, they made thin black squarecuts with different colors of stripes on the hip, and the option of cycling pads sewn in if you were biking and not wrestling.

I don't know if this counts as a subset, but I definitely have a BOOT fetish!

I am trying to get through the first episode, not loving so far but not giving up yet.

I would think there's a chance it could go rancid, but I am tempted to start doing this too. I cook just often enough never to remember to soften the butter!

Have never met him myself, but he has been around for years and his reviews were typically raves.

Thanks for continuing to share--we really are pulling for you. Did you do any "marriage prep" prior to your formal ceremony? Just asking because if I am following the dates, you married a year into no sex, and I am wondering if there was any discussion about that and what your husband may have thought/assumed getting married then.

Most wrestlers are familiar with this site and the format, just ask them and see their reactions. NK is rougher stuff than most other gay wrestling feds so for some guys it is BDSM territory and you just want to see what their limitations are.

Excellent, excellent, mind-reading post! Gets right at the heart of the "just ask, more communication is always good" argument, because when the communication is intentionally ambiguous, it really doesn't often help to add more.

Interesting that he is using the same pic too. My understanding of the new cuddle encounters is that they are very strict and also the workers do not always do same-sex cuddles. It really is a different world from the other sites

My thoughts exactly!

For a lot of wrestlers there is a pretty wide range from body worship to body worship in wrestling gear to gear play (light, sensual, slow-motion wrestling) to actual wrestling holds and moves to a whole match to a whole match with extensive additional props and role play. Worship is the gateway drug very often lol!

I think this is true for a fair number of wrestlers, where they can self-stimulate as needed and don't particularly want intercourse or many other forms of explicitly sexual contact. But I mention it because even in the absence of "full" sex, one partner withholding contact and connection is a big deal for a relationship, because at the end of the day it's about connection however you achieve it.

In the wrestling community it is not uncommon to see relationships that lack intercourse or even much sex aside from side-by-side self-masturbation, but the wrestling itself provides a big sexual element and release that significantly satisfies both partners. I was not long ago in the odd position of being told by my (wrestling and more) partner that we would no longer have any physical contact whatsoever and that he would seek physical contact elsewhere (side-by-side self-masturbation, no more). He otherwise expected to keep all the romantic elements of our relationship intact (i.e., me taking him out a lot!). I ended it without hesitation, and he is currently trying to "get me back" and offering me anything I want while I now date a man literally half his age and a hundred times his libido. Sexless "relationships" often mean withholding and excluding relationships, and the unlikeliest person can be a hypocrite and seek sexual stimulation elsewhere even while claiming he doesn't want it at all. I would be really careful with any arrangement premised on being "sexless," because sexless often means "withholding sex for an undisclosed reason." Just my two cents, but glad you saw a counselor and hope you return for more sessions, it will take more than one!

I'm very pro-counseling, but between the unilateral sexual shutdown and the "get out and leave your dogs" approach, you are having a "Scrooge"-type glimpse of what your future relationship could look like. Counseling would be a great avenue to discuss what "go find someone to play with" really meant and what your ground rules should be going forward. However, a law office is the only place to discuss being kicked out and having your dogs stolen. I have two friends who were middle class professionals (earning $50-$60K per annum) partnered for about 10 years to upper class professionals earning about three times as much. My friends' investment in legal counsel in far less acrimonious situations really saved them financially and psychologically. You are starting off in an acrimonious situation and you should consult counsel ASAP, for your own mental health as well as your financial health.

A variation of this is when they only bottom for multi-hour appointments, but I always found this to be welcome, useful info and was never annoyed by it.

It's usually known as mutual massage or reverse massage, and it's very often premised as learning-by-doing. Guys used to advertise it more it seems to me, but I bet quite a few guys will do it. Expect to pay your usual rate unless he offers otherwise and be clear on boundaries/what will happen, then you should have a good time.

Totally agree, I have had this experience meeting very famous wrestlers who were astonished that I actually wanted to wrestle. Although there are great, great guys as listed, the wrestling world sadly also contains a number of flakes and scammers in addition to guys worried about injury. If you are really into wrestling you have to keep your wits about you and not be distracted by the prospects of a hot match until you are confident in your opponent too!

I think a lot depends on how you met the worker. It might be easier to scale down to massage than to scale up to more.

Good to know about you though! Very sexy when a guy says this!

That middle picture of the green semi-sheer leggings are a big hit on the wrestling scene. Good eye sir!

I absolutely love the interviews and when guys give creative and thorough answers to the questions. It reminds me of magazine interviews with celebrities and it is always fun to read.

Never had the good fortune to meet him but he's one of my favorite posters on here

He is a superstar, super famous and deserving of all praise. For other guys I think it ranges from playful informal requests to, "please put on hundreds of dollars worth of pro wrestling gear and then we'll..." The problem is that non-superstars don't know what they don't know, so I always feel like it's unfair to demand technical wrestling knowledge from a guy who may not have even watched much TV wrestling. I suspect the true experts get asked often by the true fans, and other guys get occasionally asked to do sexy play wrestling in gear where they don't actually need to know much about wrestling proper. BOTH are very hot if you ask me!

I have a milder version of this lol and love to dress up my sexual partners! There is something so sexy about watching a hot guy try out different briefs. For myself my go-to is Tommy Hilfiger boxer briefs. They have the quality the cheaper brands used to have, without the thickness that makes things hot and sweaty down there. I also just got a bunch of Head boxerbriefs. They are thinner and tighter than expected, but and amazing, enhancing pouch, and the marketing advantage of having the word "HEAD" spelled out just above my bulge is irresistible! I don't like commando myself, I'm hairy and active and would wear out my trousers way too fast without some kind of underwear. Commando is hot to discover in another, when my hands get to roaming and I make the happy discovery that the cotton spandex fence I was expecting is not there! Overall I think of underwear as pretty disposable--I don't expect it to last long and I love to give it away to a hot guy who will model it for me!

Often yes! NK is the most explicit wrestling site to come around in ages. It is rougher and more submission style, and the victor gets sucked and fucks the loser. They do a nice interview segment at the end to show that all were willing and had fun. They get an amazing array of diverse guys too.