Adding time to an appointment

[+ glennnn]

Is it okay to ask for a time extension in the middle of a session, say changing from the original one hour scheduled to two hours? Of course, I'd be prepared to take no for an answer, but sometimes it is so good, you just want to extend it.

[Kevin Slater]

Is it okay to ask for a time extension in the middle of a session, say changing from the original one hour scheduled to two hours? Of course, I'd be prepared to take no for an answer, but sometimes it is so good, you just want to extend it.

 

Why wouldn't it be ok to ask?

 

Now, just to put him at ease (so that he doesn't have to rub the mercantile in your face and possibly alter the mood), maybe proactively clarify something like "I happen to have an extra hour's worth of cash on me if you'd like to keep going."

 

Kevin Slater

[MiamiLooker]

Is it okay to ask for a time extension in the middle of a session, say changing from the original one hour scheduled to two hours? Of course, I'd be prepared to take no for an answer, but sometimes it is so good, you just want to extend it.

Why wouldn't it be ok to ask?

[jawjateck]

Go for it. Just don't be so caught up in the moment that you forget whether you have enough cash on hand to complete the deed.

[liubit]

I am with everyone here on this one. Just ask. The worst that can happen is to get no for an answer.

[+ WhamIAm]

Agreed. I've asked a couple of times, most guys stayed, one told me nicely he had a party to go to so he couldn't. A "listen, I'm having a great time, so I'd be happy to extend for another hour if you've got no other plans" usually works.

 

I used to occasionally say during the set up "Let's plan on an hour and, if we're having fun and don't have anything else going on, see what happens from there." Worked fine, and I settled up appropriately at the end of the session. Then, one guy pulled out mid-stroke at exactly the top of the hour and said "It's 10pm. It will cost you another hour if you want me to finish."

 

I said no.

[+ glennnn]

Why wouldn't it be ok to ask?

 

Don't know! It seemed to me it would be fine, unless it would appear I was indicating he had nothing else to do but to please me. I've been wrong about the etiquette of our hobby and unintentionally disrespecting escorts before. How do escorts feel about 90 minute sessions? This all has to do with hiring as often as possible while trying to control the expense.

[+ nycman]

I used to offer to extend frequently.

 

In the heat of the moment, I must have done it poorly because it was always awkward

and the offer was never accepted.

 

I've changed my tactic. Now if I'm having a really fun time with a guy, I finish up and then

I mention that I'm headed to dinner. I offer to have him join me with me covering the expense

of dinner but with him "off the clock" otherwise.. If he accepts...and the chemistry

is still strong after dinner, then I offer to go back to my hotel and go back "on the clock".

Sometimes I offer an additional hour. Sometimes an overnight. Depends on the guy.

 

I've had much better luck with this approach. Somehow it's just not as weird. It also gives

my little head a chance to calm down and let my big head make some decisions for him.

 

One thing I do make clear is it's "no blood, no foul" if he declines the dinner. And I mean it.

[ncc1701d]

[quote=" Then, one guy pulled out mid-stroke at exactly the top of the hour and said "It's 10pm. It will cost you another hour if you want me to finish."

 

I said no.

 

OMG!!! I don't think I could have been as polite as you were ;-)

[+ not2rowdy]

...How do escorts feel about 90 minute sessions? This all has to do with hiring as often as possible while trying to control the expense.

 

Client here.

 

I typically only respond to ads that list a rate. Listed rates seldom indicate a 90 minute session. I see that as an opportunity without the conversation having negative overtones.

 

I’m probably an outlier IRT to my hiring preferences since mutual massage is high on my interest list. One hour just isn’t enough. 90 minutes works well. So when I make initial contact I state my desire for more of a very vanilla BF experience with mutual massage, indicate I have little interest in penetrative anal and ask for a 90 minute rate. I’ve had some pleasant respon$e$.

[seaboy4hire]

I used to offer to extend frequently.

 

In the heat of the moment, I must have done it poorly because it was always awkward

and the offer was never accepted.

 

I've changed my tactic. Now if I'm having a really fun time with a guy, I finish up and then

I mention that I'm headed to dinner. I offer to have him join me with me covering the expense

of dinner but with him "off the clock" otherwise.. If he accepts...and the chemistry

is still strong after dinner, then I offer to go back to my hotel and go back "on the clock".

Sometimes I offer an additional hour. Sometimes an overnight. Depends on the guy.

 

I've had much better luck with this approach. Somehow it's just not as weird. It also gives

my little head a chance to calm down and let my big head make some decisions for him.

 

One thing I do make clear is it's "no blood, no foul" if he declines the dinner. And I mean it.

 

You had me at dinner.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[TopTierTop]

Don't know! It seemed to me it would be fine, unless it would appear I was indicating he had nothing else to do but to please me. I've been wrong about the etiquette of our hobby and unintentionally disrespecting escorts before. How do escorts feel about 90 minute sessions? This all has to do with hiring as often as possible while trying to control the expense.

I encourage 90 minute sessions, and more often than not the client likes the idea. I think in most cases it is better than one hour or two hours.

[TopTierTop]

Agreed. I've asked a couple of times, most guys stayed, one told me nicely he had a party to go to so he couldn't. A "listen, I'm having a great time, so I'd be happy to extend for another hour if you've got no other plans" usually works.

 

I used to occasionally say during the set up "Let's plan on an hour and, if we're having fun and don't have anything else going on, see what happens from there." Worked fine, and I settled up appropriately at the end of the session. Then, one guy pulled out mid-stroke at exactly the top of the hour and said "It's 10pm. It will cost you another hour if you want me to finish."

 

I said no.

Wow! That guy needs to find another line of work. Perhaps used car salesman.

[TopTierTop]

Client here.

 

I typically only respond to ads that list a rate. Listed rates seldom indicate a 90 minute session. I see that as an opportunity without the conversation having negative overtones.

 

I’m probably an outlier IRT to my hiring preferences since mutual massage is high on my interest list. One hour just isn’t enough. 90 minutes works well. So when I make initial contact I state my desire for more of a very vanilla BF experience with mutual massage, indicate I have little interest in penetrative anal and ask for a 90 minute rate. I’ve had some pleasant respon$e$.

My ad does offer a 90 minute option. For those who can afford it, I think it is the sweet spot. One hour can seem rushed with all the things they want to do with me. Almost every time someone takes me up on the suggestion of 90 minutes I get a "thank you for the suggestion" message afterward.

[+ glennnn]

Thank you all! The 90 minute option seems like a good bet to trim my budget a little without trimming my satisfaction and avoids stopping in the middle of play to negotiate more time. I'm going to try it.

[+ PapaTony]

My second time with a particular escort was a great deal of fun. We were having such a great time we ran well past an hour; probably close to 100 minutes.

He never said boo and left my place with a kiss and thank you.

Later as I was tidying up and my senses returned, realizing the time gap, I texted him to apologize and that I felt I owed him...he said, "don't worry about it, I had fun, consider it a gift"

 

Well....smart boy because I booked him again the following week for 2 hours AND I'm doing an overnight with him next week

 

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[seaboy4hire]

My second time with a particular escort was a great deal of fun. We were having such a great time we ran well past an hour; probably close to 100 minutes.

He never said boo and left my place with a kiss and thank you.

Later as I was tidying up and my senses returned, realizing the time gap, I texted him to apologize and that I felt I owed him...he said, "don't worry about it, I had fun, consider it a gift"

 

Well....smart boy because I booked him again the following week for 2 hours AND I'm doing an overnight with him next week

 

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Glad you had a good experience. I feel that the way he handled it was the proper way. Have a good time on your overnight and dont forget to drink plenty of fluids

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Rudynate]

My life is pretty highly scheduled. Even though I might like to extend, I probably wouldn't.

[rvwnsd]

Agreed. I've asked a couple of times, most guys stayed, one told me nicely he had a party to go to so he couldn't. A "listen, I'm having a great time, so I'd be happy to extend for another hour if you've got no other plans" usually works...

 

I've done the same and it usually works out just fine. One guy wasn't able to extend due to a prior commitment, but he offered to come back the next day at a reduced rate. We had a LOT of fun that next day.

 

...I used to occasionally say during the set up "Let's plan on an hour and, if we're having fun and don't have anything else going on, see what happens from there." Worked fine, and I settled up appropriately at the end of the session. ...

 

Same here!

 

...Then, one guy pulled out mid-stroke at exactly the top of the hour and said "It's 10pm. It will cost you another hour if you want me to finish."

 

I said no.

 

Wow. My guess is you never called him again.

[+ Tygerscent]

Is it okay to ask for a time extension in the middle of a session, say changing from the original one hour scheduled to two hours? Of course, I'd be prepared to take no for an answer, but sometimes it is so good, you just want to extend it.

Sure... Why not~? They can always decline~

I do not take on more than one Client per day so that I am fully charged and attentive to my Clients and can extend seasons as requested~ I have a two hour season as my base session because I hate the idea of my Clients being distracted by the time~

...and since I don't do multiple Clients per day, it's no big deal if we run over a bit~

If I was a Client I would be completely offended if we were all involved and playing but, suddenly had to stop because our time was up~

I wound expect the Escort to gage the intensity so that it doesn't run over and make sure it doesn't feel rushed~

To me the experience together is more important~ Who gives a crap if you run fifteen minutes or half hour over~ Whatever~ The experience counts more in my book~

However, I know sometimes guys will have multiple appointments back to back and are not able to extend the scheduled time~ ...maybe they have another job or some other domestic responsibility... Okay, no worries~ They will let you know what is possible~

If staying on longer doesn't work out at that moment, you can always pre-book for another, longer time in the future if they decline and are unavailable to extend the original session~

Even if they are touring Escorts, you can prescheduling in advance for their return trip in the future~

Tyger

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