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big-n-tall Grand Master

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Have tried to use the sms and email to contact the escort, but he never response. What does it mean?

 

He has quite good reputations in daddysreview, rentmen and here. Do not want to mention the escort's name:(

 

Have you tried contacting him through the forum? Some guys are super busy and take some time to sort through messages. If you emailed him through rentmen some people seem to have problems with the system. Also how did the escort ask to be contacted in the ad. Did he ask a specific way? Have you tried calling instead?

 

I can't say why you can't get through. If you've exhausted all avenues and still can't get through... maybe that's a higher power somewhere telling you move on to the next guy. The escorting pool is indeed huge. Good luck.

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tennisjock Grand Master

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There could be innumerable reasons why he didn't respond. He could have ur phone blocked so he is not receiving yr calls/texts, he could be on a vaca and not available, he could have a std or situation where he isn't seeing anyone right now. I would read their ad and contact them in the manner they request.. Rm, men4rentnow , back page etc emails are notorious for not going thru. If you have tried a few times in the format they requested then write it up, put them on a wish list, and move on

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rvwnsd Grand Master

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Not having read the SMS (I'm assuming text messages?) and emails, it is hard to tell why the escort might not have responded. As others have pointed out, he might be on an extended trip with a client, on vacation, not have received the messages, or a whole host of other reasons.

 

One of the things I've learned is to stop making contact when a guy does not reply to two messages sent via the same medium. The reason is simple - I don't want to make a pain in the ass of myself and turn the guy off on taking me as a client.

 

At this point you should put him on your "wish list" and start looking for other escorts. If he returns your messages and you two seem like a match then schedule a playdate. If he does not respond, then you might have another guy or two with whom you can play. Regardless, stop contacting him. If you keep contacting him you will appear to be "that guy."

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I agree -- for me, twice is the limit, at least 24 hours apart. If no response, move on. Maybe it was something like he was busy, out of country, etc. If he's a good businessman, he'll respond and say so when catching up on his messages.

 

Had one experience where I never heard back after two emails. Never thought about it again until about two weeks later, when he sent me an email apologizing and telling me he'd been ill and off the grid. Wound up seeing him, and he turned out to become my go-to guy in the city where he lives. He's traveled overseas with me and, I think I can say, became a friend.

 

Maybe you wrote something that turned him off/got him worried/makes him think you are not compatible.

 

Escorts -- if that's the case (unless the guy really creeps you out somehow) do you/why not respond with something benign? Seems to me that's good business, prevents a bad rep as a flake (at least on these boards) and, if nothing else, is polite in acknowledging the fact that another human being has spent some time actually showing some interest in you.

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This issue comes up periodically. I can only think of two good reasons for an escort not to answer a potential client's e-mails or texts in a fairly prompt manner (probably within about 5 waking hours for text, 24 hours for e-mail). One is being in a location without access to technology (i.e. camping in the wilderness for a long camping trip), and the other is being hospitalized. Just "being on vacation" or "being with a client" are not valid reasons. It takes less than a minute to respond. Responding to messages is part of the escort's job, and not doing so shows a lack of professionalism. If an escort will be unavailable, a simple one-sentence response of "I'm sorry, but I won't be available until the 20th" will suffice. Just blowing off the potential client's request is, quite frankly, rude as well as bad business. If the escort has a reason to feel he would be incompatible, a similar one-sentence response is all that would be needed. If an escort doesn't respond within a reasonable time frame, I would move on. It's curious that the OP mentioned that the escort is well-reviewed, which is surprising to me. Were a majority of these good reviews written by 1st or 2nd time reviewers? Of course, every reviewer has a beginning, but it's unlikely that someone would start out with his first review on an escort who's already had lots of similar reviews. If the escort has lots of 1st/2nd time reviews, I generally will assume those are fakes, and look for more established reviews. Most 1st time reviews in general are probably fake, and I look on those as mere advertising.

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Have tried to use the sms and email to contact the escort, but he never response. What does it mean?

 

He has quite good reputations in daddysreview, rentmen and here. Do not want to mention the escort's name:(

Maybe he thinks you're a stalker or you just sound unhinged. If he doesn't respond to you why don't you just move on like most of us would?

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rvwnsd Grand Master

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I would consider this to be a valid reason. I don't think any of my clients would appreciate it if I took an hour or two out of every day from their session to answer other potential clients, especially if it was a weekend or longer session. ...

You are spot-on, @Kurtis Wolfe . I've lost count of the number of threads and reviews in which an escort texting or checking email is met with disdain.

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I like how Kurtis mentioned on his message etc that he was unavailable with limited access to respond etc..and we clients still called , emailed etc. I love it when a escort does this so then I just mark on my calendar when they are scheduled to be back and contact him then.

Seems like a great time to mention the "Unavailable" thread.

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While I was out on my camping trip for a week I ended up with about 100+ messages everyday while I was gone in my backlog. I still have about 580 emails to run through, about 310 text messages and another 30 voicemails to answer as well. A lot are repeat messages ( I even had in my ad that I wasn't available to respond to messages while I was away! )

 

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Jesus S Christ. I'm lucky if I get that in a year. Lol

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I would consider this to be a valid reason. I don't think any of my clients would appreciate it if I took an hour or two out of every day from their session to answer other potential clients, especially if it was a weekend or longer session. Auto-Responders definitely would come in handy though.

 

While I was out on my camping trip for a week I ended up with about 100+ messages everyday while I was gone in my backlog.

 

Yes, the camping trip is a valid excuse. And yes, and auto-response would be a good idea for that. No, being with a client for an extended period is not a valid excuse. You may be getting 100+ messages a day, but you are not getting that many serious client inquiries. If you are, you are the most popular escort on the planet and should charge $500/hour. I have hired escorts for longer periods, and no client should have a problem with an escort answering some messages, as long as it doesn't interrupt a meal or intimate activity. The response doesn't need to be immediate, but over 5 hours for a text over 24 hours for an e-mail is reasonable enough. If I client feels he owns every second of your time 24/7, the client is being unreasonable and needs a little talk.

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No, being with a client for an extended period is not a valid excuse.

Different clients and escorts have different opinions. I have seen escort ads that specify that in extended appointments (over 24 hours) they require 'personal time' for exercise/gym and/or answering messages. I have also seen reviews that complain about an escort taking such a 'liberty'. I have no problem giving an escort a break like that, but I'm not everyone.

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Though I have been told I should increase my rates to at least $350 if not $400 by several repeat clients. But I know y'all would bitch too much if the thought even crossed my mind ;)

 

You should. According to you the demand is way bigger then the supply. A savvy business would raise their rates accordingly. You just end up pissing off people like poor Lee_Jeff sitting by the phone all sad and frustrated wondering why they never get answered.

 

Think this with Sarah Mclachland playing in the background. :(

 

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Before ya know it, we'll have to start hiring call center staff ( or just send ya over to Schedulicity ) to handle booking requests immediately because of Instant Gratification.

 

other escorts have tried and failed at this very publically. no bueno.

 

if you can raise your rates, do it. that's the nature of being a success. you can't please those who complain about price.

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