A fetish I can't understand: walk in to a strangers home and find them naked....

[Mocha]

This is a common request, or along the lines of it: client asks you to walk into their home (usually one you've never been to), and find them in bed ass up/blindfolded or whatever.

 

Nevermind the vulnerability and risk the client is taking, but on the escorts end...whenever I get that request, I still insist they come to the front door. There's no guarantee it'll be them in the house, and going into it all I can think about is being either set up or framed for home invasion.

 

I met someone however, who had wanted this exact fantasy. According to him (20 minutes into it), he ends the session by saying I didn't fulfill the fantasy because upon arriving on his street I called him to clarify the address he TEXTED me, and that I should have just walked in, at night, in the dark and found him lying on the bed naked, despite his 2 dogs also being in the house. Right.

 

At one point, I returned from the bathroom and the bedroom was pitch black dark. I went totally blind and couldn't even see where I was walking or find the bed or anything. He was just like, "it's better in the dark". And then he wondered why 15 minutes into it I started to lose my hard on. It's like, you can fulfill a fantasy without royally creeping out your sex partner.

[+ poolboy48220]

I've done this (to a FB at his request), and I could see doing this with an escort that you've developed a relationship with and knows your address & layout. I can't imagine doing this on a first meeting.

[Mo Mason]

I'll admit that this is a fantasy which piques my interest; however, I would never request it for an escort because of the awkward nature of the scene. A guy could give you the address of his enemy and send you to his house to "rape" him. I can see how the whole thing would reek of a setup.

 

It's probably legit because I know a lot of us have this fantasy (I see it quite often on craigslist which is really scary), but if I were an escort it's definitely not something in which I would participate.

[Samfoslom]

this was a plot on one of the crime shows, Law and Order SVU, or CSI Miami. Some sick guy set up another to "rape" a woman who was his former supervisor, and rape it turned out to be ...

[Rod Hagen]

No client has ever requested this, but I remember it being a VERY common request in the AOL days. The idea does nothing for me.

[maninsoma]

I have seen this request many times, though not in an escorting context. Only once did I follow through on a hook-up that involved this scene. It ended up being okay (the guy who was naked in bed was the guy in the pictures), but it really wasn't my scene. It's difficult for me to get turned on by someone unless I have at least a little bit of chit-chat with him first, even when the other guy is an attractive escort.

[MrMattBig]

This is a common request, or along the lines of it: client asks you to walk into their home (usually one you've never been to), and find them in bed ass up/blindfolded or whatever.

 

Nevermind the vulnerability and risk the client is taking, but on the escorts end...whenever I get that request, I still insist they come to the front door. There's no guarantee it'll be them in the house, and going into it all I can think about is being either set up or framed for home invasion.

 

I met someone however, who had wanted this exact fantasy. According to him (20 minutes into it), he ends the session by saying I didn't fulfill the fantasy because upon arriving on his street I called him to clarify the address he TEXTED me, and that I should have just walked in, at night, in the dark and found him lying on the bed naked, despite his 2 dogs also being in the house. Right.

 

At one point, I returned from the bathroom and the bedroom was pitch black dark. I went totally blind and couldn't even see where I was walking or find the bed or anything. He was just like, "it's better in the dark". And then he wondered why 15 minutes into it I started to lose my hard on. It's like, you can fulfill a fantasy without royally creeping out your sex partner.

 

This has actually been a common request for me to fulfill during my time as an escort. I have found that the guy in question had motives to talk about his fantasy and get aroused chatting, versus actually going through with it. I hear you and all the things that can go wrong with that arrangement, especially from an escorts point of view.

 

I have a regular client back home who first wanted a session where we would play fight each other. Needless to say I thought it might be someone who wanted to just beat up on a "gay escort". So we agreed to meet in public first to hash out details. It has worked out perfectly. I would suggest to everyone, when in doubt, meet in public to get a feel for each other and discuss details before hand when it comes to fetish and fantasy requests.

[edinbrooklyn]

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[klifhangar]

I don't get role play at all. Be who you are, let me be who I am and let's getiton

[rvwnsd]

This is a common request, or along the lines of it: client asks you to walk into their home (usually one you've never been to), and find them in bed ass up/blindfolded or whatever....

 

I've had a fantasy of an escort walking into my place as well as one where I walk into my place and find him there, naked. However, both fantasies involve escorts whom I have seen on multiple occasions, whom I trust, and who trust me in return.

 

... Nevermind the vulnerability and risk the client is taking, but on the escorts end...whenever I get that request, I still insist they come to the front door. There's no guarantee it'll be them in the house, and going into it all I can think about is being either set up or framed for home invasion.....

 

Not to mention your risk of getting robbed, beaten, or worse. The mind races with the possibilities of things that could go very wrong.

 

... I met someone however, who had wanted this exact fantasy. According to him (20 minutes into it), he ends the session by saying I didn't fulfill the fantasy because upon arriving on his street I called him to clarify the address he TEXTED me, and that I should have just walked in, at night, in the dark and found him lying on the bed naked, despite his 2 dogs also being in the house. Right....

 

That's just crazy. Did you know about the presence of dogs going into the appointment? That just spells scary to me.

 

... At one point, I returned from the bathroom and the bedroom was pitch black dark. I went totally blind and couldn't even see where I was walking or find the bed or anything. He was just like, "it's better in the dark". ....

 

Not if you fell and cracked your head or cut yourself and started bleeding. Nothing says "boner-killer" like an accident and a trip to the ER.

 

... And then he wondered why 15 minutes into it I started to lose my hard on. It's like, you can fulfill a fantasy without royally creeping out your sex partner.

 

The fact that you got hard at all under those circumstances is impressive and surprising.

[+ Topseed]

It's common here in the hook-up world. I don't get it: it seems like a lot of risk on so many levels for the "ass up" bottom guy. And it's hilarious that these guys think I will show up sporting wood. Not likely after I've hiked to their place. I need a little make-out tine to rev up for the main event....

[rvwnsd]

It's common here in the hook-up world. I don't get it: it seems like a lot of risk on so many levels for the "ass up" bottom guy. And it's hilarious that these guys think I will show up sporting wood. Not likely after I've hiked to their place. I need a little make-out tine to rev up for the main event....

Have you ever wondered how many of those "find me ass-up in a dark room..." fantasies are fulfilled?

[Mocha]

I've had a fantasy of an escort walking into my place as well as one where I walk into my place and find him there, naked. However, both fantasies involve escorts whom I have seen on multiple occasions, whom I trust, and who trust me in return.

 

 

 

Not to mention your risk of getting robbed, beaten, or worse. The mind races with the possibilities of things that could go very wrong.

 

 

 

That's just crazy. Did you know about the presence of dogs going into the appointment? That just spells scary to me.

 

 

 

Not if you fell and cracked your head or cut yourself and started bleeding. Nothing says "boner-killer" like an accident and a trip to the ER.

 

 

 

The fact that you got hard at all under those circumstances is impressive and surprising.

 

Lol...he told me about the dogs beforehand, saying "don't let them out the gate" they weren't vicious dogs, but I certainly wasn't going to ask what breed they were and how much they weighed. The worse dog bite I got was by a 10 pound chihuahua mix.

 

PLUS...dogs don't know there's a fantasy going on. First thing they're going to do is ATTACK.

 

Yeah it was impressive I even got hard. All was going well, but in situations like that...based on what Mr big Matt said versus Rod Hagen, I think this seems to be a often asked request of, ummm...usually straight and/or white guys requesting of ethnic guys for whatever reason. Something about the fantasy of it being a rape kind of thing I guess makes it feel like it's not something they want to do, but having it "just happen" anyway.

 

Now...I have done a similar thing before where I walked into a dark hotel room and the person was flipped over. I actually feel more comfortable with that. There's just 1 room, it's not a home invasion, and if the door is slightly cracked that atleast lets me know it's the person I spoke to. Even then, no guarantees.

 

PS....even though I'm well aware of all these fantasies existing in porn, I would never do the "go in the hotel and punish my wife" scene. There's literally seems to be a new fetish discovered everyday out there.

[skyclad]

Its not such an odd fetish. You are longing to whore your arse out to any takers. I've gone to one guy for a dump and go. I couldn't find his flat so he had to come and help me and got a bit annoyed. Anyway it was fun knowing he didn't see me but I got to fuck him.

 

Its similar to the attraction of fickstutenmarkt or czechgayfantacy

[whipped guy]

There was some guy Ive never met who messaged me recently who wanted to role-play and said he wanted to tie me up and put me in handcuffs i don't think it would be wise to do this scene either with a new client either lol:eek:...

Or even a long time regular client!!!!! Ya know some of us are a bit NUTZ!!

[Irtwo]

Something about the fantasy of it being a rape kind of thing I guess makes it feel like it's not something they want to do, but having it "just happen" anyway.

 

That's very perceptive, Mocha, and very true. You summed up in one line what I've seen others struggle to explain in lengthy papers.

[pubic_assistance]

I agree with the other members of the thread. This sort of fantasy play is for REPEAT customers not a first meet. Too risky and creepy.