Hired to meet his mom :o

[hunterlee]

A client hired me to meet his mom to come out to her as gay. My client believed his mom would love me as I am the "clean cut" type she would approve of. I felt honored.

 

I guess the bad boy persona i"m trying to market online isn't working. :(

[+ glennnn]

I'm dying for more details!! How did it go? We're you presented as being in a relationship? Was the "date" with mom the whole appointment? Herein lies a tale.....or perhaps a film script!

[+ poolboy48220]

I share your pain. When I was young and had not come out yet, I was considered the type of guy that girls mother's liked. It was not a successful dating strategy.

[jjkrkwood]

Well that is a different approach, and could go VERY well, or VERY badly. This is a very personal moment, and I'm not sure I would opt for a 3rd party stranger being included in this family moment. If the family didnt already suspect the guy was guy, I would thing they would need some time to process it without having Visuals thrust in their face. BUT if it served his purpose, I'm happy for him.

[+ Gar1eth]

I hope it went well for your client. I wonder if any other escorts reading this have had similar situations.

 

 

Gman

[+ WmClarke]

It's great that you could do that for him. I hope it went well.

[+ nycman]

I'm sorry....but I hope it crashed and burned.

 

It will make for a MUCH more interesting script!

 

Grin

[+ DERRIK]

I know that role play is in the arsenal of many escorts but this is definitely going the extra mile

 

I can only imagine being the fly on the wall

[+ sync]

I'm curious if the client prepared you with some bio information, subjects to mention or not mention in conversation, where you met, now long you have been acquainted, other family members that might be there? I think you are awesome to be able to pull off that kind of improv. As for the bad boy thing...I prefer the good boys who can be bad.

[Bearofdistinction]

I'm curious if the client prepared you with some bio information, subjects to mention or not mention in conversation, where you met, now long you have been acquainted, other family members that might be there? I think you are awesome to be able to pull off that kind of improv. As for the bad boy thing...I prefer the good boys who can be bad.

 

Treat Him Like he is a Bad Boy even if he's been good t you!

 

Go on and just Spank Him!

 

[+ Robster]

I guess it's a good thing the client and his mom didn't see you in Palm Springs last weekend! Bad boy, indeed.

 

Rob

[+ stevenkesslar]

I'm curious to hear the longer version of this, too.

 

I had several clients who hired me for several years each to work through their coming out processes, and their Moms were often part of the back story But I never met the Moms, and they certainly never came out to their Moms in fromt of me. Several of them did eventually come out, after they'd stop hiring me, and if it proved anything at all it's that the toughest part of coming out is the internal one. Once they were ready to tell their Moms, their Moms were ready to accept. Funny how that works.

[rvwnsd]

I don't understand why guys tie coming out to having a boyfriend, but many do just that.

 

So, Hunter, is your client keeping you on retainer so he can have you around whenever he sees his mom?

[+ dutchmuch]

What a Mother's Day present this woman must have had!

 

(Woulda love to have been a fly on the wall)

[capebeachboy]

Might not be as easy if I hire u to tell my wife

[jjkrkwood]

Might not be as easy if I hire u to tell my wife

 

 

Trust me, she Probably KNOWS ?

[+ dutchmuch]

Were you introduced as Hunter Lee the escort, or the massage therapist?

 

*Moderator's note: no personal information.

[Kenny]

don't understand why guys tie coming out to having a boyfriend, but many do just that.

It might have to do with the entrenched stereotype that if you are gay you will be an outcast, lonely and a pariah. Mom's worry about your happiness, so a boyfriend alleviates that particular concern.

[mike carey]

I don't understand why guys tie coming out to having a boyfriend, but many do just that.

It might have to do with the entrenched stereotype that if you are gay you will be an outcast, lonely and a pariah. Mom's worry about your happiness, so a boyfriend alleviates that particular concern.

That could be part of it, Kenny. I took the view that if my sexuality didn't matter for whatever sort of relationship I had with someone, I wouldn't volunteer the information. In the case of my mother, although I had seen her comment on gay men in general in a neutral or positive way, she had also taken my sister's coming out very badly. Because of that, I wasn't rushing to tell her, but if I had met someone who became my boyfriend I would have done so.

[Moondance]

I don't get it. Is the implication here that Hunter is supposed to pose as the client's boyfriend?

 

Is the client's plan to tell the truth to his mother, but wrap it up in a lie?

 

I wish everyone well, but the only way this makes any sense to me is if there's another hour or two after the coming out for time with Hunter and without mom.

[+ dutchmuch]

I guess the bad boy persona i"m trying to market online isn't working. :(

 

And how are you 'marketing' this 'bad boy persona'?

 

 

 

[Vato Loco]

I'm wondering if this thread was started just for publicity reasons.

 

"All publicity is good publicity"???

[bostonman]

I don't understand why guys tie coming out to having a boyfriend, but many do just that

 

I think it's a way of saying, "I'm gay, but I'm also in a loving relationship, so it's all for the good. I'm happy, and hoping you can be happy for me - and for us."

 

Sometimes that can backfire though. I always had it in my head that I'd come out to my parents that way. But we wound up talking about it before I had a serious boyfriend. At the time, things seemed ok, and we left it at that. When I met someone the following summer, and wanted to introduce him to my folks, my mom had no problem, but my dad was a little upset. Seems that it made my sexuality a little too real all of a sudden. Now, it wasn't the end of the world, and things got patched up - but it was strange to find out that my fantasy of being able to say "I have a boyfriend I care about, so being gay is turning out to be a good thing" was not quite as palatable as "dad, I'm gay" on its own.

[+ quoththeraven]

I'm wondering if this thread was started just for publicity reasons.

 

"All publicity is good publicity"???

 

Why haven't you popped up to make this comment when other escorts have started similar threads about oddball events in their professional lives?

 

Escorts have plenty of other things to do with their time than to post here, but it's only reasonable to assume that they are thinking of the marketing/publicity aspects of threads they start. It would be stupid of them not to.

[+ stevenkesslar]

I met Hunter for the first time in Palm Springs. He's a total sweetie, and smart and sexy to boot.

 

I'd bring him home to meet Mom. If I was Gay, that is.