Straight Escorts

[liubit]

Even now, the majority of Eastern or Central European guys who escort prefer the label "straight" or "bisexual" to gay, although they get into most things (safe and not so safe) easily enough.

 

I agree. Here in Prague, I have had the hottest sex, and I do mean the hottest --amazing kissing, fantastic blowjobs, uninhibited topping and bottoming, rimming-- with kids that also have girlfriends, and are not shy about it. Some of them have been in a lot, a lot, a lot of hardcore gay porn, and in those videos I have seen them doing things you can only dream of, safe and not safe. In my experience, Czech boys defy labels. Most advertise as bisexual, but I think they are simply sexual, and they truly enjoy everything....for a fee.

[+ SundayZip]

hiring a 'straight' guy is funny to me and a lill sad

like a lot of gay culture, I believe this comes from a place of self loathing

 

Yeah, we've all heard this before. Here's the thing that bugs me about statements like this. LGBT people have fought for decades to break free of a very narrow definition of relationships, sexuality and sexual identity. But now there seems to be an element within the gay community that wants to define a new, yet equally narrow definition. People have a huge variety of preferences and idiosyncrasies that manifest themselves in many different ways, but come on… do you have to get all judgmental about them?

[jimboivyo]

but come on… do you have to get all judgmental about them?

 

clearly you don't understand how internet message boards work

[bigvalboy]

clearly you don't understand how internet message boards work

 

[+ FreshFluff]

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[+ nycman]

Two funny "straight" boy stories:

 

I generally avoid hiring "straight" escorts at all cost. I just find them to be crappy

sexual partners all around. However, recently I was travelling and hired a guy off

RentMen. He came over and I fucked him like an animal for over 2 hours.

When we finished, he apologised for not getting hard while he was getting fucked.

I politely said "don't worry about it, lots of dudes lose their erections when they

get fucked for a long period of time." He said, "oh, it's not that, I don't get hard

because I'm straight"....you could have knocked me over with a feather.

 

He explained that as a straight dude, it was easier to get fucked that it was to try

and get hard and fuck another dude...so that's what he did. After he left I double

checked his RentMen profile.....yep....."straight...and....bottom". In my horned up

delirium I must have missed the "straight" part...lmao.

 

Another time I was on a long boring straight cruise with straight friends. In the

spa I found a young and very handsome eastern european massage therapist who

happened to also be built like a brick house. He also had the typical gruff eastern

european male attitude.

 

Toward the end of the massage I noticed his technique was getting a little "rough",

but then the session ended abruptly. Of course the next day I booked another longer

massage with him. This time he wasted no time and within minutes he was on top on

me, had me pinned to the table, rock hard and was aggressively dry humping my ass.

 

The poor dude was like a caged animal. It all became clear when he whispered in

my ear, "I'm straight but the girls who work on this boat get scared when I treat them

like this....but you like it?". He seemed genuinely stunned that I was ok with it. I rolled over

and laughed a little. I explained that gay men are not like girls and in fact many of them like

rough play. I also explained that some girls also like rough play, but that he needed to learn how

control it a little better. To my surprise he asked me to teach him.

 

So I booked a "massage" every day and over that week, we talked about domination/submission,

rough play, safe words, toys, role playing, pain and pleasure. Oh yeah, and we took turns

dry humping, aggressively kissing. frotting, slapping, spitting, punching and pinning each

other down.

 

He really got off on having a buddy he could play out his aggression with while learning

how to control it, without the added pressure of dealing with a "girl". All in all I spent

a fortune that week in the spa and I find it hard to believe that no one else heard us,

but it was worth it to help a young dude explore his sexuality in a "safe" environment.

[+ azdr0710]

When we finished, he apologised for not getting hard while he was getting fucked.

I politely said "don't worry about it, lots of dudes lose their erections when they

get fucked for a long period of time." He said, "oh, it's not that, I don't get hard

because I'm straight"....you could have knocked me over with a feather.

 

He explained that as a straight dude, it was easier to get fucked that it was to try

and get hard and fuck another dude...so that's what he did.

 

very true.....had this during a recent visit to Montreal...."straight" dude happily gave head, bottomed, stroked me to a finish, was submissive, but won't top a dude.....showed me pictures of his great-looking gf and offered to put on a show for me with her.....

[LADoug1]

hiring a 'straight' guy is funny to me and a lill sad

 

like a lot of gay culture, I believe this comes from a place of self loathing

+1 Often the case. Important for gay men to understand the concept of self-loathing. It effects so many of us in so many ways.

[LADoug1]

Yeah, we've all heard this before. Here's the thing that bugs me about statements like this. LGBT people have fought for decades to break free of a very narrow definition of relationships, sexuality and sexual identity. But now there seems to be an element within the gay community that wants to define a new, yet equally narrow definition. People have a huge variety of preferences and idiosyncrasies that manifest themselves in many different ways, but come on… do you have to get all judgmental about them?

I can see how you would find the post judgmental. Maybe it would be better if it said "SOMETIMES comes from a place of self-loathing."

[LADoug1]

So I booked a "massage" every day and over that week.

 

Must have cost a fortune!

[MikeyGMin]

very true.....had this during a recent visit to Montreal...."straight" dude happily gave head, bottomed, stroked me to a finish, was submissive, but won't top a dude.....showed me pictures of his great-looking gf and offered to put on a show for me with her.....

 

We have a guy working in town right now who is bisexual but way more on the straight side. Like 80/20. He does the same as above. He was actually very open that he has plenty of sex with women in his personal life and simply isn't interested in topping guys and can't get 'up' for it.

[+ WilliamM]

g a 'straight' guy is funny to me and a lill sad

 

like a lot of gay culture, I believe this comes from a place of self loathing

 

What a narrow view of life. A decade ago I hired several straight guys, as an experiment.

 

They were sexy and likable, but way too limited as to gay sex. Sorry that you see this as a "lill" sad, jim

[+ SundayZip]

It's my impression that most guys who post here prefer hiring escorts who identify as gay. That's cool. On the other hand, something like 98% of men in the world identify as straight (number varies based on the source) and plenty of them are willing to stretch their sexual boundaries... to varying degrees. More power to the guys who don't limit themselves to the less than 2% of men in the world who strictly identify as gay.

[MikeyGMin]

It's my impression that most guys who post here prefer hiring escorts who identify as gay. That's cool. On the other hand, something like 98% of men in the world identify as straight (number varies based on the source) and plenty of them are willing to stretch their sexual boundaries... to varying degrees. More power to the guys who don't limit themselves to the less than 2% of men in the world who strictly identify as gay.

 

Really? I've never heard a number as low as 2%. That sure doesn't feel right to me, but it's purely anecdotal. Between the military and my current job, I have been in plenty of situations where there are 100-ish men in a room. I certainly never feel like it's just me and one other homo!

[mike carey]

More power to the guys who don't limit themselves to the less than 2% of men in the world who strictly identify as gay.

I would say more power to the guys who are not part of the 2% but who nevertheless are happy to come out and fuck us or let us fuck them. They are the ones who are stretching boundaries, not we who deign to meet them.

[+ SundayZip]

Really? I've never heard a number as low as 2%. That sure doesn't feel right to me, but it's purely anecdotal. Between the military and my current job, I have been in plenty of situations where there are 100-ish men in a room. I certainly never feel like it's just me and one other homo!

 

I'm with you on the numbers Mikey. Seems like there's a lot more than 2% where I live, but then I live in one of "those neighborhoods". The percentage gets a lot higher when you start counting bisexual guys and especially when you count guys who are primarily attracted to women but admit to having had an occasional thing with a guy.

[+ quoththeraven]

Then there are people who identify as straight (or gay) for whom there may be a person not within the group they're attracted to whom they turn out to be attracted to. It may have been a matter of convenience at first while hitchhiking from New York to Georgia and back to visit the grave of Duane Allman, but I don't think the college boyfriend who expanded my horizons to include anal sex felt nothing for the best friend who he fucked around with during high school until said friend started going out with a girl.

 

After telling me about this, he told me he was straight, and he never gave any indication he was attracted to men. I never asked him any questions about it, so I don't know if they flipfucked or not, but I have reason to think he topped at least some of the time.