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with all of the free porn in the world I don't really see the point. I used to get lots of sad stories but not so much recently for some reason. Guys who live nowhere near me but have nice pictures asking me to send them money because they're down on their luck, need money for books, or whatever. Or who want strictly platonic online "relationships". I often wonder if this sort of thing ever actually works for them.

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with all of the free porn in the world I don't really see the point. I used to get lots of sad stories but not so much recently for some reason. Guys who live nowhere near me but have nice pictures asking me to send them money because they're down on their luck, need money for books, or whatever. Or who want strictly platonic online "relationships". I often wonder if this sort of thing ever actually works for them.

I get these also and I think that they are just a shot-in-the-dark with the hope that if they send 100 notes that one person will bite.

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I ran across this on Reddit. Most of the discussions are based on a MF arrangement but the same principles apply. It’s really interesting to read the posts of the (female) SB’s.

 

  • SB - sugar baby / SD - sugar daddy / SM - sugar mama
  • SR - sugar relationship
  • SBF - sugar boyfriend / SGF - sugar girlfriend
  • M&G - meet and greet
  • PUA - pick up artist
  • PPM - pay per meet
  • SA - seeking.com (seeking arrangement)
  • POT - potential sugar daddy or sugar baby
  • Splenda daddy - a man that only pays in the form of gifts and experiences
  • Salt daddy - a man that takes sugar and didn't give any
  • Rinser - a sugar baby that takes sugar and doesnt give any

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  • 1 month later...
There are some sugar babies who have been on there 5 or 6 years. There are some escorts as well although that seems to be discouraged.

 

Happy to answer any other questions.

 

When does an escort turn into a sugar baby? After a week? A month?

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When does an escort turn into a sugar baby? After a week? A month?

 

This question does make me wonder which is more common: escorts turning into sugar babies or sugar babies who become escorts. I'm guessing that the former is awfully common whereas the latter, at least in formal and official terms, somewhat rare. Who knows?

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This question does make me wonder which is more common: escorts turning into sugar babies or sugar babies who become escorts. I'm guessing that the former is awfully common whereas the latter, at least in formal and official terms, somewhat rare. Who knows?

 

Most businesses prefer repeat customers and steady income, even with the drawbacks. When the long term clients dry up or get too demanding, shorter term contracts are sought. Of course, there are exceptions.

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I’ve been reading the Reddit discussions of both SBs and escorts and there’s an interesting dynamic of SBs view of escorts as sex workers and escorts view of SBs as sex workers in denial.

These are all straight women (or at least women who date men) and there’s a lot of grey area in the escort/SB space wherein some escorts speak of their sugar daddies and some SBs exchange tips on pay-per-meet dates and freestyling.

 

In my view the distinction is a little blurry because ultimately both roles involve sex and money. You can’t really even distinguish them by intent to become emotionally engaged... that goes both ways. Perhaps the SB/escort’s view of their male partner is one way: either 1) he’s a guy i see many times who gives me money and I just happen to have sex with, or, 2) he’s a guy I have sex with in exchange for money, Are there platonic SBs? Yeah, but not many. Are there escorts who have platonic meetings? Yeah but not many.

 

I do think this is skewed in that the SBs who post on Reddit tend to be a little more professional about it than most new SBs.

 

i also have an appreciation for why Seekingarrangement is so hypersensitive about discussions of sex and money. Without a distinction they are essentially the world‘s largest escort agency.

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The irony of the email I received this morning is striking to me:

 

 

Hi there,

Thank you for reaching out to us. Unfortunately, it appears you had a previous account that was permanently suspended for
soliciting sex in exchange for compensation
. We were able to verify your ownership of this account using information on the profiles.

You are banned from
WhatsYourPrice.com
and any of our sister sites. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a continued violation of our Terms of Use. Our decision is final and any future inquiries about this suspension will not receive a response.

Warm Regards,

Alana

WhatsYourPrice Support

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Intriguing email @Keith30309.

 

1. I’d never heard of WhatsYourPrice.com but I’m glad they signed off with “Warm Regards” to you.

 

2. They accuse you of “soliciting sex...for compensation” - the site wants ”generous members” who solicit dates for compensation.

 

3. Such “generous members” only pay “for that first date”.

 

I’d like to know how the website polices all these first dates, which obviously are entirely platonic, and ensures that all further dates are not ‘compensated’ in any way.

 

Truly, heterosexual men (aka generous members) lead strange lives meeting “out of your league” women (aka attractive members) who “get reimbursed for the time and effort (preparing) for the date”.

 

Perhaps as a gay man and only a top, I should now think of reimbursing all my ex-boyfriends and former lovers for all the time they spent douching to be ready for our ‘first dates’ ;-)

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The irony of the email I received this morning is striking to me:

 

 

Hi there,

Thank you for reaching out to us. Unfortunately, it appears you had a previous account that was permanently suspended for
soliciting sex in exchange for compensation
. We were able to verify your ownership of this account using information on the profiles.

You are banned from
WhatsYourPrice.com
and any of our sister sites. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a continued violation of our Terms of Use. Our decision is final and any future inquiries about this suspension will not receive a response.

Warm Regards,

Alana

WhatsYourPrice Support

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The hypocrisy is blatant but completely understandable. They have no choice but to do this when they become aware of money-for-sex transactions on their platform. If they fail to act so aggressively, they become exposed legally to the same fate as Backpage. It's the result of the USA's continued unwillingness to legalize and regulate sex-work.

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The irony of the email I received this morning is striking to me:

 

 

Hi there,

Thank you for reaching out to us. Unfortunately, it appears you had a previous account that was permanently suspended for
soliciting sex in exchange for compensation
. We were able to verify your ownership of this account using information on the profiles.

You are banned from
WhatsYourPrice.com
and any of our sister sites. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a continued violation of our Terms of Use. Our decision is final and any future inquiries about this suspension will not receive a response.

Warm Regards,

Alana

WhatsYourPrice Support

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The irony of the email I received this morning is striking to me:

 

 

Hi there,

Thank you for reaching out to us. Unfortunately, it appears you had a previous account that was permanently suspended for
soliciting sex in exchange for compensation
. We were able to verify your ownership of this account using information on the profiles.

You are banned from
WhatsYourPrice.com
and any of our sister sites. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a continued violation of our Terms of Use. Our decision is final and any future inquiries about this suspension will not receive a response.

Warm Regards,

Alana

WhatsYourPrice Support

giphy.gif

What bull**it, check the landing/homepage for the site. Doh?

 

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The irony of the email I received this morning is striking to me:

 

 

Hi there,

Thank you for reaching out to us. Unfortunately, it appears you had a previous account that was permanently suspended for
soliciting sex in exchange for compensation
. We were able to verify your ownership of this account using information on the profiles.

You are banned from
WhatsYourPrice.com
and any of our sister sites. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a continued violation of our Terms of Use. Our decision is final and any future inquiries about this suspension will not receive a response.

Warm Regards,

Alana

WhatsYourPrice Support

giphy.gif

Warm Regards!! LOL

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I would be careful posting about seeking arrangement guys here; I knew two who were offended that they were discussed in this way on an external site (especially if they didn’t consider themselves escorts).

 

I’m not saying it’s right (after all, these boys are on seeking arrangement...), but the relationship is more tenuous than a clear cut escort connection.

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I would be careful posting about seeking arrangement guys here; I knew two who were offended that they were discussed in this way on an external site (especially if they didn’t consider themselves escorts).

 

Omg who? Sorry couldn’t resist. ?

 

On a different note, I am taking 10 boys from Seeking skiing this weekend upstate New York. It’s my first time mixing boys and we’re all looking forward to it. What could possibly go wrong right?

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I would be careful posting about seeking arrangement guys here; I knew two who were offended that they were discussed in this way on an external site (especially if they didn’t consider themselves escorts).

 

I’m not saying it’s right (after all, these boys are on seeking arrangement...), but the relationship is more tenuous than a clear cut escort connection.

Agree totally. I would never post any personal info about a SA individual. There are mostly college students who are entering into private relationships and deserve the same discretion as any of us.

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