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It saddens me to announce that I will be taking an undetermined time away from working starting immediately. As some know from a previous post in the lounge I was seeing someone (I'll refer to him as the Hungarian) and he doesn't approve nor support the idea of escorting. I've tried to talk to him about it and the good it does but he just doesn't understand. So to try my best to make the relationship work I am stepping back from working for the time being. Everyone who've I've personally met and interacted with through this work has touched me in a positive way and have made me a much better person. More so than any other job I've done. I will still post here on the board. I don't think I really could stop that. Y'all are like a wonderfully dysfunctional family to me. I am still planning the Chicago meet up and if there's another in July on another mid west state I do plan on attending. I want to wish everyone on the board and those lurking the very best in what you do, be safe and be kind to each other. But don't but up with no bull shit.

 

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Greg

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liubit Grand Master

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Buen viaje, bonito. We have never met, but I truly enjoy your posts here, which I find sensible, smart, funny and useful. IMHO, you are making the right decision. May the Hungarian fulfill your hopes, your needs and your expectations. You deserve it. Mis mejores deseos para los dos. Besito.

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When I decided to make escorting a part of my life I knew I couldn't be romantically involved with anyone anymore. Luckily I had been in two, two year consecutive relationship before then so being in a relationship is out of my system at least for now. It just wouldn't be fair for my partner, and if I lied he would find out eventually due to me leaving random and late hours to meet someone lol. But anyhoo seaboy just keep talking about the pro's that escorting brings to you and your relationship or bring him in rentmen and advertise yourself as a duo hehe maybe he will change his mind :)

 

Relationship and escorting can work but it takes a lot of trust, security and the right frame of mind to make it so. He and I are still working on the trust and security part but he does not have the right frame of mind to support me in this and for sure not becoming a working guy himself. But who knows maybe with enough nagging (I'm a pro at that) I can get him to agree to let me come back at a later time.

 

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Greg

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Hey you. Why the heavy heart? If your bf offers you love, companionship, sex, stability, joy, caring, laughter, an occasional tear ...... a true friendship..... go enjoy, explore!!!! It should be an another, exciting journey for you. You're not going away from the forum.... just here in a different role for now.

P. S. Glad I had a taste. . :)

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Relationship and escorting can work but it takes a lot of trust, security and the right frame of mind to make it so. He and I are still working on the trust and security part but he does not have the right frame of mind to support me in this and for sure not becoming a working guy himself. But who knows maybe with enough nagging (I'm a pro at that) I can get him to agree to let me come back at a later time.

 

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Greg

 

Nagging? Try Catholic guilt. Remember, you know I'm good at that. . haha

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It saddens me to announce that I will be taking an undetermined time away from working starting immediately. As some know from a previous post in the lounge I was seeing someone (I'll refer to him as the Hungarian) and he doesn't approve nor support the idea of escorting. I've tried to talk to him about it and the good it does but he just doesn't understand. So to try my best to make the relationship work I am stepping back from working for the time being. Everyone who've I've personally met and interacted with through this work has touched me in a positive way and have made me a much better person. More so than any other job I've done. I will still post here on the board. I don't think I really could stop that. Y'all are like a wonderfully dysfunctional family to me. I am still planning the Chicago meet up and if there's another in July on another mid west state I do plan on attending. I want to wish everyone on the board and those lurking the very best in what you do, be safe and be kind to each other. But don't but up with no bull shit.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

Good luck, Greg. Your posts have been interesting and helpful. A word of advice: be happy for yourself as you try out a new adventure. We will miss you, but you have to do what is right for yourself.

 

YAD

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I hope that I have not failed you Seaboy but I am actually quite functional. ;) I think that it is wonderful that you have found love and have also found what it will take at this time to maintain it. Love always entails compromise of one type or another. The only compromise that we insist on you not making is talking to us here. And if Mr. Hungarian insists on that, you send him my way and I will tell him what I think about that sort of outrageousness. That should take care of that. And, of course, I will see you in Chitown.

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Good luck sir. As with everyone else, I hoping you find the connection with this guy and you two become truly happy and devoted to each other.

 

Considering how much you are giving up for him (which I hope he understands), he better damn well treat you like the most important person in the universe. If he doesn't each and every board member will come kick his ass. :p

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Good for You @seaboy4hire . I met someone Myself about 2 Years ago and Stopped Escorting while we Were Dating. You never know how a Relationship will Work out...Or what the Future Holds for You Two. But TRUST is Everything...and this Isnt the Business to be In while Dating someone(I know People Do...But Its just MY Opinion). Good Luck man!

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