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jawjateck Veteran

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Hello!

 

I'm fairly new here, so I thought I'd make my first post. I hope this hasn't been done before though.

 

If you're an escort or a client, what is your best piece of advice for another escort or a client?

 

Thanks!

Jet

 

Oh yeah, and welcome to our little village, handsome! ;)

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mike carey Grand Master

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Oh yeah, and welcome to our little village, handsome!

Allow me to second Jawjateck's welcome, and to add that your reputation preceded you into the forum, and in an entirely good way!

Kuriousity Enthusiast

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"We can totally enjoy each other's company, but this is business. I have a personal life and you have a personal life, and those lives are parallel, but not connected."

 

Side note--you're adorable.

MikeyGMin Experienced

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"We can totally enjoy each other's company, but this is business. I have a personal life and you have a personal life, and those lives are parallel, but not connected."

 

Wow. That's almost deep Kur -- and not an ounce of snark. Did you get up on the right side of the bed this morning or just feeling magnanimous?

Kuriousity Enthusiast

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Wow. That's almost deep Kur -- and not an ounce of snark. Did you get up on the right side of the bed this morning or just feeling magnanimous?

 

Don't you have bubble-butted go-go boys to molest? :p:rolleyes:

ChrisWydeman Enthusiast

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Hello!

 

I'm fairly new here, so I thought I'd make my first post. I hope this hasn't been done before though.

 

If you're an escort or a client, what is your best piece of advice for another escort or a client?

 

Thanks!

Jet

Clean your butt out :p

MikeyGMin Experienced

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Don't you have bubble-butted go-go boys to molest? :p:rolleyes:

 

Been there...done that. He was 25-years-old and built like a brick shithouse. Beautiful smooth brown skin and willing to do nasty, nasty things once he was off for the evening. All in all it was a very successful trip. :D:p:D

 

 

http://worldofwonder.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/tumblr_mnzdkfGHQ61qi857wo1_250.gif

Kuriousity Enthusiast

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Been there...done that. He was 25-years-old and built like a brick shithouse. Beautiful smooth brown skin and willing to do nasty, nasty things once he was off for the evening. All in all it was a very successful trip. :D:p:D

 

 

http://worldofwonder.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/tumblr_mnzdkfGHQ61qi857wo1_250.gif

 

You tramp

Axiom2001 Grand Master

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Client to client....Don't fall in love. ;)

 

For the client and the escort: treat each other with the utmost respect. Try to get to know each other beyond “the bed” via conversation during your time together.

 

Be honest with each other. Ever since I’ve used the services of escorts here in the States and beyond, I’ve been upfront about self and have gleaned it from a few guys with whom I have connected and have seen a few of these guys more than once. Two escorts, in particular, and I consider ourselves friends

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hey welcome to the board...lots of good advice given so far. I agree with the folks saying be professional at all times, trust your gut, and i will add two things:

 

1. Know your brand and stay true to it:

 

I think a lot of men that struggle in this business don't know what their brand is. I don't mean that you need to pigeon hole yourself as one type of pro but know who you are and what you have to offer. If you look at successful men in the business, Juan Vancouver, Mike Gaite, Kevin Slater, etc, they know what their brand is and they stay true to it at all times. I have not met these 3 (although they are 3 I would hire if the timing and location was right). But I have a fairly good idea of who they are and what they stand for because they are consistent in their responses on here and I think it is safe to assume they know what their market is and they stay true to that. They may not be for everybody but I think in doing so they make it easier for someone considering hiring a pro to go with them and hire them. My perspective as a client is that I need to know fairly quickly if the pro is somebody I will click with sexually as well as non sexually and if the potential hire seems wishy washy on who they are or what they are into I am going to pass and not take a chance on hiring them.

 

2. Keep a personal life separate from this business:

 

As somebody that dated a pro for a few years, I had no issues with his profession and we had a very happy relationship up until his professional life started bleeding into the personal life. I never had any question in my mind that when he came home to me he was home with me. Our issue developed when he introduced me to a client and the client wanted to hire us both. It wasn't my thing and he knew that but he was mad at me for not helping him out. It created friction in our relationship. There is no need to hide who you are and I would encourage you to be honest about it, but keep the two worlds apart so to speak.

 

Best of luck

LADoug1 Mentor

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To a Client: 1. Dont Overthink things....Just Have Fun

2. Every Escort is Different. A Bad Experience with one shouldnt affect Your mood towards Others.

3. Just because You're paying him...he Isnt Your Bitch(Unless hes Into that kind of thing). In other words Respect Boundaries.

 

 

To an Escort: 1. Maintain Professionalism

2.It is YOUR Job to Break the Ice/Set the mood. Be "Present"

3. Invest and Save. Dont be one of those many Statistics where Escorts "Retire" without a Dollar to their name after many Years of Work and nothing to show for it.

4. Keep it Classy.

Can't agree more about the escort breaking the ice. Sets the mood. Relaxes the client.

 

Also to the escort: smile in one of your pics. :)

mike carey Grand Master

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Yes if the escort is comfortable posting one.

Sorry, I was being too cute by half. I was wondering if you could have been referring to another sort of photo that could be called a 'smile'!

rguer Enthusiast

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The only problem with this maxim is that most people want to be treated in a co-dependent, abusive way. That is what they have learn to see as normal and desirable. Also, there's a lot of people who want the drama, the jealousy and the game playing that comes with what has come to be seen as a "passionate relationship" in this culture.

 

Drama=Love

 

Or so Hollywood would have us think.

Keith30309 Grand Master

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The only problem with this maxim is that most people want to be treated in a co-dependent, abusive way. That is what they have learn to see as normal and desirable. Also, there's a lot of people who want the drama, the jealousy and the game playing that comes with what has come to be seen as a "passionate relationship" in this culture.

 

This surprises me and I had to mull it for a bit.

 

Do clients seek you out in order that you roleplay a co-dependent, abusive relationship, or because they subconsciously want to become emotionally involved with you in such a way or something similar? Do people really believe that this is the norm? That seems incredibly sad to me, even (or perhaps, especially) in the context of hiring a companion.

 

I would tend to think that part of the motivation for hiring, beside the obvious, is exactly the opposite - to have a brief... a really brief... relationship that is all about freely giving and accepting affection without any strings attached and with all the emotional baggage left outside the door. A tiny slice of time in which all the drama of a long-term relationship drifts away and the simple pleasure of intimacy with another fills their senses and soul.

 

I understand that there are those who seek out overt and/or subtle humiliation but I would think that to be the exception rather than the rule.

 

Perhaps what the doctors told my mother about my eating lead-based paint chips as if they were Pringles was true after all.

Juan Vancouver Collaborator

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Keith,

 

You are a fine gentleman and I for one share your view on what intimacy should be. I would even contend intimacy should be like that with everyone, not only during an escort session, but that is sadly not the norm.

 

To answer your question, yes and yes. Yes, people deliberately seek out to role-play codependency and power struggles in all of their forms, and yes, people quite often unconsciously seek out codependent involvements because they have come to learn this is what being wanted and needed feels like.

 

Giving and receiving love without any baggage or any ties for many feels too vague, too free and not fulfilling at all. This sadly extends to most people's lives, professional or otherwise.

 

Yes, what the doctors told your mother was true: eating paint chips makes you handsome. (They are doctors, they know.)

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