Post-appointment message to client

[+ nycman]

I've told this story here before...but....

 

Years ago....back when the closest thing to a "smart phone" was a StarTac flip phone.....and I had no clue what texting even was....

 

I'm sitting in a Board Meeting in NYC the day after an intense night with a well known escort. In the middle of the meeting

my phone buzzes. I flip it open to see the text from the escort "U R 1 Hot Fuck". I gasp, then try to act "cool"...then blush.

 

Needless to say, some of my vice-presidents still want to know what EXACTLY was in that first text that I ever received....lol

 

I like follow up texts, especially if it's obvious we both had fun and it's genuine. If it's being done solely as a "good business move"

...meh...save your time and skip it.

[Jock123]

The Biggest Compliment you can ever recieve is a Client wanting to book You...Again.

 

Most are nice/cordial. Being paid is a given, But really you dont have a TRUE Indication they enjoyed it until they ask to see You again.

[seaboy4hire]

The Biggest Compliment you can ever recieve is a Client wanting to book You...Again.

 

Most are nice/cordial. Being paid is a given, But really you dont have a TRUE Indication they enjoyed it until they ask to see You again.

 

And appreciation goes both ways. Weas escorts need to show that we appreciate the clients. Many have a choice of sometimes hundreds they could see. I'm always appreciative and greatful of the client's I get to see. I'm at a slight disadvantage compared to most working guys so ibtry my best to be the best I can be.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Jock123]

Merry Christmas Greg...a Day where Its ok to Indulge!

 

 

[seaboy4hire]

Merry Christmas Greg...a Day where Its ok to Indulge!

 

 

 

Omg! Fried chicken sounds sooo good right now! Damn you jock! Lol

 

Hugs,

Gteg

[LADoug1]

I have written thank you notes to escorts. Again it is common courtesy and expression of appreciation. It also helps reinforce our connection so hopefully the next time will be as hot if not hotter.

[Brian Kevin]

I always hug 3-5 times before I leave, and I also shoot a text once I arrive at home, if at home or a hotel, I text after my shower to thank them for coming and I usually get a "see u soon" or "let me know when you're back in town)

[Brian Kevin]

Merry Christmas Greg...a Day where Its ok to Indulge!

 

 

 

 

Fried chicken. No.

 

Crab Rangoons, yes.

[+ bashful]

Thanks all for the great responses, and the insight it has given me. I was pleasantly surprised to learn my experience tracks with what many have said. Although I have not hired many times, I normally turn off my phone (not just mute) before knocking on the escort's door. Not wanting to be distracted while driving, I don't turn it back on until I arrive home. Of the most positive experiences I've had, I was very happy they sent a followup text. I look forward to seeing them again. Of those that didn't text, I had already decided before getting home there are too many other options rather than repeating. Happy New Year to all.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Because of this thread, yesterday I sent my first message of appreciation. You guys are teaching me how to be nicer.

[Floyd_Taylor]

apparently they think I'm a Master (Yoda) Jawja. HAHA!

 

Master you are. Yoda you are not!.

 

I can't think of a single guy who hasn't sent me a thank you text or email. Ever. Even with guys I've hired multiple times and with whom I chat regularly on a personal level on FB, Scruff, A4A, et al. Of course, I think I tend to build different types of relationships with escorts than many guys. But then again, I always send a thank you text to every single guy I hook up with on the apps too. Maybe that was drilled into me by the escorts who always sent me thank yous.

[seaboy4hire]

Master you are. Yoda you are not!.

 

I can't think of a single guy who hasn't sent me a thank you text or email. Ever. Even with guys I've hired multiple times and with whom I chat regularly on a personal level on FB, Scruff, A4A, et al. Of course, I think I tend to build different types of relationships with escorts than many guys. But then again, I always send a thank you text to every single guy I hook up with on the apps too. Maybe that was drilled into me by the escorts who always sent me thank yous.

 

Or maybe your parents did good and raised you with manners?

 

Hugs,

Greg

[mike carey]

All this is very interesting. I would not even consider sending a thank you note to a doctor or lawyer I had seen. If you had a plumber come and fix a leaking pipe would you text him a thank you? The fact that we are talking about this for escorts indicates to me that we do not see it as just a professional service, there is somethng more to it than that. Is it that this is fundamentally a personal rather than a professional relationship (despite the exchange of money), or is it that because of the intimacy (real or perceived) we feel the need to superimpose the norms of personal interactions on what should be professional ones?

[MikeyGMin]

All this is very interesting. I would not even consider sending a thank you note to a doctor or lawyer I had seen. If you had a plumber come and fix a leaking pipe would you text him a thank you? The fact that we are talking about this for escorts indicates to me that we do not see it as just a professional service, there is somethng more to it than that. Is it that this is fundamentally a personal rather than a professional relationship (despite the exchange of money), or is it that because of the intimacy (real or perceived) we feel the need to superimpose the norms of personal interactions on what should be professional ones?

 

Yes, yes and yes. :)

[+ Keith30309]

All this is very interesting. I would not even consider sending a thank you note to a doctor or lawyer I had seen. If you had a plumber come and fix a leaking pipe would you text him a thank you? The fact that we are talking about this for escorts indicates to me that we do not see it as just a professional service, there is somethng more to it than that. Is it that this is fundamentally a personal rather than a professional relationship (despite the exchange of money), or is it that because of the intimacy (real or perceived) we feel the need to superimpose the norms of personal interactions on what should be professional ones?

 

I think it's a professional relationship that can have a deeply personal impact, thru real/imagined intimacy and satisfaction of what are sometimes suppressed or long-denied physical & emotional needs. Under the best circumstances, with a true professional, the closest thing to it is that of a therapist.

 

It has to be honest and specific. Think a little about the characteristics you enjoyed, what made you feel good and how this session was special for you. Then thank him about that. Avoid generalities, avoid terms of endearment that are normally reserved for lovers and more importantly, avoid exaggerations and lies. That is the difference between a thoughtful continuation of an enjoyable human interaction and premeditated, dehumanizing publicity.

.... And when a note like this is received it validates and reinforces whatever warm feelings the client left with.

[+ quoththeraven]

All this is very interesting. I would not even consider sending a thank you note to a doctor or lawyer I had seen. If you had a plumber come and fix a leaking pipe would you text him a thank you? The fact that we are talking about this for escorts indicates to me that we do not see it as just a professional service, there is somethng more to it than that. Is it that this is fundamentally a personal rather than a professional relationship (despite the exchange of money), or is it that because of the intimacy (real or perceived) we feel the need to superimpose the norms of personal interactions on what should be professional ones?

 

I agree, except I don't think it's a matter of superimposing the norms of personal interactions on what should be professional ones. The experience can be both personal and professional. That's what's confusing about it, and that's the reason for the existence of multiple threads on etiquette, falling in love with an escort or figuring out how to respond to a client who says "I love you."

[mike carey]

I agree, except I don't think it's a matter of superimposing the norms of personal interactions on what should be professional ones. The experience can be both personal and professional. That's what's confusing about it, and that's the reason for the existence of multiple threads on etiquette, falling in love with an escort or figuring out how to respond to a client who says "I love you."

All that is true, QTR. What I was raising was that a lot of times we assume that there is a professional/personal binary and that isn't necessarily the case. A lot of the discussion here assumes that the client/escort relationship is purely professional, and many of us agree with that assessment, but the idea of personal thank you notes challenges that assumption.

[mattr]

Although it should always be considered a professional relationship but the interaction, when successful, is highly personal. Having said that, It is unlikely that i would send any kind of Thank You note unless I really felt he provided service well beyond contractual expectations (something my plumber would never do!). If the meeting went very well and I received a note (naughty hopefully), it would exponentially increase the likelihood of me engaging him in a repeat meeting.

[Mikegaite]

I always send a follow-up thank you akin to the following:

 

Dear valued client:

 

Thank you for taking the time to partake in Mike Gaite Professional Services Experience and/or MGX Entertainment, LLC. I am delighted to hear that you enjoyed and would like to repeat the Mike Gaite experience. Please rest assured that your initial session or sessions were very special and/or memorable to me. What we shared on that single or multiple occasion(s) was as meaningful, intense, and sexually exciting for me as it was for you! Lo, my beautiful [insert term of endearment], our time together was so much more than sex; it was a true bridging of souls. I know you sensed it, too, my beautiful lover-to-be. My thoughts/prayers are with you each and every day, my sagacious/pulchritudinous/simpatico (choose one) object of my affection. I ache for you, and cannot wait for the thousand dramas that will play out between us on the glorious stage of my superb physique.

 

In order to book your next engagement, please submit full details about your desired location and time. One of our booking associates will get back to you shortly.

 

With very sincere and personal regards,

M. Gaite

[Juan Vancouver]

Always choose pulchritudinous! It fulfils my sesquipedalian urges.

[romanz]

I always send a follow-up thank you akin to the following:

 

Dear valued client:

 

Thank you for taking the time to partake in Mike Gaite Professional Services Experience and/or MGX Entertainment, LLC. I am delighted to hear that you enjoyed and would like to repeat the Mike Gaite experience. Please rest assured that your initial session or sessions were very special and/or memorable to me. What we shared on that single or multiple occasion(s) was as meaningful, intense, and sexually exciting for me as it was for you! Lo, my beautiful [insert term of endearment], our time together was so much more than sex; it was a true bridging of souls. I know you sensed it, too, my beautiful lover-to-be. My thoughts/prayers are with you each and every day, my sagacious/pulchritudinous/simpatico (choose one) object of my affection. I ache for you, and cannot wait for the thousand dramas that will play out between us on the glorious stage of my superb physique.

 

In order to book your next engagement, please submit full details about your desired location and time. One of our booking associates will get back to you shortly.

 

With very sincere and personal regards,

M. Gaite

Such dry humor is truly a gift. I thoroughly enjoyed the read, Mike. It sounds so familiar to me. LOL

[craigville beach]

When you are in a business where there are many choices, and you are the one chosen, than a follow up thank you is always the way to go. People will always remember those who don't thank them, and not in a good way. When I was in business, I had my staff call the next day to thank the customer for their order, no one else in that particular industry ever did it. While it startled the customer sometimes, they liked the extra touch.

[killianjamesnyc]

I like to thank someone right to their face at the end with something as simple as "thanks for having me." Anyone can send a thank you text. Saying it in person and then a hug is much more sincere. You can read body language and listen to tone of voice, it's much more powerful. Rarely will I send a text after I've already said "thanks..." To me that seems like a little too much. However if I get a text then naturally I will reply

[+ purplekow]

I always send a follow-up thank you akin to the following:

 

Dear valued client:

 

Thank you for taking the time to partake in Mike Gaite Professional Services Experience and/or MGX Entertainment, LLC. I am delighted to hear that you enjoyed and would like to repeat the Mike Gaite experience. Please rest assured that your initial session or sessions were very special and/or memorable to me. What we shared on that single or multiple occasion(s) was as meaningful, intense, and sexually exciting for me as it was for you! Lo, my beautiful [insert term of endearment], our time together was so much more than sex; it was a true bridging of souls. I know you sensed it, too, my beautiful lover-to-be. My thoughts/prayers are with you each and every day, my sagacious/pulchritudinous/simpatico (choose one) object of my affection. I ache for you, and cannot wait for the thousand dramas that will play out between us on the glorious stage of my superb physique.

 

In order to book your next engagement, please submit full details about your desired location and time. One of our booking associates will get back to you shortly.

 

With very sincere and personal regards,

M. Gaite

Mine got lost in the mail. Please forward another.

[LADoug1]

I like to thank someone right to their face at the end with something as simple as "thanks for having me." Anyone can send a thank you text. Saying it in person and then a hug is much more sincere. You can read body language and listen to tone of voice, it's much more powerful. Rarely will I send a text after I've already said "thanks..." To me that seems like a little too much. However if I get a text then naturally I will reply

Killian, you have an absolutely perfect sense of appreciation and protocol.