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FreshFluff Grand Master

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What do you do when a guy who has knelt in front of you a few times checks in with his gf at the same hotel you are staying? I looked the other way and pretended not to have seen him and his gf. But he has seen me and sent me a text message.

 

Sent you a text message asking to get together? Will he blame you if his girlfriend catches him?

 

It's better to see him after you both get back.

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Sent you a text message asking to get together? Will he blame you if his girlfriend catches him?

 

It's better to see him after you both get back.

 

No he didn't send a text message to get together. He merely send "It's nice to see you here too". I didn't reply to his text though.

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purplekow Grand Master

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I do not see why this is any different than running into anyone you have had sex with who has moved on. I have no idea why you would have hidden. If your relationship with him was purely social, I would have walked up, said: Hey funny running into you here. Made some small talk and then bid them adieu. This is assuming you have the self control not to blurt out: "Girl, your man gives great head."

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This is assuming you have the self control not to blurt out: "Girl, your man gives great head."

 

"And I paid for that car he is driving".

 

I was his semi sugar daddy for nearly 3 months. We ended it amicably but we have never been at the same place at the same time until today. I felt a bit awkward that's all.

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Well that is a bit different than the occasional blow job, but nevertheless, hiding is not the way I would have proceeded but having just read the thread on Briggs Myers Personality, perhaps you just deal with the world in a different way than I do.
It could also be that his girlfriend knows all about you and him and he wants her to meet you.
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It could also be that his girlfriend knows all about you and him and he wants her to meet you.

 

Maybe. I don't know. I'll be staying at this hotel for another night so there is always a chance me and him (and possibly her) will bump into each other again.

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What do you do when a guy who has knelt in front of you a few times

 

Awww. He proposed to you. How sweet. You should have said yes! But you think he would have taken the hint after the first two times....

 

http://militarypartners.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/proposal.jpg

 

http://i.cbc.ca/1.2917096.1421597802!/fileImage/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/original_300/michael-sam-proposal.jpg

 

http://www.sherv.net/cm/emoticons/smile/happy-wink-smiley-emoticon.gif

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poolboy48220 Grand Master

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I saw a dancer from the bar that I'd taken home for some fun several times when I was at the gym; once in the men's locker room, once in the family locker room with his daughters. I said hi to him in the men's locker room, he was a bit flustered and said "Wow, my worlds are colliding".

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As I reflect on this, I like what Geminibear is saying and what I jokingly thought....REFRAME the situation from an uncomfortable one to one of possibility, as long as you protect your heart and wallet...

 

Otherwise, if you are really annoyed by this situation, it looks like it is still early enough in LV to cancel and change hotels? With empathy and good thoughts, TR.

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As I reflect on this, I like what Geminibear is saying and what I jokingly thought....REFRAME the situation from an uncomfortable one to one of possibility, as long as you protect your heart and wallet...

 

Otherwise, if you are really annoyed by this situation, it looks like it is still early enough in LV to cancel and change hotels? With empathy and good thoughts, TR.

 

We are in agreement to a point true. Wallet be damned it's Vegas! Sincity! If Oz was a sugar daddy before put the vibe out there. I would rather drop some coin on sex then waste it at the tables. It's like fishing you gotta use the right bait to catch the big ones otherwise you really are just drinking beer by the water. o_O

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Is he stalking you?

 

I personally would have a lot of fun interacting with him and his girlfriend. It's Vegas you guys met at the craps table. See where things go? But that's just me.:cool:

 

No.

 

But you'd think there are plenty of casinos to hang out with and we bump into each other at the Bellagio. He hinted the girlfriend is out and about tonight with the other girls and if I would like to we could hang out. I told him I'll get back to him as I'm watching a show tonight.

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No.

 

But you'd think there are plenty of casinos to hang out with and we bump into each other at the Bellagio. He hinted the girlfriend is out and about tonight with the other girls and if I would like to we could hang out. I told him I'll get back to him as I'm watching a show tonight.

 

Opportunity is knocking OZ man. Are you going to open the door? :confused:

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