Bottoms, how long before you get sore (or bored)?

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

When I was 18, I'd be in and done within five minutes. Over the years I've slowed down to the point that I now need about 45 minutes. Those are 45 fantastic minutes for me, but how long is too long for the bottom?

[gregkidman]

Well...it depends. If both the top and bottom are thinking 'what can I offer to my partner?' then it can be a long time indeed! If one is not fully committed, then 35 minutes max.

Horniness is also a factor.

I usually bottom for two hours with multiple long breaks. Fun times!

[whipped guy]

Well I hate to disappoint you guys, but on average 5 minutes every 5 years. Not my thing. However, I did do it twice in the past couple of months... So based on past history I'll see you in about 10 years!

 

But heck one never knows?!?! There's always a possibility such a situation might present itself and, well...

 

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[Moondance]

The difference between SOREdom and BOREdom is considerable. One can be the ne plus ultra of the experience; the other is something that the slowpoke-but-gracious top needs to offset by allowing his bottom to use his iPhone, read a magazine or watch one-and-a-half re-runs of "I Love Lucy" during your 45-minute fuck-a-thon.

 

OR (better case scenario) ... as gregkidman intimates, if you are not so worried about how much time you require that you forget about your partner's pleasure, your kisses (or, if you prefer, slaps), your verbal skills, your sweat falling on him, your breath in his ear, your power over him (or oneness with him) may make it 45 fantastic minutes for him too.

 

Personally, I'd rather have a go with Older You than with that boy who was In-and-Done-in-Five.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

That varies greatly on position - - and it is usually my joints that cry "uncle" before anything else. I can go longer when I'm face down than when I'm on my back or standing.

[Rudynate]

I don't bottom much, but if I do, I like to do it several times over the course of a session of 2-3 hours.

[rvwnsd]

I depends on my mood and the guy.

[RockyHardon]

I would say it depends on tops and bottoms. I know some bottoms (I think the term is power bottom), who can take dick for seemingly 12 hours a day and be excited the whole time. But, like everything, even a business relationship, I'm sure the connection and sympatico between the two participants makes the difference between a hot and enjoyable 45 minutes, and a sleepy session. Find the rentboy whom you enjoy and who enjoys you is the answer, and make him a regular. Pretty simple.

[JDXXX]

When I was 18, I'd be in and done within five minutes. Over the years I've slowed down to the point that I now need about 45 minutes. Those are 45 fantastic minutes for me, but how long is too long for the bottom?

 

Hey babe,

 

I know this is a strange question so please forgive me, but were you done in 5 minutes because you ejacualated hands free or? I found that most guys who cum in 5 minutes stop cause they've encountered some sort of orgasm whether it's anally or penile.

 

Well...it depends. If both the top and bottom are thinking 'what can I offer to my partner?' then it can be a long time indeed! If one is not fully committed, then 35 minutes max.

Horniness is also a factor.

I usually bottom for two hours with multiple long breaks. Fun times!

 

WHOA GREG - You are quite the pro. Two Hours? Does this make you more of a "Powerbottom"? .

As a total top here, I wonder how long a bottom is physically topped before he's considered a "Powerbottom".

[TruthBTold]

I have just started bottoming in the last year. It seems that if my partner does not care about me or doesn't really know how to make me want to bottom or keep bottoming, the boredom marker is not very far from the start. But if he is trying to please me in one way or another - either because he has the info or I help him get that info, my ass can take what he wants or what I want and I don't even keep track of the time to know how long we have been going.

[AdamSmith]

But if he is trying to please me in one way or another - either because he has the info or I help him get that info, my ass can take what he wants or what I want and I don't even keep track of the time to know how long we have been going.

 

+1

 

Or if he is clearly enjoying my ass, fine with me to keep going and going and going...!

[Decatur Guy]

I get SOREdom before I get BOREdom. If the top is good and didn't hammer too hard right away, I can easily last 30 minutes to an hour. It gets tougher after an hour.

[jawjateck]

I'm not a true bottom because the thought of it and anticipation leading up to it with a hot guy is way better than doing the deed.

[Moondance]

I'm not a true bottom because the thought of it and anticipation leading up to it with a hot guy is way better than doing the deed.

 

Interesting. I suppose plenty of us have had that experience of the anticipation being better than the fuck. And I guess if it was always that way, some of us would just give up.

 

But then along comes a great fuck. I still haven't figured out what makes it great--I don't think it's the cock; is it the man, his technique, your chemistry?--but I am willing to keep researching it.

[Rudynate]

I'm not a true bottom because the thought of it and anticipation leading up to it with a hot guy is way better than doing the deed.

 

 

Me too. I like the idea of it way more than the reality. But, a few times in my life, a top has come along who was a true artist, and the experience was unforgettable.

[Rudynate]

Interesting. I suppose plenty of us have had that experience of the anticipation being better than the fuck. And I guess if it was always that way, some of us would just give up.

 

But then along comes a great fuck. I still haven't figured out what makes it great--I don't think it's the cock; is it the man, his technique, your chemistry?--but I am willing to keep researching it.

 

 

For me, the great fucks were all the same physical type, similar dicks, everything. But then, there was also the secret sauce. I've decided to investigate this. I know an escort who is an analog of the great fucks of my life. I plan to get together with him in the near future to see what happens.