Escorts who are always on line

[jackjackjack]

My first post guys. I have a question. I hired an escort for the next day the following evening for about 3 hours. We were all set. The next day..just being curious...i checked the website he advertises on. .he was on line from morning..... Available the entire day...even a few hours before our meeting. I just felt he was looking for something better. Is it rude? I have had a couple escorts keep checking their messages when with me.

[TruHart1]

My first post guys. I have a question. I hired an escort for the next day the following evening for about 3 hours. We were all set. The next day..just being curious...i checked the website he advertises on. .he was on line from morning..... Available the entire day...even a few hours before our meeting. I just felt he was looking for something better. Is it rude? I have had a couple escorts keep checking their messages when with me.

Welcome to the forum, Jack!

 

I believe it is possible to sign onto some of those sites and if you don't remember to physically sign off, they will show you online, whether you actually are online or not. I would be careful about drawing the conclusion you have, that is, that the escort is hoping for something better. If you have an escort cancel at the last minute who has been showing online all day, maybe you could have a basis for drawing that conclusion but I wouldn't necessarily think he's hoping for something better unless he cancels on me at the last minute.

 

As far as escorts who need to constantly check their messages, if it is so bad as to be bothersome to you, don't hire them again and if you want, explain to them at the end of the session that you were disappointed that you did not remain the center of their attention during your time together. It might make them a better escort, or, of course they might just resent your opinion. At any rate, if an escort does something like that where I don't feel I am getting what he promised during our appointment, I would 1) not give him a tip and 2) in all likelihood never hire him again! JMHO!

 

TruHart1

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I wouldn't jump to the assumption that he was looking for something better. Just remember that he is running a business and providing a quick response, even if it is "sorry I'm not available tonight, would tomorrow work?" is just part of providing good customer service.

[Brad]

My first post guys. I have a question. I hired an escort for the next day the following evening for about 3 hours. We were all set. The next day..just being curious...i checked the website he advertises on. .he was on line from morning..... Available the entire day...even a few hours before our meeting. I just felt he was looking for something better. Is it rude? I have had a couple escorts keep checking their messages when with me.

No way… he should definitely not be looking at his fucking-phone while with you. If anyone says that's business, they're way off. Part of the escort's job is to make the environment not feel like business. When he's with you, that is his business. Your time with him, is your time, not time for him to be wheeling and dealing. I have seen it first hand while being hired with another guy, the other escort checking his messages several times during the appointment, acting like that was just normal everybody-does-it-behavior. One time in particular an escort checked his messages constantly during a three hour appointment, even during sex; not kidding. I couldn't believe the #%#@*%! thought that was acceptable. It's not… or it shouldn't be- in any circumstance during an appointment. It's classless behavior.

[+ purplekow]

One time in particular an escort checked his messages constantly during a three hour appointment, even during sex; not kidding. I couldn't believe the #%#@*%! thought that was acceptable. It's not… or it shouldn't be- in any circumstance during an appointment. It's classless behavior.

"Oh I am so sorry, I must have accidently dropped your cell phone in my toilet."

[rvwnsd]

My first post guys. I have a question. I hired an escort for the next day the following evening for about 3 hours. We were all set. The next day..just being curious...i checked the website he advertises on. .he was on line from morning..... Available the entire day...even a few hours before our meeting. I just felt he was looking for something better. Is it rude?

 

Think of it like this - if you messaged him at 9:00 AM and by 9:00 PM he had not returned your message, what would you think?

[Rudynate]

It's a problem that any service professional deals with - every client has the delusion that he/she is your most important client. As much as I can, I encourage the delusion. My mentor was a client management genius. He had a way of speaking to a client that made him/her feel as if he/she was the most important person on the planet. When I have a client-management challenge, all these years later, I often ask myself, "What would Michael (his name) do?"

[+ dutchmuch]

Checking messages during sex is probably the rudest thing I can imagine an escort doing during an appointment.

 

On the flip side, a masseur told me that he has clients text messages while looking at their phone through the face cradle.

Why have the massage?

[Mikegaite]

the other escort checking his messages several times during the appointment, acting like that was just normal everybody-does-it-behavior.

 

Message-checking 101. Get the client on his stomach on the bed into the rimming position. Kneel on the floor and begin rimming. Massage body using your left hand. Use your right hand to check your messages, keeping your phone on the floor next to the bed where it is out of the client's sight. Be sure to make moans of pleasure to hide the sounds of keyboard clicks. Bonus points if you sneak in a level of Angry Birds whilst rimming. When you are done, slide the phone under the bed (I.e. where the client can't see it), crawl up onto the bed, and mount away.

 

N.B. At the beginning of the session, plug in a deactivated old cell phone somewhere visible. Then it looks like your phone is up on the dresser in plain sight such that there's no possible way you could be on your phone during the session.

[+ WmClarke]

Message-checking 101. Get the client on his stomach on the bed into the rimming position. Kneel on the floor and begin rimming. Massage body using your left hand. Use your right hand to check your messages, keeping your phone on the floor next to the bed where it is out of the client's sight. Be sure to make moans of pleasure to hide the sounds of keyboard clicks. Bonus points if you sneak in a level of Angry Birds whilst rimming. When you are done, slide the phone under the bed (I.e. where the client can't see it), crawl up onto the bed, and mount away.

 

N.B. At the beginning of the session, plug in a deactivated old cell phone somewhere visible. Then it looks like your phone is up on the dresser in plain sight such that there's no possible way you could be on your phone during the session.

Ha ha

[jackjackjack]

Thanks guys for your input. I made a mistake and cancelled our meeting..and he was really pissed. I guess I was afraid that he'd rush the appointment with me and go on to the next client. Oh well.

[+ BigRic]

My first post guys. I have a question. I hired an escort for the next day the following evening for about 3 hours. We were all set. The next day..just being curious...i checked the website he advertises on. .he was on line from morning..... Available the entire day...even a few hours before our meeting. I just felt he was looking for something better. Is it rude? I have had a couple escorts keep checking their messages when with me.

 

IMO it's problematic to conclude the escort may have been looking for something "better." He was likely looking for something . . . additional.

 

But per earlier comment (I agree with Brad), even more problematic is a provider/escort checking messages during your booked session. IMO this is rude. I'm reminded of the criticism of Bush 41 for checking his watch during a 1992 debate: We all know the President is a busy guy, but it still invoked the comment from many, "Do you have some place else to be right now?" LOL.

[seaboy4hire]

If he was online did his profile indicate that he was available during the time you two were together? If so yeah I would prob drop him as well. If not he may have been looking for work after your appointment. Sorry I knew its an old thread but just saw this get bumped back to the top.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[rvwnsd]

IMO it's problematic to conclude the escort may have been looking for something "better." He was likely looking for something . . . additional.

 

But per earlier comment (I agree with Brad), even more problematic is a provider/escort checking messages during your booked session. IMO this is rude. I'm reminded of the criticism of Bush 41 for checking his watch during a 1992 debate: We all know the President is a busy guy, but it still invoked the comment from many, "Do you have some place else to be right now?" LOL.

 

Welcome to the Forum, Ric. Always nice to see an escort provide commentary.

 

I agree with your viewpoint. It is easy to jump to conclusions about what being online means. I had an escort question via text whether I was serious about meeting him when he saw that I was online an hour or so before our meeting. I was merely checking the messages we exchanged in advance of our session.

 

If he was online did his profile indicate that he was available during the time you two were together? If so yeah I would prob drop him as well. If not he may have been looking for work after your appointment. Sorry I knew its an old thread but just saw this get bumped back to the top.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

I see your point, Greg, but there's a decent probability that the escort's status is displayed incorrectly. An escort and I were sitting next to me on my sofa as we were finishing up a playdate and he wanted to show me one of his new pics. When we looked at his ad (logged in under my user ID) he showed up as being available. Clearly, he was not available, as he was sitting next to me and I was logged in. We both laughed.

[BgMstr4u]

Welcome, Jack. Many good responses here.

 

To be honest, I don't care how an escort uses his communications when he is on his own time. It's none of my business. In fact, he needs to be on top of his business, and that means constant communication. His business is to use interactivity to promote himself, and I respect that. I would worry if he weren't plugged in in whatever ways work best for him and responding quickly.

 

But I do care when he's on my time. If there's anything going on but what's between us, that's the last time I see him. I'm not rude about it. No need to be anything but pleasant. I just don't contact him again. If at some future time he might contact me and wonder why we haven't been in touch (not happened so far, but it might), I would just tell him in as nice a way as I can that he seemed distracted by his (phone, pager - back in the day, text, email, whatever) and it made my experience less than I had hoped it would be.

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

My first post guys. I have a question. I hired an escort for the next day the following evening for about 3 hours. We were all set. The next day..just being curious...i checked the website he advertises on. .he was on line from morning..... Available the entire day...even a few hours before our meeting. I just felt he was looking for something better. Is it rude? I have had a couple escorts keep checking their messages when with me.

 

So it's not possible that the escort was trying to set up business for later in the week? Or maybe a couple of hours before or after your appointment?

[Mocha]

So it's not possible that the escort was trying to set up business for later in the week? Or maybe a couple of hours before or after your appointment?

 

I think that's a possible observation.

 

But let's be real, even non escort guys do that. You can go out on an awesome date, fuck a guy, make out, and talk about seeing each other again...and they will be logged on and likely talking to other guys before and after.

 

Then again, one has to factor in the unforeseen. For example, albeit legitimate, I had a client book me for the next day. There was a bunch of chit chat, but he conveniently didn't realize there was a blizzard in town and his flight would probably be cancelled. Which is was. Had I been "online and available" all day, I'd of met someone.

 

But instead I relied on the appointment and stayed home like an idiot looking dumb as fuck. Actually no, I was kinda glad it was cancelled as I preferred to stay in and watch Netflix in that kinda weather.

[MikeCruiseNYC]

hello Gentlemen! I had a very real chat about this issue with my client that I recently spent a wonderful weekend with. It was a great time together & not just for the smokin' hot morning sex. We both shared our perspectives (his as client, mine as escort) about the business of advertising services. He gave me some great pointers I'm going to implement regarding representing myself. He did ask if I was "available" online all the time, even when I'm on an appointment. He knows me well enough to know that I would never stand him up to take another call. So he was just more curious to know why guys make themselves "available" so much of the time. Gentlemen, it's purely a matter of leveraging our advertising dollars to the maximum and reaching as big of an audience as possible. Most websites move your ad to the top (if you currently have yourself as "available") in a variety of their search criteria. Once he heard my perspective, my client totally understood this. By making myself available as much as I can online is NOT an effort to screw over an established, generous & trustworthy client on the part of this well-reviewed, generous and trustworthy escort. Read the reviews Gentlemen! Read the reviews. I also have many clients who look at this online presence as a positive sign of intelligence, initiative and drive by someone they are hiring; as opposed to making it mean something negative.

[ChrisWydeman]

When I travel to a city I keep my green light up the entire time I am there wth the exception of when I am sleeping. Showing your available isn't a sign of disrespect its a sign that I am trying to utilize my time while I am in the city and see as many clients as possible (college is expensive ya know?!). On a site like rentmen we can make ourselves available any where from 1 hour to 6.

 

Your escorts should not be looking at there phone to see other clients while they are with you so shame on them.

 

I am based out of chicago so when I am not traveling I do put my green light up during the week. More often than not when I wake up on the weekend I will put it up and renew it unless I have other things on my agenda for the day. If your worried about desperate escorts a good indicator is very low prices

[jackjackjack]

When I travel to a city I keep my green light up the entire time I am there wth the exception of when I am sleeping. Showing your available isn't a sign of disrespect its a sign that I am trying to utilize my time while I am in the city and see as many clients as possible (college is expensive ya know?!). On a site like rentmen we can make ourselves available any where from 1 hour to 6.

 

Your escorts should not be looking at there phone to see other clients while they are with you so shame on them.

 

I am based out of chicago so when I am not traveling I do put my green light up during the week. More often than not when I wake up on the weekend I will put it up and renew it unless I have other things on my agenda for the day. If your worried about desperate escorts a good indicator is very low prices

That gives me a whole different perspective. I do kind of 'check' a couple of escorts that I'm interested in on RM but I've been turned off by seeing that they always seem 'available now'. I guess I don't want them thinking about the next client when they're with me. But I'll work on overcoming that thinking.

[ChrisWydeman]

That gives me a whole different perspective. I do kind of 'check' a couple of escorts that I'm interested in on RM but I've been turned off by seeing that they always seem 'available now'. I guess I don't want them thinking about the next client when they're with me. But I'll work on overcoming that thinking.

When I am with a client I am not thinking about the others I will be seeing later in the day I am enjoying myself with you! When we have that green light up it means we are open for business nothing more nothing less

[+ Lance_Navarro]

My first post guys. I have a question. I hired an escort for the next day the following evening for about 3 hours. We were all set. The next day..just being curious...i checked the website he advertises on. .he was on line from morning..... Available the entire day...even a few hours before our meeting. I just felt he was looking for something better. Is it rude? I have had a couple escorts keep checking their messages when with me.

 

If I am understanding you correctly, you were concerned he was making himself available for other appointments during the day before your evening appointment? I occassionally have 2 or 3 clients a day, especially when I'm traveling, but I always make sure to give myself enough of a break so that I have plenty of energy and am refreshed.

 

I would encourage you to trust that if he is good at what he does, he will have plenty of energy for you. If he doesn't, don't see him again. Even though a 3-hour appt is pretty long, expecting a guy to not take any other appointments before yours isn't respecting his work and need to make money.

 

In terms of checking emails during your appointment, that is not acceptable, unless of course there is an emergency situation that needs his immediate attention.

 

Out of curiosity, how did the appointment go?

[marylander1940]

My first post guys. I have a question. I hired an escort for the next day the following evening for about 3 hours. We were all set. The next day..just being curious...i checked the website he advertises on. .he was on line from morning..... Available the entire day...even a few hours before our meeting. I just felt he was looking for something better. Is it rude? I have had a couple escorts keep checking their messages when with me.

 

No, he wasn't rude or doubtful of his encounter with you, he was simply advertising.

 

Many escorts simply wake up, log in to RM and click available for the next 6 hours every single day unless they're on a trip with a client, just for promotion. If someone texts them while they're busy, they'll simply call back later.

 

That gives me a whole different perspective. I do kind of 'check' a couple of escorts that I'm interested in on RM but I've been turned off by seeing that they always seem 'available now'. I guess I don't want them thinking about the next client when they're with me. But I'll work on overcoming that thinking.

 

that means they just click twice a day "Available for the next 6 hours" that's all, maybe they get calls or not, but they're promoting themselves for guys who are looking for something A.S.A.P. because they're visiting for work or looking for a nooner, it's just a click away why not doing it.

 

Please, don't take things in such a personal way and wonder too much things you shouldn't, just hire someone you like and have a good time, you'll never know what they're thinking but you'll only be able to tell their "body language".

 

Have fun, and welcome to the forum.

[Hudson Hawke]

Well said

 

 

Welcome to the forum, Jack!

 

I believe it is possible to sign onto some of those sites and if you don't remember to physically sign off, they will show you online, whether you actually are online or not. I would be careful about drawing the conclusion you have, that is, that the escort is hoping for something better. If you have an escort cancel at the last minute who has been showing online all day, maybe you could have a basis for drawing that conclusion but I wouldn't necessarily think he's hoping for something better unless he cancels on me at the last minute.

 

As far as escorts who need to constantly check their messages, if it is so bad as to be bothersome to you, don't hire them again and if you want, explain to them at the end of the session that you were disappointed that you did not remain the center of their attention during your time together. It might make them a better escort, or, of course they might just resent your opinion. At any rate, if an escort does something like that where I don't feel I am getting what he promised during our appointment, I would 1) not give him a tip and 2) in all likelihood never hire him again! JMHO!

 

TruHart1

[AresEscortNYC]

From the opposite perspective, I'd say 80% of of my client inquiries are looking to book the following day, later in the week, or for a specific day a week or 2 out, making the whole idea of "currently available" moot, and almost no one is looking to meet "Right now, this very second!" (What can i say, my ad just doesn't attract the spontaneous crowd:) Lastly, 50% of all inquiries (for whatever timeframe) happen when I've either forgotten or purposefully not indicated specific availability.