Racial diversity in this forum

[Rudynate]

I do not know any Blacks that would spend $300 on an escort..

 

Do you know any blacks well enough to know whether they would spend $300.00 on an escort? I confess that I probably don't. The one black man that I know fairly well certainly has the resources to spend $300.00 on an escort, but I don't know whether he would.

[+ Robster]

I stand by my statement..I mean what I say.....I DO NOT know any Blacks that would spend that amount...that is not racist....just a fact....I do know many Blacks...I just don't know any that hire escorts....Why do you have a problem with that...Should I know some that hire and spend $300?...that's seems what you are inferring......introduce me?

Once again, that's not what you originally wrote. You originally wrote, "I just don't know that Blacks have $300 to spend in one hour".

Do you seriously not see a difference between that statement, and this one? "I do not know any Blacks that would spend $300 on an escort."

 

Rob

[+ WilliamM]

Do you know any blacks well enough to know whether they would spend $300.00 on an escort? I confess that I probably don't. The one black man that I know fairly well certainly has the resources to spend $300.00 on an escort, but I don't know whether he would.

 

My first comment in this thread-

 

I do not talk about how much I spend with an escort unless the amount is pretty high. Even then, I would not tell a lot of people. When it comes to money, anything is possible. But, a person's spouse, best friend, siblings et al. do not necessarily know about it.

[thickornotatall]

Once again, that's not what you originally wrote. You originally wrote, "I just don't know that Blacks have $300 to spend in one hour".

Do you seriously not see a difference between that statement, and this one? "I do not know any Blacks that would spend $300 on an escort."

 

Rob

either way....I don't know any Blacks that will.....would or have spent $300 on an escort...I just don't...so?...should I?...that's my question to you....why is it important that I do?...I also don't know many whites...Latinos...that would....I just don't....maybe I need more affluent friends that hire escorts?.....How many do you know...?...not asking for a list...just a round number....10?...20?...30?...

I am saying exactly what I mean.....I wish more members would be honest about their experience and truths....

[+ WilliamM]

.....I wish more members would be honest about their experience and truths....

 

On overnights over the years, 50% of the escorts I hired were latino and 50% were white. One of the white guys was a porn star. If I had negotiated better with porn guy, I would have paid a lower price. I was thinking with my cork, not my brain.

[Steven_Draker]

http://www.demotivation.us/media/demotivators/demotivation.us_Racism-Is-when-white-IPhone-costs-more-than-a-black-one_132524437767.jpg

 

(humor)

[+ azdr0710]

Christ, makes the notorious "looking for a white twentysomething" thread downright tame in comparison.....

[Rudynate]

My first comment in this thread-

 

I do not talk about how much I spend with an escort unless the amount is pretty high. Even then, I would not tell a lot of people. When it comes to money, anything is possible. But, a person's spouse, best friend, siblings et al. do not necessarily know about it.

 

 

Exactly my point. The one black man I know well, I certainly don't know well enough to know whether he would spend $300.00 on an escort. I have been friends with my oldest friend for forty years, and he doesn't know how much I spend on escorts.

[big-n-tall]

First, to remark on the more recent posts on this topic (and to a degree, all the recent heated discussions on race and preference). What I'll say won't change the world or some people's minds... so here it goes!

I don't think anyone on this forum is necessarily racist. They may say some incredibly ignorant shit, but not racist... closed minded about certain aspects of life and what people "of color" or any race may face, but not racist... type a set of words that are ill-suited for what they truly mean... but not racist.

 

We all have our preferences and prejudices about something... it doesn't mean we are racists or exhibit some other form of bigotry. Yes, there is a measure of institutionalized racism (as well as overt racism) that exists, which partly stems from what people are exposed to (or not exposed to), perception of other cultures, financial/physical power, and plain old fear. People sometimes don't seek the knowledge to empower themselves. They just rely on what is easily presented to them. Which is truly sad. And, of course, there are some racist assholes, who will always be racist assholes no matter what. That's another discussion for another day. People need to expand there horizons more dammit!!! LOL!

 

Which leads me to commenting on the original topic... people tend to like what they are exposed to frequently. Porn is mostly white anglo-saxon. (Hell... fashion, tv, on and on and on represents the "white man's" perspective mainly, but not always.) I can't blame someone's preference on what they see as beautiful solely on racists attitudes. It's like those experiments 20/20 in the 80's used to do where they'd give the little black girls a black doll and a white doll and the majority would pick the white one as pretty. Even though the only difference between the dolls were the color of plastic and hair color/texture. (Ok, now I'm rambling.) Part of it is conditioning, part of it is social, and the last part... who knows. Some even go against the grain and like the opposite of what they are exposed to regularly. Humans are strange creatures sometimes.

 

Perception is changing slowly. It's rough and sometimes there are set backs, as well as major breakthroughs. (Some change is better than no change.) Diversity is great. I like it... be it from the food I eat, the entertainment I enjoy, or the people whose company I keep.

 

So latbear... broaden people's minds. Highlight more"of color" escorts... post pics showing how beautiful all shades can be. If attitudes don't change... screw em. More for you and others to enjoy.

[+ José Soplanucas]

 

So latbear... broaden people's minds. Highlight more"of color" escorts... post pics showing how beautiful all shades can be. If attitudes don't change... screw em. More for you and others to enjoy.

 

Dear big-n-tall,

As I stated in my original post, my intentions are selfish. I am not trying to broaden anybody's mind or pretending to be more open minded than anyone else. When I started this thread I was not sure what my intentions were, other than sharing my impression about a certain lack of diversity here. I am not judging anybody, I am not labeling anyone, and if somebody here labeled me, IDGAF.

What I came to learn as the thread evolved, is that others share my feeling. I also learned that it's easy to share experiences and plans where we spend thousands of dollars in escorts and travels, but not so easy when we do enjoy hiring escorts but we struggle financially and cannot hire as often as we would like to. Therefore, I feel encourage to open threads more often where people in my situation can share know how, experiences, and related info.

If somebody here is understanding that I am into escorts belonging to racial minorities because they are cheaper, you are wrong. There are very cheap white boys out there, and they are adorable I am sure, but my friend in between my legs just do not react as enthusiastically as in the other cases.

[big-n-tall]

Dear big-n-tall,

As I stated in my original post, my intentions are selfish. I am not trying to broaden anybody's mind or pretending to be more open minded than anyone else. When I started this thread I was not sure what my intentions were, other than sharing my impression about a certain lack of diversity here. I am not judging anybody, I am not labeling anyone, and if somebody here labeled me, IDGAF.

What I came to learn as the thread evolved, is that others share my feeling. I also learned that it's easy to share experiences and plans where we spend thousands of dollars in escorts and travels, but not so easy when we do enjoy hiring escorts but we struggle financially and cannot hire as often as we would like to. Therefore, I feel encourage to open threads more often were people in my situation can share know how, experiences, and related info.

If somebody here is understanding that I am into escorts belonging to racial minorities because they are cheaper, you are wrong. There are very cheap white boys out there, and they are adorable I am sure, but my friend in between my legs just do not react as enthusiastically as in the other cases.

 

As the saying goes... You do you, boo. LOL! To each his own and all that jazz. :-)

[Nebost]

A long time ago I belonged to this small consulting team that consisted of one woman, one Black and one Asian, working for a big midwest based company. All the other teams were Caucasian men and women. Every once in a while, the big boss would come an visit and joke, 'Oh my picture perfect diversity team, I'm gonna get you on the cover of our corporate magazine one day!'

 

Why do I mention this? Because here I am again, the token Asian, standing up to be counted on this forum. Some things change, some not so much.

[Johnsalako]

young black/brown/asian men

you on my page. lol but my pref starts at 18 or.............

[+ purplekow]

If you wish to discuss escorts of color or see more of a discussion of escorts of color, starting a thread about why there is not more discussion of escorts of color is probably not the best way to do it. As a result, instead of discussing escorts of color, we are discussing race and racism, which while a pervasive issue in our society, is really not the issue the OP wished to discuss.

My advice to the OP, start another thread and discuss escorts of color. Ask if anyone has a particular recommendation. Ask if anyone has had a good experience.

In general, it is just as easy to do something about an issue as it is to complain about it. So do something. Make a change. Add a thread or several if you like. You may find more like minded posters here. And if you do not, then this may not be the best forum for the information you seek. But by all means, if this is your interest post about it. Here. In the Gallery section. In the section on escorts.

[+ José Soplanucas]

If you wish to discuss escorts of color or see more of a discussion of escorts of color, starting a thread about why there is not more discussion of escorts of color is probably not the best way to do it. As a result, instead of discussing escorts of color, we are discussing race and racism, which while a pervasive issue in our society, is really not the issue the OP wished to discuss.

My advice to the OP, start another thread and discuss escorts of color. Ask if anyone has a particular recommendation. Ask if anyone has had a good experience.

In general, it is just as easy to do something about an issue as it is to complain about it. So do something. Make a change. Add a thread or several if you like. You may find more like minded posters here. And if you do not, then this may not be the best forum for the information you seek. But by all means, if this is your interest post about it. Here. In the Gallery section. In the section on escorts.

 

You are absolutely right, purplekow. As I said, I am relatively new and learning how to fully take advantage of this wonderful tool daddy gave to us. I will follow your advice. Thanks!

[+ purplekow]

You are absolutely right, purplekow. As I said, I am relatively new and learning how to fully take advantage of this wonderful tool daddy gave to us. I will follow your advice. Thanks!

I liked this post because who doesn't want to here those three little words that can get your dick hard in a hurry "You were right"

[+ sync]

Why do I mention this? Because here I am again, the token Asian, standing up to be counted on this forum. Some things change, some not so much.

 

Nebost, please don't feel that way. Like many postings, this one has been preyed upon by misinterpretation and speculation, which however unintentional can generate negativity.

[Kevin Slater]

The disposable income issue makes NO sense to me when it is applied to ethnic groups. It does, however make sense when applying it to age. I imagine that there aren't, one hell of, a lot of 20 and 30 year olds with sufficient disposable income to shell out $300 for a one hour fling with an escort. Now, on the other hand, I am totally convinced that there are plenty of 50+ year old Hispanic and African American men who do have the disposable income to do so.

 

My second and third largest clients by revenue so far this year are both black men I'd guess to be in their thirties.

 

Kevin Slater

[tanman4u]

I just read the original post. My pref has always been towards black guys, but not to the exclusion of any other races. Through my researching potential hires in various cities to which I'm traveling I've found Adam4Adam to be the go-to place for black escorts. Backpage and Craigslist too though I've only cruised their ads and never hired from there. The mainstream escort directories, Rentboy, Rentmen, M4rN, have vastly more white (but not exclusively).

 

That may also explain why you don't see as many reviews for black guys as the ads on A4A/CL/BP don't tend to stay up as long. I know I've hired way more black guys than I've reviewed and that's the reason. I don't think Daddy can/will post a review without some sort of ad to link it to.

[+ stevenkesslar]

Which leads me to commenting on the original topic... people tend to like what they are exposed to frequently....So latbear... broaden people's minds. Highlight more"of color" escorts... post pics showing how beautiful all shades can be. If attitudes don't change... screw em. More for you and others to enjoy.

 

Bingo!

 

Just to ground this observation in some facts and some recent positive experience for LGBT people:

 

http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2014/08/25/three-quarters-of-whites-dont-have-any-non-white-friends/

 

I posted that chart before on the "white twenty something" thread, and I'll probably post it a bunch of times again. It says nothing directly about this website or the hiring of escorts, but I think it's a safe assumption that there might be similar patterns between how people might hire escorts and how they make friends. If there is, we can then assume that the way things work is this: people tend to stick with their own race, and whites do it more than blacks. Why that is is a good question, but if this story is right, it is what it is. As you said, people like what they are exposed to frequently. If you don't make an effort to be exposed to it, you won't like it. So a website in which mostly white people review mostly white escorts will result in mostly white reviewers reviewing mostly white escorts. What a shocker!

 

Quentin Crisp said a similar thing a few decades ago in The Celluloid Closet, and it's remarkable to think how quickly things can change when you actually try to change them. As Jeb Bush said recently, about LGBT marriage, thousands of years of history and culture are changing at warp speed, and he doesn't know why. Part of the reason they changed is we made an actual effort to change them.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s4vcC0V611Y

 

As Crisp said, if you don't like peas, it's a good thing you don't try them, because if you tried them you might like them, and then you might eat them. His comment proved to be correct. Once LGBT couples came out, started getting married, and started moving into places like Orange County, opposition to the unknown and supposedly perverted nature of LGBT couples began to melt away, quickly. As Jeb said, at warp speed.

 

People have said a lot of wise things on this post. If we don't make an effort to change, things won't change.

[+ stevenkesslar]

The disposable income issue makes NO sense to me when it is applied to ethnic groups. It does, however make sense when applying it to age. I imagine that there aren't, one hell of, a lot of 20 and 30 year olds with sufficient disposable income to shell out $300 for a one hour fling with an escort. Now, on the other hand, I am totally convinced that there are plenty of 50+ year old Hispanic and African American men who do have the disposable income to do so.

 

Um, hello?????

 

http://static5.businessinsider.com/image/523890bd69beddb020d28248-800-/screen%20shot%202013-09-17%20at%201.22.26%20pm.png

 

Median income for whites in $57,000, for Hispanics its $39,000, for blacks its $33,000. There are more whites, who have more disposable income to hire more escorts, who tend to be white. Period.

 

Averages are averages. As Kevin's comments prove, averages don't mean there aren't younger black guys who hire white escorts. There obviously are. Fact is, there are a lot less of them. Differences in disposable income by race is a huge part of the issue.

 

Anybody for a new entitlement or charity program? Instead of food stamps or welfare, maybe Daddy can start a program where he gives away "Daddy Whore Bucks" that can be used to hire escorts. (Oops, there's that word again). If they are given exclusively to people with more limited incomes, who usually can't afford to throw $300 into an hour of sex, let alone $3000 into a special weekend, it would probably mean more non-white clients would hire and review more non-white escorts, based on the charts above.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Um, hello?????

 

http://static5.businessinsider.com/image/523890bd69beddb020d28248-800-/screen%20shot%202013-09-17%20at%201.22.26%20pm.png

 

Median income for whites in $57,000, for Hispanics its $39,000, for blacks its $33,000. There are more whites, who have more disposable income to hire more escorts, who tend to be white. Period.

 

Averages are averages. As Kevin's comments prove, averages don't mean there aren't younger back guys who hire white escorts. There obviously are. Fact is, there are a lot less of them. Differences in disposable income by race is a huge part of the issue.

 

Anybody for a new entitlement or charity program? Instead of food stamps or welfare, maybe Daddy can start a program where he gives away "Daddy Whore Bucks" that can be used to hire escorts. (Oops, there's that word again). If they are given exclusively to people with more limited incomes, who usually can't afford to throw $300 into an hour of sex, let alone $3000 into a special weekend, it would probably mean more non-white clients would hire and review more non-white escorts, based on the charts above.

I would be first on that welfare line to pick up my stamp. As we call single dollar bills "Washingtons" we could these stamps "daddys".

In a separate note, Epigonos, regarding our conversation about Eva Perón in another thread, Argentine's monetary authority has recently emitted AR$ 100 bills with Eva's pictures, and these bills are called "Evas" or "Evitas"; like in "Buenos Aires standard escorts fee is about 6 Evas".

[AdamSmith]

 

[AdamSmith]

http://patriotrising.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/10-dollar-bill_0.jpg

 

[+ stevenkesslar]

 

 

Great idea, Adam.

 

Putin Whore Bucks and Daddy Whore Bucks would have one thing in common.

 

You'd be looking at the face of a clown.

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/data/avatars/l/3/3940.jpg?1426977193