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Things that escorts do that would turn you off from hiring them.

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purplekow Grand Master

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I refuse to hire escorts that refuse to see me. If I call and they say no, well I just won't hire them. Now why they say no is a completely different thread that someone should start.

Apart from that, most of my hires are from this site, well reviewed and if I am attracted and I am looking to hire, I do. It is a gestalt thing. So at that point, the only thing that the escort could do is to not want to be hired. Well and to try and rob me at the door. But that was only once and I still do not believe the gun was loaded.

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sync Grand Master

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Identifying themselves as straight deters me from seeking to hire them, but it does not cause me to think any less of them. Many of them are physically stunning and have had many accolades from their clients. It's just an inflexibility on my part.

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So there are lots of things-

 

1. Not kissing

2. Lack of face pictures

3. (Usually) pictures where they are 'flipping the bird'

4. Too many tattoos

5. Excessive piercings

6. Not being pleasant when I contact them

7. Drugs

8. Not knowing the difference between 'dominate' and 'dominant'

 

I'm sure there are others but these are off the top of my (unfortunately bald) head.

 

Gman

 

That's very kind of you. And I will say I've also been with some very handsome bald men before. Two that immediately spring to mind are Ray Stone and Ace Banner. But I think they would be handsome bald or not. However that was one of my best features although I've now been bald almost as many years as I had hair.

 

 

I think this misses the point of the post, the question is what would turn you off from hiring an escort you are considering. You have listed reasons not to consider hiring but you would not consider gentlemen who possessed these qualities. I think the question refers to a bit more after the first contact, you would never make contact with individuals with these qualities.

 

What would bother me is:

 

Monosyllable responses to questions.

Lack of engaging in any kind of conversation on line or on phone and seemingly indifferent to requests.

Not answering questions directly

Taking huge amounts of time between responses. I have learned to be patient because I do know gentlemen travel with clients or upon return sometimes like some time off but I wish they would use their voice mail or auto response features to inform potential clients that they are unavailable.

Asking for a face pic from me.

Requesting fee changes after agreement

Requesting changes to activities after agreeing to them.

A review posted between time of agreeing to meet and the actual meeting and items stated in the review that bring gentleman's credibility into question, such as drugs, a questionable response to a negative review.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Does this mean Miss Grundy caught Jughead not knowing the difference between 'dominant' and 'dominate' too?:rolleyes:

 

 

Was Jughead trying to escort?

 

 

Gman

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thickornotatall Grand Master

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Are you naming any names?

the names are obvious....they all come with every type of ad///cell#/reviews/links to photos and on and on...I don't mind that....What I do mind is the endless "damsel in distress"...always siding with other escorts...Also guys claiming to be mega hung....and showing up with a toothpick...one guy last month says it takes time to grow..after 20 minutes....no growth....must be a hybrid!

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Gar1eth Grand Master

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I don't know. Women do this in photos too. I think it's supposed to mean, "I'm so hot that you'll want me even if I tell you to f*** off."

 

Well, I know I definitely wouldn't hire a woman flipping the bird. Of course I'm at least a 5.9 on the Kinsey Scale also.

 

Gman

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Gar1eth Grand Master

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I'm unlikely to hire the guy with others in the picture that likely didn't agree to be included in the escort's ad. Two common examples are the a selfie from the gym with others in the background and the photo from the bar with his arm around someone who has been cropped out. Tells me that perhaps the escort is not as discrete as I would expect.

 

(The "private" pic with the escort's cock up the ass of Mr. Anonymous do not bother me.)

But it if it's cropped out, what difference does it make?

 

Gman

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I've experienced the random texted naked photos from a guy I've seen several times, but I quickly put the kabbosh on that. The photos were hot, but I leave my phone on my desk at work, and that's the last thing I need people to see. I also had seen a guy in DC (traveling from Miami) and he would randomly call and just moan (which was actually a turn off). I never saw him in subsequent visits to DC. Not sure where he is now, but he no longer has an ad up.

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I also had seen a guy in DC (traveling from Miami) and he would randomly call and just moan (which was actually a turn off). I never saw him in subsequent visits to DC. Not sure where he is now, but he no longer has an ad up.

 

Oh Lord. We discussed him one time here, recall? In my case, after a nice evening appointment together, couple months later he was planning a return trip to my town, and was all over me by repeated text message for several days to COMMIT to seeing him again. Huge turn-off.

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Wow, you've got a better memory than I have (or maybe I just blocked him out). He was definitely an opportunist.

 

He was. Also a creep.

 

The memory of him stuck with me because of the Jekyll/Hyde aspect. Our evening together was just great. Then later a completely other side of him came out.

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Well since I've spent many a nites with an escort and usually Friday's with an over night one the issue that really gets me is texting while we're together, sometimes with new customers looking for his service, or from those in grindr where it shows he's in town. I just think that's not right but alas yet I go back. I show my disappointment, not that I want 100% attention but when we're at dinner and majority of time is sent sending messages back and forth to someone, isn't what I expected.

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Oh Lord. We discussed him one time here, recall? In my case, after a nice evening appointment together, couple months later he was planning a return trip to my town, and was all over me by repeated text message for several days to COMMIT to seeing him again. Huge turn-off.

There's a duo I saw a couple of months ago - I had a great time, and would like to see them again, but right now it's not in my budget. I get texts from them a couple of times a week asking when we're getting together again, letting me know when they're available, etc. It's flattering, and I fully intend to meet up again, but I don't have the $400 to spare; much less the time, with a new dog that I'm still reluctant to leave at home for long periods of time. They're kinda getting on my nerves.

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They're kinda getting on my nerves.

 

That kind of behavior does get old quick.

 

And seeing it in escorts has taught me to tread doubly carefully when feeling out whether one of my consulting clients might be ready for a new project.

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José Soplanucas Grand Master

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I've experienced the random texted naked photos from a guy I've seen several times, but I quickly put the kabbosh on that. The photos were hot, but I leave my phone on my desk at work, and that's the last thing I need people to see. I also had seen a guy in DC (traveling from Miami) and he would randomly call and just moan (which was actually a turn off). I never saw him in subsequent visits to DC. Not sure where he is now, but he no longer has an ad up.

WTF. Are you an escort or a client?

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