Getting back to looking "Pretty"

[Greg Smart]

Except for physical appearance, I'm lacking is getting back to an even tan, fresh face, and now I got hair everywhere. These weren't problems I had just a few years ago. I'm going to jump back in the market in June and I need beauty advice.

[Guy Fawkes]

Being a Twink is a childhood disease that takes a decade to cure. Embrace who you are now; not who you was then.

 

On the other hand your more than welcome to strip down and I'll give you a detailed analysis. I promise not to drool.

[Guest Starbuck]

... now I got hair everywhere ...

 

It's a strange thing about being a guy ... over the course of your life, your hair changes its mind about WHERE it prefers to grow. It's your call whether to shave it, trim it or accept it. I have enjoyed the company of men who have chosen acceptance and, personally, I find it a lot sexier than running my hand over body stubble.

 

My only other input (from looking at your avatar image) is that smoking (aside from other considerations about it) puts you on the fast track to aging your face.

[markpaul]

In this day and age so many escorts shave their bodies. Having a nice hairy torso or legs or ass--will set you apart form the other guys. Most men I know appreciate a more mature man (not a twink) . I never have spent time with a professional who was under 30. Hair everywhere and lines on our face give you character.

[mike carey]

'I feel pretty, Oh so pretty, I feel pretty and witty and gay.'

 

There, having a show tune in the mix can't hurt.

[+ purplekow]

Except for physical appearance, I'm lacking is getting back to an even tan, fresh face, and now I got hair everywhere. These weren't problems I had just a few years ago. I'm going to jump back in the market in June and I need beauty advice.

 

You need to know your target audience. If you are presenting yourself as a mature alternative to the sundrenched boys that spot the escort market, living that assertion is the best beauty secret. So shave or trim the body hair, tan or keep the natural skin tone, keep the hair coifed or shave your head bald, whatever you chose to do, be true to who you are. Present yourself as confident, capable, reliable, fun-loving and your natural sexiness will shine. That is what will make your return the success it is destined to be.

Pretty may help bring them in the door, but the man you are will be what determines whether or not they come back for more.

[MiamiLooker]

A shaved chest can look naturally sexy on a 20 year old; not so much on a 40 year old.

[+ Funguy]

I agree with PK.

 

That being said, there are things that can be done to maintain what you have by taking good care of your skin. No smoking - bad for the skin and besides, it's a turn-off to most clients. The old mantra of "exfoliate and moisturize" holds true even today - get yourself a good scrub and use daily and moisturizer morning and night. They need not be expensive brands. Wear sunblock daily, even if you are not on the beach or in the pool. Get a facial occasionally (by a good, reputable esthetician) so your skin always looks fresh.

 

Optional - botox but you want to keep some "character" lines so this needs to be done by an expert - probably the most effective area would be around the eyes to get rid of the "crow's-feet." If you want an easy way to get rid of unwanted hair in certain areas, use a product called Magic. It is a cream depilatory developed for African Americans as a way to rid them of hair without the bumps they get from shaving. Can be used on the head should you wish to be "bald." It's dynamite also for those of you who wish to get rid of body hair everywhere. Just test a small area first to make sure you are not sensitive to it. These are all simple things.

 

In short, nothing wrong with aging but, to look your best, it does take a bit of work!

[BaronArtz]

A shaved chest can look naturally sexy on a 20 year old; not so much on a 40 year old.

 

That's BS. Entirely disagree. Some 40 year olds have better bodies than 20 year olds. Therefore, they can look great natural, trimmed or shaved. Age has nothing to do with it.

[MiamiLooker]

That's BS. Entirely disagree. Some 40 year olds have better bodies than 20 year olds. Therefore, they can look great natural, trimmed or shaved. Age has nothing to do with it.

Don't get your dirty panties in a twist. It was only my opinion and has nothing to do with the body type.

[Rudynate]

Except for physical appearance, I'm lacking is getting back to an even tan, fresh face, and now I got hair everywhere. These weren't problems I had just a few years ago. I'm going to jump back in the market in June and I need beauty advice.

 

 

Get in the best shape you can.

[adriano46]

To me, body hair is not the main issue (I really enjoy a man who has hair in all the right places, although too much can be slightly annoying, getting it out from teeth every now and then). I prefer men who keep their body hair neat (trimmed, but definitely NOT shaven), although some escorts out there who are true BEARS can be very stimulating (such as Allen Silver!!!!!!). More than anything, it is the body that is "in shape" that is alluring and enticing. I begin with that, check out the face (no opinion on whether clean-shaven or stubble, or NEAT beard - but Duck Dynasty beards are a no-go for me), neat hair (hate men with long hair). Then check the body hair (hairy is a plus; naturally smooth though can also be a turn on with the right guy (especially if that hole is squeeky clean).

[Guest countryboywny]

Give me a natural man anytime. I like the men who make the best of what they have and don't try to alter themselves to fit someone else's idea of beauty. ..but that's just me.

[+ FreshFluff]

I second the daily use of a broad-spectrum sunscreen, especially if you're pale. Also, try prescription retinoids, like Retin A or Tazorac, which will make your skin look smoother within a few months. Use moisturizer underneath at the beginning, to minimize irritation.

[thickornotatall]

moisturize....drink lots of water....walk at least 10 miles a day....rest (take naps)...do not wax...or shave your body...a light trim...keep your hair short....try to be the best version of yourself....and laugh...listen to lots of music....and have at least one dog....

[+ Just Sayin]

Greg, I read your old reviews here; you seem like such a nice guy to be with; I would recommend that you be your authentic self; and the hair--many of like hairy men; I am a devout fan of a tumblr feed called "hot4hairy" and look forward to viewing it with my morning coffee every morning; you will do fine!