New to this. Question for experienced hire-ers

[gwguy]

When you are visiting a city for a weekend, how many different escorts do you hire? Do you stick with one or try to experience all the good ones since you are there?

[+ purplekow]

Depends on the city. In New York, i would try the smorgasbord technique. It will probably be cheaper and there will probably be more sex. You can plan it so there is no down time. Other cities would depend on the quality of the escorts available. I recently was in DC and hired one escort for 2 hours and another for an overnight the next day. The most single escorts i have hired in a weekend was three, two hours each. Since I can usually come twice in 2 hours, that turns into 6 different sessions, though I think it was only 5 as I recall. The six would match the DC weekend and would be less expensive,but I really wanted to spend time with the overnight escort and really wanted sex with both of them.

So bottom line is: How good are the escorts in the city. How horny are you in general. How well can you manage and arranging your timing. How disappointed would you be if one cancels when all you have hired is one.

[Nvr2Thick]

I enjoy variety and I use travel as an opportunity to experience different exciting men. I try to clear enough time on my schedule to meet a different escort every day if, as PK has noted, there are enough escorts available that meet my tastes. I may set one day aside for a good erotic massage. I often end up meeting my first choice, biggest, best escort the first night. On more than one trip the first guy has fucked me so hard that I'm not really up for another top until late in the trip, or not at all. If that's the case I may switch from two hour sessions to one hour blowjob-only sessions. If I have flexibility during the day I may fit in a cocksucking session as well, though those are often when I take my chances on Backpage ads. Sometimes an escort will impress me so much when we meet earlier in the trip that I'll call him back for a repeat.

[MichiganMan]

Lately, and depending where I am headed, I have to contact 3-4 escorts....MAYBE..if I am fortunate...ONE will actually respond......

[+ bigjoey]

Depends on the city and the number of men who appeal to me. The larger cities usually have a nice supply. Then comes the problem of MichiganMan, how many respond. I am going to Orange County this week and only got one response out of four! In the "old days", agencies made the work easier as they always came through and delivered the man on time; while slightly more expensive, I found the agencies a big time saver.

 

If I have a favorite escort, I will hire him for multiple sessions. If he is busy or traveling, then I "interview" several with two hour appointments and hope I find another "good guy" that I can then make a regular.

[Amoco]

Everybody who hires has faced this question and I suspect each and every one of them will tell you that they have had extraordinary experiences with either a single guy that they know and like or sampling from a broad selection. I'm able to travel and hire in 5 different markets to varying degrees. In each, I have one or two guys that I've known for a while and feel extremely comfortable with. I will also keep a running list in my head of guys I want to meet, and when I get to the point of deciding how to proceed, I try to take my own pulse and see where I'm at. For me, two approaches have worked best: if I'm going to spend 3 days somewhere,nI'll usually do a full day with one of my favorites, and then sprinkle in the others with varying appointment lengths. The other option is relying on one of your favorites to hook you up with one of the new guys in a hot threesome. If it works out well, you still have the option to hire the "3rd" for an individual appt...

[Epigonos]

To say that I am weird is to state the obvious. I have never hired an escort for a single hour and am not a fan of overnights – I prefer sleeping alone. I visit various U.S. cities for pleasure, to see a couple plays, to visit an art museum, etc. My visit usually consists of three or four nights. While there I enjoy having company for a meal thus I hire an escort for lunch or dinner and a couple of hours of play time at my hotel. Hypothetically let’s say I’m visiting Boston (have always wanted to go to the Boston Museum of Fine Art), there is an escort there I have been lusting-for for a number of years. I would likely hire him for two sessions separated by a session with another escort.

[namchebaz]

I don't like a full dance card over a short period of time or to eat a smorgasbord. And I prefer to spend extended time with a guy who I've gotten to know over time, and who I feel has gotten to know me. At this very moment I'm sitting in the DC airport having spent 2 overnights with a gentleman I've gotten to know and he's found things I like that I had no idea I liked. For me going in without a list of requirements and expectations and being open to whatever happens has always been really satisfying. And because we've gotten to know each other over time, in between all the sex there's a lot of funny goofy stuff, and talking about real life -- mine and his -- in a way that makes the whole thing 4 stars out of 3.

 

So on the 2nd nite, we brought in a 3rd guy for a couple hours of play and dinner. I realized that's a really good way for me to experience other guys because I felt like I had a buddy who knows me, (and he knew the other guy as well), and it was all smooth and easy, without the awkwardness that I unfortunately usually feel on the first encounter with someone.

 

Just another one of the many many ways to go at this.

[+ azdr0710]

welcome to the board.....look around and find threads which might answer any other questions you have.....this forum is the best out there for this topic!

[gallahadesquire]

To say that I am weird is to state the obvious. I have never hired an escort for a single hour and am not a fan of overnights – I prefer sleeping alone. I visit various U.S. cities for pleasure, to see a couple plays, to visit an art museum, etc. My visit usually consists of three or four nights. While there I enjoy having company for a meal thus I hire an escort for lunch or dinner and a couple of hours of play time at my hotel. Hypothetically let’s say I’m visiting Boston (have always wanted to go to the Boston Museum of Fine Art), there is an escort there I have been lusting-for for a number of years. I would likely hire him for two sessions separated by a session with another escort.

 

I am admittedly biased [being a native of Illinois], but I think the Art Institute of Chicago has it all over the MFA in Boston. If you want mummies, head over to the Field Museum just south.

[gallahadesquire]

Where do you find men?

 

It must be me. I look at ads in city X and: Don't find anyone I like; can't get anyone here to vet the ones I do like;

and the ones I like AND get vetted, don't answer my communication.

 

My week in Seattle just finished was usual. I was warned away from two escorts. The one I liked I couldn't get a hold of.

There were TWO FTM transfers that were kind of hot, actually, but I can't wrap my head around that at all.

 

I contact too early. I contact too late. I contact travelers who aren't there yet; already came and went; and haven't changed

their postings for their time there.

 

Maybe I should just stick to local.

[liubit]

Around 10 to 15 years ago, at the peak of my "hiring career" and my "pre-boyfriend" times, I used to visit London about once a month for slutty weekends. Using agencies (like the extinct Choirboyz or Suited&Booted) and Villa Gianni House of Boys, I hired four to five guys per weekend. My routine then was 1.- Friday overnight, 2.-Saturday lunch time sex, 3.-Saturday overnight, 4.- Sunday morning sex, and 5.- Sunday overnight when I managed to extend the weekend and go home on Monday morning. Boy, did I have fun! I sometimes hired the same guy on different weekends, or I just sampled new talent. Of course, like I said, it happened 10-15 years ago and, even then, Viagra provided help when needed. I don't think I would be able to sustain that rhythm now!

[Decatur Guy]

Wow. I'm still playing in the minor leagues. I don't think I've ever lined up more than one guy a trip. (I've hired two at once for a threeway, if that counts).