I'll make it up to you!

[manTOman]

I bet we've all heard this way too many times. Last minute cancellations are never fun, but I guess happen often on both sides of the spectrum.

 

I'd like to hear if, from your experiences, this ever happens or if it's just a phrase and folks move on.

 

Does anyone actually ever makes up for anything?

[Amoco]

I recently had a 'make up' session set up with a well known NY guy who gets tons of reviews, but it wasn't for a 'no show'. Instead, it came out of an overnight appointment that went south in the middle of the night for no apparent reason. I really appreciated his willingness to schedule it and what seemed like his commitment to it - until the day came, 18 months later, and after getting to his space he told me he 'really wasn't in the mood'. So I turned around and walked out and have refused his attempts at contact.

[+ purplekow]

In theory, an escort does not need to be in the mood, though I suppose it may make the encounter better. Then again, as long as he can do a good imitation of being in the mood, the reality of his desire does not have to interfere with the reality of your desire.

[tom1980]

I've received the make up promise twice. I'll let you know if either promise is ever fulfilled.

[whipped guy]

I've had a couple of make-up sessions from one guy who had to cancel the last minute. The first incident involved the dog being ill... and that was termed a "family emergency". The other had something to do with bailing his sister out of jail. Don't ask!! He didn't specifically reference that one as a "family emergency", but I guess I had to assume so...

 

In any event, he made it up to me in extra time as opposed to a reduced rate. I'm not sure what the difference would be, but that was the deal.

[actor61]

I've had a couple of make-up sessions from one guy who had to cancel the last minute. The first incident involved the dog being ill... and that was termed a "family emergency". The other had something to do with bailing his sister out of jail. Don't ask!! He didn't specifically reference that one as a "family emergency", but I guess I had to assume so...

 

In any event, he made it up to me in extra time as opposed to a reduced rate. I'm not sure what the difference would be, but that was the deal.

 

An escort I had already seen a couple of times and with whom I had a very friendly, very sexual relationship canceled on me at the very last minute because he got a better offer. I liked the guy, and I could certainly understand him wanting to make double what he would have made with me, so I graciously said, "Go, have a great time. Make lots of money." To which he replied, "I'll make it up to you." And he did. He took $50 off the hourly rate every time I saw him for the next year or so. I always enjoyed seeing him and told him often that it wasn't necessary to keep the reduced price permanently but he insisted. Then one day when we had scheduled an appointment, he called me about 1/2 an hour before we were supposed to meet and ranted on the phone about what a crappy human being I was by ripping him off. I said, "I don't know where this is coming from when we've discussed it several times and I'm not going to continue this conversation. I wish you nothing but good things, have a nice life," and hung up on him. I have no idea why his attitude suddenly changed after all that time - drugs? alcohol? psychotic break? Alzheimer's? - but it shook me up for about 5 minutes and then I took his number out of my phone. I never heard from him again, thank goodness, although I did see him in a local supermarket once and hid behind the eggplants.

[+ sync]

Amoco, you reacted exactly as I would have. By him telling you “I’m really not in the mood” he was telling you that your satisfaction would be your responsibility because he told you in the beginning “I’m really not in the mood.” It confounds me that an experienced service provider would ever greet a client with that statement. I’m presuming there was no credible apology for keeping you waiting for 18 months.

[BaronArtz]

- until the day came, 18 months later, and after getting to his space he told me he 'really wasn't in the mood'.

 

Not sure I understand this correctly. The first overnighter went south in the middle of the night, for no apparent reason, then it took 18 (eighteen!) months to schedule the make-up session? is that the gist of it? I wouldn't take that as a serious effort to make up anything. Amazing. I don't think that guy wanted your business.

[down_to_business]

It's like Wimpy from the Popeye cartoon... " I will gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today". Unfortunately, it's always the next Tuesday.

 

No. It's very rare that someone who promises to make it up, actually makes it up. Realize that this is not specific to escorts. I guess you could split hairs and debate over whether someone who promises to make it up to you actually ever intended to make it up to you in the first place- but the end result is the same- it usually doesn't get made up.

[+ azdr0710]

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[TruHart1]

I had an escort whom I really enjoy and have seen multiple times tell me at the beginning of a 2 hour session that he would have to cut our time short by about an hour but asked if I'd be willing to pay him the full 2 hour fee if he added an hour for free to our next get together. Because I'd hired him many times and always gotten my money's worth, I agreed to this if he'd make sure and satisfy me during that 1 hour, for which I'd pay him the full 2 hour fee. True to his word we had a wonderfully relaxed and hot 3 hours the very next time I saw him for which I paid only his 2 hour fee!

 

TruHart1

[+ WmClarke]

I had an escort whom I really enjoy and have seen multiple times tell me at the beginning of a 2 hour session that he would have to cut our time short by about an hour but asked if I'd be willing to pay him the full 2 hour fee if he added an hour for free to our next get together. Because I'd hired him many times and always gotten my money's worth, I agreed to this if he'd make sure and satisfy me during that 1 hour, for which I'd pay him the full 2 hour fee. True to his word we had a wonderfully relaxed and hot 3 hours the very next time I saw him for which I paid only his 2 hour fee!

 

TruHart1

 

You paid for that third hour; you just pre-paid for it. He didn't realy make anything up beyond his standard rate.

[TruHart1]

You paid for that third hour; you just pre-paid for it. He didn't realy make anything up beyond his standard rate.

 

I didn't mean to imply I got anything extra, just that I trusted his word and he delivered on it. I certainly would not have "pre-paid" another escort with whom I had not previously established the trust I had with this particular man.

 

TruHart1

[+ WmClarke]

I didn't mean to imply I got anything extra, just that I trusted his word and he delivered on it. I certainly would not have "pre-paid" another escort with whom I had not previously established the trust I had with this particular man.

 

TruHart1

 

Got it.

[+ overeasy]

Last similar event was a call when I was leaving to meet the escort for our first meeting...said he was unable to make it, but would reduce the rate when we rescheduled. He hasn't answered any emails since then. Ads are still up on M4RN. Deleted his email and phone number.

[manTOman]

It would be great to hear from some escorts as well. I don't think that anyone makes up anything for first time sessions that get cancelled or go south, but I would hope the situation is different for regulars. That's just my opinion but I could be wrong. Maybe the truth is that "make up" sessions actually never happen.

[rvwnsd]

...Does anyone actually ever makes up for anything?

 

Yes. In fact, it has happened to me twice.

 

The first time, a guy I hired several times did not return my text confirming our appointment. I called him just before the scheduled time and he did not pick up the phone, so I assumed our appointment wasn't going to happen. He emailed me later that evening to tell me he was not feeling well and slept the entire day. He intended to text me, but he fell asleep shortly after eating breakfast and did not wake up until very late in the evening. He offered to reduce his hourly rate and double the time, e.g., if I paid him for two hours at the reduced rate he would give me four hours. Indeed he came through and we had a great time.

 

The second time, a different guy I hired several times stayed hard right up to the very end and then lost his erection. He did not charge me for the session and offered to give me two hours for the price of one the following time. He also made good on the offer. Shortly after the second session he retired from escorting.

 

There are good people in the world. It is a matter of finding them.