tom1980

You should've used the Bank of America app to find a stand alone ATM.

ATMs outside of banking locations sometimes dispense larger denomination bills. Some stand alone drive up ATMs in Texas dispense $50s if you take out more than $100. The 1st $100 comes in $20s and the rest comes in $50s (so a $500 withdrawal gives you five $20s and eight $50s).

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I've hired the middle one, "Chris." I've also separately hired his twin brother (aka Luca and Liam Rosso). He's a nice guy, decent massage, and enjoyed receiving oral. In the middle of me blowing him, he asked if I wanted him to cum. I said it was up to him, and he said, "I usually charge extra for that." I told him I only had the agreed amount of cash on me and that I'd be fine without him cumming. When I stopped sucking his dick, he said he'd make an exception for me and asked me to keep going. I was slightly annoyed by the ploy to get more cash, but it was also amusing. I teased him about trying to get me to pay more and then took my time blowing him. I went at least 15 minutes over the hour and offered to cut it off when I realized the hour was up. He asked me to keep going again. In the end, I felt like I definitely got my money's worth.

Some phrases never go out of style; they become cliches. "Throwing the baby out with the bathwater" is no longer a concern (if it ever actually was). Very few people collect eggs in baskets these days. I've never met someone who was actually "dirt poor"; even my grandparents who built their house themselves from the rocks and timber on their own land had wooden floors and slept in beds. And baking technology rendered the "upper crust" of society obsolete a century ago.

I'm into nipples. I like licking, sucking, biting, pinching, twisting, rubbing, and otherwise playing with them, and I like for others to do those things to me (as many escorts could tell you). There's probably nothing that gets me hard faster than having someone play with my nipples.

azdr -- Thanks for the image search tip! I always copy url then go to google images and look it up. Now I have a wonderful, time saving shortcut.

Ditto. He was my favorite CF model for years, and I downloaded almost every video he made (whether it was "gay," "bi," or "straight") until I stopped subscribing to that particular website. Even with CF's change to bareback, I'd be seriously tempted to engage his services. He's about as close to my fantasy guy as I've ever found on video.

I've seen Travis a couple dozen times over the last few years. He's straight but very comfortable being touched and serviced. No kissing, mutual oral, or anal, but you can kiss or lick him pretty much anywhere other than on the lips. When I saw him last week, he said he is getting ready to move to Florida at the end of this week. Not sure if his plans have changed, but you might miss him if you aren't already headed to Dallas.

Adam -- When you are seeing clients you know are HIV positive, do you suck them without a condom? I know the risks of transmitting HIV are much lower when having oral sex, but it can happen. So it seems like a bad idea to blow a guy if you know he is HIV+. Clients say they assume every escort they see has HIV or some other STD (and escorts say the same thing about their clients), but the vast majority of us do not use condoms for oral sex. Maybe we look at the risks and determine that we are willing to gamble, but if I knew for sure that a guy had HIV, I would not be able to suck his dick without him wearing a condom. I'd be too worried to enjoy it. Part of my risk analysis is knowing that few of the escorts I see actually have HIV. Even if escorts have STDs at a higher rate than the rest of the population because they have more sex partners, I know statistically that a relatively small percentage are infected. Because that is part of my analysis, I don't really always act as if every escort I see has an STD. I never engage in anal sex without a condom, I do not insist that the escort wear a condom for oral sex.

To clarify, I was not suggesting that I would have unprotected sex with an escort based on test results or that anyone else should do so. The fact that testing can be anonymous so that an escort could pay someone else for his results or pay someone to take the test under the escort's name, etc. ensure that I will never trust or rely on such results. On top of that, even if the results could not be faked, the results cannot show whether someone was infected with certain STDs (including HIV) within ~90 days before testing. So I would never agree to have unprotected sex with an escort. Any time I see an ad that says the escort does not practice safer sex all the time (e.g., the "sometimes safe" answer on Rentboy), I move on to the next guy. I know people lie and I've seen escorts change those statements from sometimes safe to always safe, but I definitely want to skip the guys who admit to having unsafe sex. In a story similar to the one shared by Lohengrin, I was with a popular escort in NYC a few years ago and it was my third time hiring him. The first time I hired him, I thought he was trying to fuck me without a condom, and I stopped him. It turned out that he had a condom on, and I felt slightly embarrassed. I was glad I stopped him to check, and I definitely was not so embarrassed that I regretted stopping him to be sure. Fast forward a couple of visits, and I did not check. During the first visit he said he always uses protection; so I didn't think I needed to check him. Big mistake. After a couple of minutes, I realized he was not using a condom. Needless to say, I was furious. I was even madder when he started laughing and said I should be honored that I had earned his trust. I informed him that he had forever lost my trust and told him to get out of my hotel room.

I recently had an escort ask me when I was last tested for STDs. When I told him I was tested a couple of months ago, he asked to see the results. I've never received that request before, and I was somewhat taken aback. I let the escort know that I've been hiring for several years and have never been asked to produce evidence that I don't have any STDs. I also asked about his motives for asking (thinking that he might be a con artist looking for personal information he could use against his clients) and told him that the request raised red flags and made me nervous. The escort told me that he has started asking new clients for STD test results before a first appointment because so many potential clients ask to see his test results. He also told me that he wasn't seeking sensitive personal information and that people can get tested for STDs anonymously (I verified this fact and have since obtained test results under the name I use for hiring; but I do question how helpful such results are -- I would not trust that an escort is disease free simply because he happens to use the pseudonym that appears on anonymous test results). I have not yet given the escort a copy of my anonymous STD test results and cannot decide whether I want to hire him. On the one hand, I appreciate his concern for safety and his desire for reciprocity. On the other hand, the request feels wrong to me. I can't figure out why the request feels so wrong. Maybe it is because this is the first time an escort has ever asked. If this was my first experience hiring, then I would probably assume it was standard procedure and wouldn't be bothered by the request. Here are my questions: Escorts: Have you ever asked a client to provide you with STD test results? If so, under what circumstances? If not, do you think that such a request is strange or unreasonable? Would you consider conditioning an appointment on a client providing such results in the future? Clients: Has an escort ever asked you to provide STD test results? If so, what was your response and why did you respond that way? If not, how would you react if an escort did ask you to provide such results and why?